What exactly turns you on about your wife or girlfriend being with another man? Past or Present?

[dingdongditchding]

I think for me the the ultimate is when she takes his pants down and looks at his cock the for the first time

it would be for me too and for her to ask for help sucking his cock

 

[BillyWalrus]

What exactly turns you on about your wife or girlfriend being with another man? Past or Present?

Nothing about it turns me on. I may be the only guy on Lit who feels this way

 

[Nellie60]

What exactly turns you on about your wife or girlfriend being with another man? Past or Present?

Nothing about it turns me on. I may be the only guy on Lit who feels this way

Thanks for your honest opinion. Its definitely not for everyone.

I not sure if humiliation comes into it. When I watched her make out with this other man, many emotions happened. In fact as soon as I saw her sit next to him in the backseat my mind went into overdrive. It was too late to change my mind, I wanted to watch.

She hasn't been with anyone else for about 2 years. I can describe it as "jealous pleasure"

Thoughts of her being with her past boyfriends to how will she be with someone different. Because I was watching, will it turn her on more...yes it looked way. Part of the turn on factor was the familiarity of how she made out with him and act itself was immensely erotic.

I guess that was the part of feeling humiliation?
The fact that another man was experiencing her.

It wasn't because he maybe bigger than you, which is a common theme here . He may have been smaller but the thrill would have been the same.

Watching the moment she exposed his cock for the first time then her hand touching it felt both exciting and humiliation?

Am I in the right direction?

 

[BillyWalrus]

Thanks for your honest opinion. Its definitely not for everyone.

I not sure if humiliation comes into it. When I watched her make out with this other man, many emotions happened. In fact as soon as I saw her sit next to him in the backseat my mind went into overdrive. It was too late to change my mind, I wanted to watch.

She hasn't been with anyone else for about 2 years. I can describe it as "jealous pleasure"

Thoughts of her being with her past boyfriends to how will she be with someone different. Because I was watching, will it turn her on more...yes it looked way. Part of the turn on factor was the familiarity of how she made out with him and act itself was immensely erotic.

I guess that was the part of feeling humiliation?
The fact that another man was experiencing her.

It wasn't because he maybe bigger than you, which is a common theme here . He may have been smaller but the thrill would have been the same.

Watching the moment she exposed his cock for the first time then her hand touching it felt both exciting and humiliation?

Am I in the right direction?

God knows if you are in the right direction but I would have absolutely zero desire to see anything that you have described.

 

[Nellie60]

God knows if you are in the right direction but I would have absolutely zero desire to see anything that you have described.

Thanks for you honesty...so you don't get hard when you see your wife touching another man's cock?

 

[zoso682001]

Thanks for you honesty...so you don't get hard when you see your wife touching another man's cock?

He did say he may be the only one here that doesn't enjoy even thinking about it .

 

[BillyWalrus]

Thanks for you honesty...so you don't get hard when you see your wife touching another man's cock?

Really? I am glad that you and your wife get such pleasure from this sort of thing.