What is your biggest turn on?

Currently? I'm messaging with a guy 34yo who has a 19yo lass as his partner and they're talking about her being shared. She's interested in her first guest being a mature married man as she feels she'll be looked after patiently through her nervousness and shyness. Even the remote prospect of this has me solid.
 
I really enjoy fooling around in public. Getting a handjob or blowjob in the car while parked or driving, or while at the movies. Having my cock rubbed through my pants in a restaurant. Fucking in a secluded area in a park, or on a balcony, or with her pressed up against the window of a hotel room.

I also get real turned on by a woman who is vocal during sex. Someone who doesn't mind me saying dirty things to them, and will say stuff as well.

Also, just being with someone who's sexually adventurous.
I'm right there with you. I would add, naked on an open boat in the middle of the day. Hand jobs, blowjobs and making love, knowing that we could be seen.
A sexually adventurous woman is so amazing to be with.
 
I really enjoy fooling around in public. Getting a handjob or blowjob in the car while parked or driving, or while at the movies. Having my cock rubbed through my pants in a restaurant. Fucking in a secluded area in a park, or on a balcony, or with her pressed up against the window of a hotel room.

I also get real turned on by a woman who is vocal during sex. Someone who doesn't mind me saying dirty things to them, and will say stuff as well.

Also, just being with someone who's sexually adventurous.
Love love it!! The car is my favourite home away from home. Only been caught once heh heh
 
Oh, tell the story about being caught!
It was nighttime on a Friday. Always meet up with my ex girlfriend after work and we end up "catching up" in my car backseat.

After making out one thing led to another etc and was getting a hj from her. Accidentally left one window part down. We were making a lot of sexy sounds and talking when we heard giggling from outside.

We were startled but carried on as I was too far gone until the explosive finale. I got to say having someone close by either watching or listening was a major turn on.

It turns out 2 girls faces appeared outside the window after we finished and just ran off haha!
 
My biggest turn on was watching my GF rub one out then push her fingers deep into her warm, soft, wet pussy, then pulling them out after she had satisfied herself, offering them up for me to suck, mmmmmm; Well I thought that was my biggest fetish until I got caught walking naked in the woods by a lady who didn’t seem to mind. I had to rush behind a tree and knock one out. Since then I’ve been an avid exhibitionist. Is sexual excitement all in the mind? I can read some of the stories in LIT and get a raging horn. Maybe it’s a mix of all the senses, the sight of a beautiful woman or a handsome man, the smell and the sounds and the touch, all coming together in the mind…...who knows? Who cares? Any offers.
I absolutely LOVE watching women get themselves off. Love it even more when my wife and I both masturbate for each other.
 
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A woman WANTING to suck my cock, to worship it, would be the biggest turn on of all. I don’t remember what that’s like. I’m lucky if my wife gives me a blowjob once in 5 years.
It is amazing having a wife that worships my cock. I wish that for you. I’ve said in other threads that I have gotten way more head on the last five years with my new wife than I did in the 35 years before that combined. And because she is so willing and anxious to please me she actually gets me to cum in her mouth nearly every time. Meanwhile over those previous 35 years between many different woman and an ex wife that I was with more than 20 years I probably only was able to cum in their mouth and reach orgasm maybe two dozen times over that time period. Bit the last five years I would conservatively put that number somewhere between 150-200 times.
 
It is amazing having a wife that worships my cock. I wish that for you. I’ve said in other threads that I have gotten way more head on the last five years with my new wife than I did in the 35 years before that combined. And because she is so willing and anxious to please me she actually gets me to cum in her mouth nearly every time. Meanwhile over those previous 35 years between many different woman and an ex wife that I was with more than 20 years I probably only was able to cum in their mouth and reach orgasm maybe two dozen times over that time period. Bit the last five years I would conservatively put that number somewhere between 150-200 times.
Thanks man, as of right now, I’ll be starting a divorce process in the next week. Not only because of the sex, or lack of, but many other issues that I’ve put up with for a decade. Getting older and time is running out. I feel I need make a change since she won’t. One of my hopes is whoever I am lucky enough to find next, they are like your present wife. I’d love a woman who craves sucking cock and swallowing cum. Also, never had a woman let me cum in her face, so hoping that’s an option in my future. You’re a lucky man, but you already know that!
 
You are absolutely right! Life is too short. I stayed in my first marriage 10-14 years too long. And the last four I knew she was cheating. But Instayed for the kids. I still needed my wife to make sure they could get to where they needed to be as I was busy running our business. We had already decided if we did divorce the kids would stay with me, and that is exactly what happened as soon as one of my kids got their driver’s license. Divorce became real for me and I got out.

I am very fortunate with my new wife and I know it. Not for the sex, although that helps for sure. But she is very appreciative of every tiny thing I do for her and she gives just as much back to me as I give to her. We basically have the same love language and our values of relationship and trust and family are extremely aligned. Maybe it helps that I found her through a dating app after reading through hundreds of profiles and suffering many crappy dates. I will say I was immediately drawn to the fact that in her bio she mentioned about not wanting a boring vanilla marriage and that was a big clue that the sex would be aligned.

Good luck to you!
Sounds familiar. My wife doesn’t appreciate anything that I do. I doubt she’s cheating. But, you never know. All I know is I’m invisible to her unless she needs money, or someone to help her little boy out when he needs something. Been going on far too long, and it’s finally time to make the change. Been through it before, so I ‘mow it’ll suck, but then life will get so much more simple and fun!
 
You are absolutely right! Life is too short. I stayed in my first marriage 10-14 years too long. And the last four I knew she was cheating. But Instayed for the kids. I still needed my wife to make sure they could get to where they needed to be as I was busy running our business. We had already decided if we did divorce the kids would stay with me, and that is exactly what happened as soon as one of my kids got their driver’s license. Divorce became real for me and I got out.

I am very fortunate with my new wife and I know it. Not for the sex, although that helps for sure. But she is very appreciative of every tiny thing I do for her and she gives just as much back to me as I give to her. We basically have the same love language and our values of relationship and trust and family are extremely aligned. Maybe it helps that I found her through a dating app after reading through hundreds of profiles and suffering many crappy dates. I will say I was immediately drawn to the fact that in her bio she mentioned about not wanting a boring vanilla marriage and that was a big clue that the sex would be aligned.

Good luck to you!
Good on you! 👍
 
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