What Have You Learned About Yourself Recently??

How a little break means so much—I always forget this until I stop and take a rest.
 
I am terrible at asking for what i need. :mad:

It makes me very uncomfortable, and doesn't turn me on even a little.
 
That I’m not as bad at being in charge as I feared I was.

I’m learning a lot about myself at the moment, a lot is changing in my life!
 
That I’m not as bad at being in charge as I feared I was.

I’m learning a lot about myself at the moment, a lot is changing in my life!

That I like seeing people that are stretching themselves...and being successful at it...even if I see it from afar... :rose:
 
That I like seeing people that are stretching themselves...and being successful at it...even if I see it from afar... :rose:

Thank you! I’ve been doing a lot of new things this week, and picking them up pretty quickly. My last job just wasn’t for me, and making a change is helping me to find myself and get my motivation back! I’m having to manage people more than I have before, so the learning/personal development curve doesn’t stop here ;)
 
Thank you! I’ve been doing a lot of new things this week, and picking them up pretty quickly. My last job just wasn’t for me, and making a change is helping me to find myself and get my motivation back! I’m having to manage people more than I have before, so the learning/personal development curve doesn’t stop here ;)

I will send you a PM about MY first supervisor position....:D
 
That being brave is worth it.

That I am stronger than I thought.

That I can be happy; I just have to be willing to fight for it.
 
That being brave is worth it.

That I am stronger than I thought.

That I can be happy; I just have to be willing to fight for it.

That is awesome! I think that's the same for me too!

I am picking up the pieces from having some big changes, and from things that I am trying to change. I once read that successful people constantly reinvent themselves. I think I really like doing that.
 
That is awesome! I think that's the same for me too!

I am picking up the pieces from having some big changes, and from things that I am trying to change. I once read that successful people constantly reinvent themselves. I think I really like doing that.

It’s scary, but at the same time it’s the best feeling!
 
I get caught up in the cause more than I do the people involved.
 
That it's alright to be curious and want to know more. There are some wonderful people here who are amazingly kind souls with lots of patience and understanding.
That i should stop regulating, filtering, fixing, editing the thoughts and words that spring to my mind, during odd interactions. And it is often the goofiness that sparks the beginning of a new friendship.
That i am strong enough to choose my priorities. It's a choice between lurking on lit vs what i should be doing. It's always a choice.😂
That it's ok to say no.
 
I’m not as bad as i thought i was. The battle scars (literally) are now a source of pride and I shouldn’t be ashamed of them.
 
That I’m human and I’m allowed to have feelings and to make mistakes. That I’m so tired of fear, that I now speak my mind - something I never imagined I’d ever be able to do!

I’m getting a lot better at handling difficult people. I’m not the person I was a year ago, I’m no longer the same person I was when my mum died, she wouldn’t even recognise me now, which is sad in a way - but these changes needed to happen.

Sometimes I hear the things I say, and see my reactions to things, and shock myself with my strength!

I’ve also learned that I’m able to care about someone deeply. I never thought I could trust someone so openly that their absence would literally break me.

But I’ve always been one to make great things happen, once I get a taste of rock bottom. It’s all upwards from here!
 
That I stand by my convictions and when I say ‘don’t ever lie to me or I’m gone’, I mean it. Well, meant it. The future’s so bright I gotta wear shades. 😎
 
That I really need to trust my feelings more and believe in myself and my ability to keep what I want and say no to the ones who really don't give a shit.
 
I've learned that I am not the only one feeling the way I do, this thread has a lot of what I am feeling too, and that makes me feel ok, like I'm not alone in how I'm thinking.
 
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