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Good plan miss Buntinggurl.
take yoru time and find a partner that is a good match is a very rewarding thing.
There is plenty of places to "play" safely till you find that one that is interested in you as you are in them.

be well and be happy
Z.
 
Zearth43 said:
Good plan miss Buntinggurl.
take yoru time and find a partner that is a good match is a very rewarding thing.
There is plenty of places to "play" safely till you find that one that is interested in you as you are in them.

be well and be happy
Z.

I am working on it ....do you believe that being happy is simply a matter of 'choosing' to be? Do we choose our mood states?

I have no difficulties finding playmates, but playing 'safely' is difficult for me now, when the world is not feeling entirely safe.
 
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buntinggurl said:
I am working on it ....do you believe that being happy is simply a matter of 'choosing' to be? Do we choose our mood states?

I have no difficulties finding playmates, but playing 'safely' is difficult for me now, when the world is not feeling entirely safe.

Interesting question.
I think that we have some degree of control yes. That is not the same as "choosing," but I think that depending on your world outlook you can affect in a major way how you think, feel and act.

Example: I am at work, a worker is upset about about something major that is in my departments area of resposibility. Lets take it closer and say that they are upset about something I am directly resposible for. said work blows up all over and has a drama scene. Now, I can take it personally that they are attacking my "space," or I can blow them off, or I can NOT take it personally and look to see if there is a real problem, or if this person is just having a bad day.

I took me personally alot of years (not a spring chicken here) to open my eyes that the only person responsable for me is me, how I think, act, feel is a result of how i see the world and how I think the world sees me.

When the ex left me, I choose to left her actions affect me in a major way. some of it was active choosing, other parts passive choosing. but in the end where i am at now is that people do things, i do things, somewhere in all that is interaction. I have the option to let it affect me, and how it affects me.

sort of long winded and i hope that helps a small bit.

and yes i understand your fears now about playmates, all i can suggest is that you take a deep breath, relax it out and wait. stick to yahoo for a bit if you enjoy it or chat here on this chat area again. what ever you find that makes you smile and keeps you feeling "safe" and happy.

Z.
 
Seattle Here and waiting to chat

Anyone wanting to chat and or talk via phone about erotic posts and pics on lit give me a shout. I'd love to connect and even visit in person about all that we like and want.

Cheers!
 
Hello BG ( since you seem to be in the spotlight lately) and others.
Why yes, I do have cream (snicker). It's good to see that you can have a lighter side. Keep smilin'

Lots of friendly (I hope) advice out there. Just be careful and take your time. As my name implies, I am 2addickted (not saying to what, you'll have to find out), but I am also 2fun and 2reliable and often times feel 2old, but I'm gonna LIVE until I die. Not looking, or lurking, but having fun from a distance. This is new to me too, and so far lots of fun.

From what I've read from you, it seems that you have made a decision, which is your first postive step. But don't forget to choose where you want to go, or someone will make that decision for you. Walk, don't run. And don't forget to stop and savor the outrageously sublime moments.

Enough of that. I'll think of you next time I smell the coffee. Enjoy 2day
 
Holy Mike there are a ton of Washingtonians!!! :nana:
I didnt sort through all of the posts yet BUT
Here is me and I am in Finley... East (of) Kennewick :kiss: :kiss:
 
hey i am taking off

for a week without my laptop. can i count on all of you writers to keep the home fires burning, and this thread going?

i will look forward to meeting as many of you who will be able to attend the gathering at the end of this month.

until then be well, be peaceful, be kind, be good...very very good.

:D
 
Just giving this thread a bump and a post.

22 year old Male, living in the Olympia/Lacey area
 
buntinggurl said:
,,,i lost my virginity sometime yesterday~ how shall we celebrate ??
We help you get to 100 posts so you can post an av.

Congrats. Can't wait to meet you.
 
a wild and crazy time

Azuldrgon said:
We help you get to 100 posts so you can post an av.

Congrats. Can't wait to meet you.


so here i am in cozumel, mexico...in a few minutes i am hopping a cab to meet some diving buddies i met here at a dive shop at the best disco in town, señor frogs. do they have any idea how wild i am ?? lol i have no plans to do anything but dance but that will be enough fun for me...in cozumel, with friendly hispanic people, and i left my mom home at the resort to sleep in blissful ignorance.

no, wait, dressed as i am tonight she cannot be too ignorant lol.

i had one piece of poetry accepted and published here, but my other two pieces were considered too short and were denied. i will ´flesh them out´and resubmit them.

thank you for your kind words. i will be home on easter sunday morning.
 
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buntinggurl said:
so here i am in cozumel, mexico...in a few minutes i am hopping a cab to meet some diving buddies i met here at a dive shop at the best disco in town, señor frogs. do they have any idea how wild i am ?? lol and i cannot get a hold of my favorite man online, so i am thinking he is out having his own sexual adventures, since he lives this way. it causes me pain at times knowing that i am not enough..but i do have his mind and his heart and at times his cock. i have no plans to do anything but dance but that will be enough fun for me...in cozumel, with friendly hispanic people, and i left my mom home at the resort to sleep in blissful ignorance.

no, wait, dressed as i am tonight she cannot be too ignorant lol.

i had one piece of poetry accepted and published here, but my other two pieces were considered too short and were denied. i will ´flesh them out´and resubmit them.

thank you for your kind words. i will be home on easter sunday morning.
I understand about the poetry. I have never posted mine here cause I never thought about it honestly. I have ten stories accepted and one rejected one due to length. So I know that feeling too.
Have a safe trip back. :kiss:
 
Tri-Cities area

Well this is the first time I have posted. I just wanted to say hello and introduce myself. Figured what the hell I would drop a picture in here too. :) Hope everyone is enjoying the weird weather we are having this spring and I am glad to have found this thread.
 
hi is anyone interested

in doing some clubbing satuday night? ...would be great to find a group and go dancing after dinner.

any ideas?

looking forward to it.
 
buntinggurl said:
in doing some clubbing satuday night? ...would be great to find a group and go dancing after dinner.

any ideas?

looking forward to it.
I haven't had time to look into it, so it'd be wonderful if you had some ideas of where to go after. :rose:
 
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