Virgins..Hot..or Not..

[celticirish]

Ok, I was at school today and the topic at the table next to ours got a bit loud. A mixed group (guys and girls) were arguing over wither its a turn on or not to be a virgin. interestingly enough most of the guys were really turned off..
so lets have some opinions from you guys out there..

virgins..hot or not

 

[MelissaOB23]

Ok, I was at school today and the topic at the table next to ours got a bit loud. A mixed group (guys and girls) were arguing over wither its a turn on or not to be a virgin. interestingly enough most of the guys were really turned off..
so lets have some opinions from you guys out there..

virgins..hot or not

I'm a virgin at 23. Yes..seriously.

 

[celticirish]

well dont feel bad ur not the only one.. but the topic did raise an interesting point..

 

[MelissaOB23]

well dont feel bad ur not the only one.. but the topic did raise an interesting point..

It sure did. So I need someone who thinks virgins are HOT, to pop my cherry, so the boys that think they're NOT will think i'm hot *chuckles*

 

[celticirish]

HAHA. thats a good point. i had someone sorta in mind..and well he turned out to be a jerk..and in the end i guess i want it to mean more then a quick fuck

 

[Raidho]

While I don't think I'd *not* date someone simply because he was a virgin, I can't say it'd be an added turn on.

Of course, if folks in my age range are still virgins, I think I'd be wondering if something was not-quite-right with them.

 

[purrbaby]

Hehe, here's a good one for me to post on... I LOVE a guy who's a virgin BY CHOICE. (Some guys can be completely sleezy and not get laid lol) Complete turn on for me if they've chosen to wait. No idea why though.

 

[celticirish]

i would like to be able to say that would be my perfered choice in a guy..but as much as i would enjoy it, its kinda of a turn on for them to have a bit of experience. not that i'd complain if they didnt.
at 23 im beginning to think a meaningless fuck is what im going to end up settling for... either that or a remake of the 40 year old virgin. LOL.

 

[Raidho]

23 is still young, plenty of time to find a good person to connect with.

My advice : Don't settle. Of course, my advice is to never settle for a "meaningless fuck" anyway, but that's just me.

You have plenty of time to change your mind.

i would like to be able to say that would be my perfered choice in a guy..but as much as i would enjoy it, its kinda of a turn on for them to have a bit of experience. not that i'd complain if they didnt.
at 23 im beginning to think a meaningless fuck is what im going to end up settling for... either that or a remake of the 40 year old virgin. LOL.

 

[celticirish]

yeah..and i think in the long run i'd be happier. which is why is kicked the last asshole to the curb...

 

[ShreveportMaster]

Worth the wait.

greetings celtic,
a word of advice from someone who's been there...Don't settle. I was a virgin until I was 24, and I have never regretted waiting for a moment. Any day you want, you can become like them, but they can never again become like you. Virginity is a precious gift to give someone, there's only one of your's in all creation, and there will never be another. Make sure it will be properly cherished, and you aren't just used as a cum dump.

Shreve

 

[celticirish]

thats the point i came to awhile ago.. it just irks me sometimes.. the majority of my friends are married, some have kids, im enjoying school..and being single.. and just being me.. sometimes i just feel like being like everyone else. in love, married, settled down..and others i love the fact that i have no one to answer too.. LOL guess it depends on my mood

 

[purrbaby]

thats the point i came to awhile ago.. it just irks me sometimes.. the majority of my friends are married, some have kids, im enjoying school..and being single.. and just being me.. sometimes i just feel like being like everyone else. in love, married, settled down..and others i love the fact that i have no one to answer too.. LOL guess it depends on my mood

Pst... I waited for his ring on my finger... Shhh, don't tell anyone

 

[celticirish]

Pst... I waited for his ring on my finger... Shhh, don't tell anyone

good for you...

i want to.. i donno.. i think its kinda hot...he'd be the only one..

 

[purrbaby]

good for you...

i want to.. i donno.. i think its kinda hot...he'd be the only one..

It's great. Well, it's even better for me because he was a virgin too lol Awkward at first for sure, but we talk about everything so much he knew what I didn't like and did like, and I know what he does and doesn't like. Being a virgin and with a virgin, isn't a big deal if you can actually talk about it. It's when you don't talk that it's just god awful lol Well, then there are the people that just plain out suck too lol But out of all the people I know, I haven't heard of that many.

Being his only and he being my only feels good. But it's not for everyone. If you want the love and commitment and all that, wait. It's so worth it.

 

[Shmeds5]

hot or not

I am on the fence on this. I would say I have a lot of respect for someone who is a virgin. Would I want to take a virgin.....I dont know. Depends on the circumstances. I have in the past. I was young and I didnt know until she told me after we had sex. Many things come into play for me. It is a big step no dought.

I say the whole person is what makes them hot

just my 2 cents even if it doesn't make sense

 

[celticirish]

It's great. Well, it's even better for me because he was a virgin too lol Awkward at first for sure, but we talk about everything so much he knew what I didn't like and did like, and I know what he does and doesn't like. Being a virgin and with a virgin, isn't a big deal if you can actually talk about it. It's when you don't talk that it's just god awful lol Well, then there are the people that just plain out suck too lol But out of all the people I know, I haven't heard of that many.

Being his only and he being my only feels good. But it's not for everyone. If you want the love and commitment and all that, wait. It's so worth it.

yeah it is something i want, it was just something i thought i was going to be waiting forever for. its hard enough doing school all the time, starting work in sept...being a plus size virgin just adds to the long list of issues.. i donno i think im ranting more on it cause its just been a bad week and these are issues i can bitch about..

 

[celticirish]

I am on the fence on this. I would say I have a lot of respect for someone who is a virgin. Would I want to take a virgin.....I dont know. Depends on the circumstances. I have in the past. I was young and I didnt know until she told me after we had sex. Many things come into play for me. It is a big step no dought.

I say the whole person is what makes them hot

just my 2 cents even if it doesn't make sense

no it makes sense.. its not for everyone.. and yeah the whole person needs to be taken into account

 

[celticirish]

im out for the night.. school comes early.. *pout* hurry up weekend i wanna sleep in

 

[Shmeds5]

Celtic

Nighters

 

[koalabear]

Not hot

You have to explain to them that it is only called a "blow job", SUCK!

 

[Raidho]

thats the point i came to awhile ago.. it just irks me sometimes.. the majority of my friends are married, some have kids, im enjoying school..and being single.. and just being me.. sometimes i just feel like being like everyone else. in love, married, settled down..and others i love the fact that i have no one to answer too.. LOL guess it depends on my mood

Honey, I feel like that and I'm in my 30's.

It's not just virginity that's a precious gift. Sex, period, is a precious gift. Give it wisely.

 

[trixiefirecracker]

I admire anyone who has the morals or beliefs to wait for the right time. I waited a good while longer than my friends who all went for it pretty young (between 15 and 16) and i still sometimes think i should have waited a little longer.

However if you are with someone who has made that choice and they feel that the time is right and thay want you to be their first....well that can kinda be a big responsibility. I don't find it a turn off but it makes you think about if you are doing the right thing or not.

 

[celticirish]

yup, its a tangled web we weave..

 

[may-]

It's great. Well, it's even better for me because he was a virgin too lol Awkward at first for sure, but we talk about everything so much he knew what I didn't like and did like, and I know what he does and doesn't like. Being a virgin and with a virgin, isn't a big deal if you can actually talk about it. It's when you don't talk that it's just god awful lol Well, then there are the people that just plain out suck too lol But out of all the people I know, I haven't heard of that many.

Being his only and he being my only feels good. But it's not for everyone. If you want the love and commitment and all that, wait. It's so worth it.

Awwwwwww...Purr.. that was sweet to read.. <3!!





I refuse to date virgins again.. Lol.