What are your love languages?

[FurryFury]

The Captains Wench,

I also enjoy giving gifts and services to the people I care about even though these things don't much interest me to receive and are not my receiving love language at all.

 

[ownedsubgal]

words of affirmation...8
quality time................10
receiving gifts.............1
acts of service.............3
physical touch.............8


there were a few questions where neither choice was really appealing, so i just went with what was least uncomfortable...like no. 23: i don't need to receive any gifts and i'm appalled at the idea of him helping me out with chores, lol.

i'm actually somewhat surprised my score for quality time didn't come out even higher...that is something i need in super high doses, just his time.

 

[Etoile]

23% Words of Affirmation 7
27% Quality Time 8
20% Receiving Gifts 6
7% Acts of Service 2
23% Physical Touch 7

No big surprises to me. Acts of service are my job, not hers! The rest is pretty much equal. I think I like gifts because she always puts so much thought into them...I like that she was thinking carefully about me even when I wasn't there.

 

[BiBunny]

I've taken these before, and I know what order they come in. Quality time, physical touch, words of affirmation, gifts, and acts of service. I think I'll take it again, though, and see exact percentages.

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40% Quality Time 12
27% Physical Touch 8
17% Words Of Affirmation 5
13% Receiving Gifts 4
3% Acts Of Service 1

This is/was a major point of contention in my not-relationship. Quality time =/= making me sit in the living room and watch something on TV I'm completely not interested in with you. There's a line in a 3 Doors Down song that goes "There's a difference in spending time with me and killing time while I'm there." They didn't get it.

 

[susanr33]

Words of Affirmation 33%
Quality Time 30%
Receiving Gifts 3%
Acts of Service 17%
Physical Touch 17%

With all the gift choices, I thought it was contestant application for "Let's Make A Deal"

 

[bambikiller]

30% on acts of service
30% on physical touch
0% on gifts
I forgot what the other one was, it was like 17%

I think your quiz was aming towrds a submissive female.
Being a dominate male I thought a lot of the questions didn't apply.

If you were to ask me out right I'd say 100% physical touch.
I.E. a girl I dated, we would sit on the couch watching T.V. and talk and the whole time (2 hours) my finger would be in her pussy.
A lot of the time we wouldn't even have sex that was just how I would be with her.
Physical contact.
Me being slanted towards the B&D side of course serving me would turn me on too.
Gifts, no I was brought up that a man gave the girl a gift not the other way around.
On my birthday or such I'd much rather have a girl make me dinner that she would serve in a sexy out fit than have her buy me something.
(I'd sugest this this to all my girl friends only one did)
But may be that's just me.

 

[BiBunny]

30% on acts of service
30% on physical touch
0% on gifts
I forgot what the other one was, it was like 17%

I think your quiz was aming towrds a submissive female.
Being a dominate male I thought a lot of the questions didn't apply.

If you were to ask me out right I'd say 100% physical touch.
I.E. a girl I dated, we would sit on the couch watching T.V. and talk and the whole time (2 hours) my finger would be in her pussy.
A lot of the time we wouldn't even have sex that was just how I would be with her.
Physical contact.
Me being slanted towards the B&D side of course serving me would turn me on too.
Gifts, no I was brought up that a man gave the girl a gift not the other way around.
On my birthday or such I'd much rather have a girl make me dinner that she would serve in a sexy out fit than have her buy me something.
(I'd sugest this this to all my girl friends only one did)
But may be that's just me.

The quiz has nothing to do with being dominant or submissive.

 

[Etoile]

I.E. a girl I dated, we would sit on the couch watching T.V. and talk and the whole time (2 hours) my finger would be in her pussy.

Did it get all pruny?

The quiz has nothing to do with being dominant or submissive.

Or male or female.

 

[bambikiller]

No Etoile you stayed wet.

 

[BiBunny]

Or male or female.

That, too.

It's really funny when you consider that the book from whence the whole "love languages" thing came was written by a Baptist preacher.

 

[Etoile]

No Etoile you stayed wet.

Wow, what is this, 10th grade?

 

[susanr33]

I don't know how I got tagged with a gift mark. Not that I don't appreciate a certain kind of gift but a gift rarely makes me feel good. A friend of mine gave me a painting today that she had an artist do just for me. I was pleased that she thought of me and went through the trouble of having it made more than I was pleased with the painting. The painting is beautiful but her thoughtfulness is priceless.

 

[Etoile]

I don't know how I got tagged with a gift mark. Not that I don't appreciate a certain kind of gift but a gift rarely makes me feel good. A friend of mine gave me a painting today that she had an artist do just for me. I was pleased that she thought of me and went through the trouble of having it made more than I was pleased with the painting. The painting is beautiful but her thoughtfulness is priceless.

Yes! That's my feeling exactly. I don't care what the gift is, only that she was out and about and thought "oh, Etoile would like this" or whatever.

 

[bambikiller]

Wow, what is this, 10th grade?

I didn't think I was being offensive you asked a question being humorus and I thought I would reply humerously.

Now you are offended.
Just a joke back.
And no I'm not in the 10th grade I didn't make it that far.

 

[Etoile]

I didn't think I was being offensive you asked a question being humorus and I thought I would reply humerously.

Now you are offended.
Just a joke back.
And no I'm not in the 10th grade I didn't make it that far.

Fair enough. It sounded like a juvenile jab to me, but if you didn't mean it that way, then no harm done.

10th grade was an approximation - I was going to say "what is this, 3rd grade?" but then I realized 3rd graders had better not be talking about wet pussy. http://www.amanita.net/images/smilies/eek.gif

 

[Soumis]

Quality Time 33%
Words of Affirmation 27%
Acts of Service 17%
Physical Touch 13%
Receiving Gifts 10%

Hmm...

 

[Lizzie_Borden]

Words of Affirmation 23%
Quality Time 30%
Receiving Gifts 3%
Acts of Service 13%
Physical Touch 30%

So I'm apparently "bi-lingual" in that I need quality time as much as touch.

Quality time and touch were my biggest ones as well at 27%
Then 23% for words of affirmation, a close second
17% for receiving gifts
7% acts of service


I'd agree that I do very much need quality time.. and I'm a tactile person, I enjoy just being in his presence, and it gives me a real boost when he tells me I'm doing well at something.

I love getting presents! But I don't expect them all the time, I just love the surprise, and the 'I was thinking of you' bits. Bit I love giving them more. I've had Mr's next birthday present picked out 6 months ahead of time.

I probably scored a little higher than some on the acts of service, because I *do* appreciate it when he does the "I'm the man' bit, and changes lightbulbs cos I'm too scared to stand on a chair without something to hold on to.

 

[FurryFury]

I'll admit as independent as I usually am, I do expect my man to look under the hood now and then. Usually I prefer to do the acts of service.

I like gifts that show thought, not money spent. I don't seek gifts though. I do adore finding the perfect gift for someone.

FF

 

[Mohousewife]

I pretty much agree. Words of Affirmation is important to me. Acts of Service would be a close second, I want action to back up those words, lol. Thirdly, Physical Touch, I love to be touched

So those would be my top three

Depends who's doing the touching

 

[Mohousewife]

Test results...
Quality Time and Words of Affirmation...are tied for first place.
Physical Touch
Acts of Service....I want actions to back up those words, also.
Receiving Gifts

Could receiving gifts be part of physical touch? ....LOL

 

[FurryFury]

Wrong thread. Hey! Where's my head?!?

 

[FurryFury]

Test results...
Quality Time and Words of Affirmation...are tied for first place.
Physical Touch
Acts of Service....I want actions to back up those words, also.
Receiving Gifts

Could receiving gifts be part of physical touch? ....LOL

I would think it could!

 

[midwestyankee]

Wrong thread. Hey! Where's my head?!?

Good question. I haven't had any good head in weeks either.

 

[FurryFury]

Good question. I haven't had any good head in weeks either.

Head?

Oh yes. I remember it well.

Try years since I've had good head. Decades even.

 

[zombey123]

20%
Words of Affirmation 6
33%
Quality Time
10
0%
Receiving Gifts
17%
Acts of Service 5
30%
Physical Touch 9