Virgins! (male or female)

[peachykeen]

LOL Mage that is ace! Next time you talk to God, tell her I said she ROCKS

 

[Lust Engine]

Abstinance does not make you better than anyone else. You're 'proud' of your virginity? I hope it's because you realize you should never have children, you elitist fuck.

-Notice: The above message was paid for by God, who says you should never judge anyone else, especially without knowing their situation. Have a nice day.

Wow...I never thought about it as being elitist, but it's pretty clear now! I guess whether you're a virgin or not is just a state of being, nothing to be bragging about. I guess it's fine to have pride in who you are but the second you start bragging about your virtues, it tarnishes you.

It's almost akin to guys who go about bragging that they've got 10" in their pants. So what! Should we adore you for it??

When pride slips into being exclusivicity, it does fit the mold of one fo the Seven Deadly Sins.

 

[Vash]

i'm a 19 year old male, and i'm also a virgin (sounds like an AA meeting, don't it? ) i'm proud of my decision, not because i feel superior to those who aren't virgins, but i view it as an accomplishment. why? cuz i WANT to have sex, yet i don't. for me, it's a mental strength and willpower issue. i don't want to be a virgin because of a religious thing, i'm a virgin because it feels right for me to wait for that important individual. there's nothing bad at all with experiencing sex with just one person in your lifetime. people may say that you get more variety, blah blah blah and whatnot, but if you really understand what love is, that shouldn't mean shit to you. that's my decision, and i'm sticking to it. plus, i love telling people i'm a virgin, i love the expression of surprise on their faces!! the only ones not surprised are my family, who know i've always made good judgements in my life. again, virgins aren't superior to non-virgins, non-virgins are just a lot less stressed, lmao.

 

[Firesprite]

i'm a 19 year old male, and i'm also a virgin (sounds like an AA meeting, don't it? ) i'm proud of my decision, not because i feel superior to those who aren't virgins, but i view it as an accomplishment. why? cuz i WANT to have sex, yet i don't. for me, it's a mental strength and willpower issue. i don't want to be a virgin because of a religious thing, i'm a virgin because it feels right for me to wait for that important individual. there's nothing bad at all with experiencing sex with just one person in your lifetime. people may say that you get more variety, blah blah blah and whatnot, but if you really understand what love is, that shouldn't mean shit to you. that's my decision, and i'm sticking to it. plus, i love telling people i'm a virgin, i love the expression of surprise on their faces!! the only ones not surprised are my family, who know i've always made good judgements in my life. again, virgins aren't superior to non-virgins, non-virgins are just a lot less stressed, lmao.

Hear! hear!
you're right Vash it does sound like an AA meeting.
I'm 26 and I'm a virgin. Next week I'll be 27 and a virgin.
I love that look on peoples faces - its so funny!
I call myself a sexually active and experienced virgin. I would challenge whoever it was on this thread who says virgins are inexperienced and basicly not a good lay. Hell.. I'm told I give mindblowing head and I love it when they reciprocate. My vibrator keeps me sane and my vids, site and Lit keep me entertained. That said, I think that having penile penetration intercourse is (for me anyway - I have no intention of making this a blanket statement) more than just the act of penetration. I want it to be (when the time comes) something that I have "kept" especially for "Him". I have attached my commitment, love and loyalty to it and will give it all to him, and I'm going to be damn sure hes the right one before "hand it over" . I figure a wedding ring is pretty good proof he's serious.

One day my Prince will come - untill then, I'll keep an eye out

Yay GrandMage for standing up and saying what most of us were thinking!

 

[peachykeen]

Vash while I am pleased for you and glad you are so 'in control' of your life, some of your language about mental strength and willpower is a bit scary - sounds like the language I have heard my anorexic/bulemic students use... not meaning to imply you have some greater problem, but it set off a warning light in my head...

Also I don't neccessarily agree that virgins are less stressed - look at zach's posts, he seems pretty damn stressed to me...

 

[peachykeen]

D'oh, just re-read, it's us non-virgins that are less stressed - Ok, that's more like it

 

[Vash]

hahaha, omg, now i have an eating disorder?? if anything, i eat too much! but lucky me, my strangely high metabolism prevents me from gaining fat whoo hoo!

 

[Pinnochio]

I just turned 24 the other day. For the longest time I thought girls never found me sexualy attractive because I am physicaly disabled, but now I know that is not the case. I just go along with life knowing that a sometime and someday I will lose my virginity and I hope it to be a great and memorable experience.

 

[Vash]

smart man pinnochio, maybe that 16 inch nose will attract some women

 

[zach79]

Hmmm...

I go away for a couple of days and all hell breaks loose.

Keyser your post was a bit narrow minded but I'm not going to rant and rave about your opinions being wrong. For they are your opinions, but nonetheless a bit off the beaten path.

To the others I guess I would consider myself an angry virgin, but I'm not going to preach about how people should live their lives. Because the minute we try to control peoples lives (like were inching closer and closer to) we fufill one George Orwell's vision.

Y'know what though, the only time I get pissed off about my sexual status is when I think about it too much so.....

I'm not going to dwell on it anymore.....whatever happens; happens!

 

[peachykeen]

'atta boy, zach

 

[clairepenn]

While I certainly don't think 12 yo's having sex is a good thing, these girls are hardly "dirty whores" and "sluts." They're kids who made a mistake. 12 and 13 yo's might think they want sex, but they don't even understand what sex is. Sure, they might understand the plumbing, and that Dick A is supposed to be inserted in Slit B, but they have no comprehension of the emotional ramifications of a sexual relationship.

As for you not wanting to date or marry a woman who's not a virgin, all I have to say is good luck, dude. Your wanting to marry a virgin isn't the problem. Your comparing human beings to shoes is what's so abhorrent. According to your logic, even widows don't deserve to ever be loved by a man again. Complete bullshit!!!

 

[LostCause698]

All Bout Virginity

I'm 18, been through 3 gf's, and never been kissed even! I'm not even expecting anything with anyone anymore, hell, sometimes it's somethin i actually wanna keep. But yeah, I have realized that my complete inexperience is a huge turn-off for girls, so I've kinda realized that unless a girl can accept that, I'm screwed. But, I've lived 18 years being a complete virign, and it's not impossible to go trhough life being with someone, and to me, if it doesn't happen, and most likely won't (I'm very shy and peeps say I have an attitude) I'll live and be perfectly fine. I'll just own lots of soick in the Lubriderm Company for the fine lotion they produce.