What exactly turns you on about your wife or girlfriend being with another man? Past or Present?

I shared my ex partner with another guy we met at a sex party. We went in the play room with him twice that night.

For me, there were many things about it that turned me on.

At first, before we decided to go to the playroom, it was just seeing how beautiful she looked while he was kissing her and stroking his hand under her summer dress... watching her face as he touched her gently and intimately.

Later, it was seeing someone else enjoy touching her gorgeous body... how good he treated her and how open she was to him.

When he lay her down and fucked her, it was amazing being there for her... holding her hand as she wrapped her legs around him.
She came so intensely that she cried a little after they had finished (in a good way!). Seeing him cumming inside her, and knowing exactly how good it feels to be where he was.

The second time we played together, I watched her make him cum with her mouth.... It was the most beautiful, playful and erotic thing I've ever seen, and I loved watching him bulge up just before spurting on her face.

I guess for me, a lot of it is identifying with the other guy's pleasure, and of a couple sharing something so intimate.
 
I shared my ex partner with another guy we met at a sex party. We went in the play room with him twice that night.

For me, there were many things about it that turned me on.

At first, before we decided to go to the playroom, it was just seeing how beautiful she looked while he was kissing her and stroking his hand under her summer dress... watching her face as he touched her gently and intimately.

Later, it was seeing someone else enjoy touching her gorgeous body... how good he treated her and how open she was to him.

When he lay her down and fucked her, it was amazing being there for her... holding her hand as she wrapped her legs around him.
She came so intensely that she cried a little after they had finished (in a good way!). Seeing him cumming inside her, and knowing exactly how good it feels to be where he was.

The second time we played together, I watched her make him cum with her mouth.... It was the most beautiful, playful and erotic thing I've ever seen, and I loved watching him bulge up just before spurting on her face.

I guess for me, a lot of it is identifying with the other guy's pleasure, and of a couple sharing something so intimate.

Nicely written thank you. I identify with that part about the other guys sheer pleasure.

I never allowed an ex have full sex with someone else while I was there but the watched intensely as one ex finished off a guy with her hand. It has been one of the most erotic and hottest experiences because I could identify for the pleasure he was getting. She was just like how she was with me..hot, seductive, sexy, enthusiastic. She looked so sexy very beautiful, he would have been overwhelmed by her appearance.
I found the lead up to the handjob most enjoyable to watch. The heavy petting, kissing, intimacy, the touching of each other and the moans of excitement especially from her most arousing.

She didn't hold back on him, so the most part was her excitement and then his pleasure.

Its considerably a lot hotter that than an porn!
 
Everything about it turns me on. Watching her and or hearing the stories about her activities. Seeing her being pleasured by another guy and her having the strongest orgasms she ever had i find the most exciting, i do enjoy the humiliation submissivness of it all. Nothing makes me happier than seeing her pleasure and excitment. And even afterwards togeather is the hottest moment ever.
 
Everything about it turns me on. Watching her and or hearing the stories about her activities. Seeing her being pleasured by another guy and her having the strongest orgasms she ever had i find the most exciting, i do enjoy the humiliation submissivness of it all. Nothing makes me happier than seeing her pleasure and excitment. And even afterwards togeather is the hottest moment ever.
That's exactly what happened with my situation.
After he left I swapped place with him, sitting exactly where was sitting.

I was then able to experience the pleasure he just experienced a moment earlier. And her enthusiasm and excitement and my intense desire carried through.

It was incredible I must say;)
 
That's exactly what happened with my situation.
After he left I swapped place with him, sitting exactly where was sitting.

I was then able to experience the pleasure he just experienced a moment earlier. And her enthusiasm and excitement and my intense desire carried through.

It was incredible I must say;)
Nice
 
We only did it once and it wasn’t planned,it was a massage that went too far, and miscommunication, but it was watching him fucking her with his huge cock in different positions and her taking it well for the size.
Can we ask you what "miscommunication" mean?
 
Well, I knew them as a couple, and she told me, in no uncertain terms, that he was her best lover. She ALWAYS had orgasms with him. She loved his cock and she loved getting fucked by him.She told me some of the things they did together.
Were you involved with her?
 
My wife and I never screwed around. Talked about "swapping" in the 70s, but never did.

But now as an old widower, I've been lucky enough to find a completely uninhibited FWB. Being able to talk back and forth about fucking others is absolutely liberating! No sense of cheating or being cheated on--we encourage each other and dish like high school besties! And then enjoy our naked selves with each other! Planning to head to a nudist lifestyle club if we can both find our way past old-person limits at the same time!
We can talk this weekend
 
And if she can tell during your lovemaking what she's experienced and arouses her.....a real turn on:)
After reading the posts here, I now believe that the real turn when we guys think about what turns us on is watching her pleasuring another man and her getting off on doing so. And him getting off on experiencing another man's girl.
 
After reading the posts here, I now believe that the real turn when we guys think about what turns us on is watching her pleasuring another man and her getting off on doing so. And him getting off on experiencing another man's girl.
Intriguing
 
Its only been one occasion for me but the rest remains a fantasy. I just loved seeing the interaction between her and other guy and the desire in his eyes when he first saw her plus how excited she was during the act. The desire I had for her afterwards was incredible.
So all this fantasy and some real all stemmed mainly from watching this particular ex make out with this random stranger and then finish this guy off with her hand.
 
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