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Lady Cassandra said:My God, I never expected such a tremendous outpouring of empathy and positive affirmation. Wow. Excuse me while I fall into my chair and struggle to find a balance. Whoa.
I asked for honesty and I got it and I thank everyone for their feedback. For the record, I'm quite tall (6'1") and definitely not overweight. However, I do "bundle." I slump or hunch in a chair which is typically too short for me anyway.Bad for the back but I understand that is my reaction to a subconsious desire to be more - normal.
Several of you have commented to me either in posts or via email about my man possibly having some sort of feelings of inadequacy. I mulled over that concept and talked to him at length last night - he's in another country right now. Bingo.
He's 11 years older than me and now he is feeling that he is "too old" for someone like me. Huh? What? Sorry to be so vocal but to me love and attraction does not have a "self life." To me he's still hot and totally desirable in all ways - mind, body and soul. As far as sex is concerned, I've ALWAYS been open to experimenting with various positions, toys, etc. and he knows it. I've even well, created some really good scenarios. My breasts were the first thing thta came to his mind as culprits. He honestly feels that I need to consider a reduction for my own physical wellbeing. That's fine, yes, I do have shoulder troughs by the end of the day if I'm wearing a standard bra (sports bras are more comfortable).
But, ladies and gentlemen, I have had 13 major surgeries in the last 10 years (only because my life was in jeopardy), I have survived cancer, and I'm not about to elect for another invasive procedure. Damn, I do ramble when I'm stirred up. Feel free to slap me at any time....Two hours later, he's ready to come home and I'm more than ready for him to come home.
Dear friends, all you beautiful people, I want to thank you for all your insights and comments and, yes, even the criticisms. I appreciate the honesty from each and every one of you for it gave me exactly what I was looking for. A different outlook and path.
You are all fabulous and I O U.
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Andi
