What pissed you off today?

[FloggingMolly]

That I cant say exactly what I want to, even on lit.

 

[OldGuy1026]

While many people are pleased to see wild deer by the roadside. I've seen two yesterday inside a 20 mile spread dead, hit by cars. Sad.

 

[Cattypuss]

People come to spend the day on "my" headland and beach because it's so beautiful.

Fine.

And let 'em have their barbecues and picnics in the sun. I am kinda proud that they flock to this place that I'm lucky enough to live 100 yards away from.

BUT DOES IT NOT OCCUR TO THEM THAT THE VERY THING THAT ATTRACTED THEM HERE - THE UNSPOILT BEAUTY OF THE PLACE - IS MARRED WHEN THEY LEAVE THEIR TRASH ALL OVER THE PLACE? THERE ARE RUBBISH BINS ON THE STREET BEHIND THE HEADLAND BUT DO THEY USE THEM? OH NO - THAT WOULD BE TOO MUCH TROUBLE.

Sometimes I think I prefer this place in winter, when I can go out there for two hours at a stretch and not see a single soul.

 

[BiaTcHiNFiRe]

Hey lady. I hope you start feeling better very soon. *lots of hugs*

ty *hugs back*

I went through something similar sounding, right down to the 'having to eat every two hours'. Turned out it was my ears; one clogged up, throwing off my balance just enough to make me seasick all the time. Eating helped calm my stomach, and the two hour turnaround was digestion time. Solution: had the ears checked and cleaned, problem helped a lot.


Might be worth a look see. Not something that most GPs look for.

Interesting. I am sure the sickness I feel comes just from the pregnancy tho.

ty anyways



It will pass, soon I hope. :/

 

[Seurat]

ty *hugs back*


Interesting. I am sure the sickness I feel comes just from the pregnancy tho.

ty anyways



It will pass, soon I hope. :/

Yeah, maybe. Can't say I have first hand experience there, or that I ever will.


Hope you feel better soon, for good reasons.

 

[DVS]

Sadly, a friend of mine has passed away. She just turned 39 years old not long ago. She was very active in the local BDSM scene. She had her own business and made custom corsets. She had the luxury to make her own hours so she could travel a lot and was very active in national events as well.

Her friends from all over the country, as well as acquaintances and customers for her corsets around the world are saddened by the news of her loss. She was taken far too soon and I find it difficult to understand a God that would take such a sweet, vibrant, friendly and loving person in the prime of her life. I guess he needed the sweetest of sweet angels and if that's so, he found her. Amy, I'll miss your bright smile and loving heart. 'Till we meet again...

 

[DVS]

my inability to resize a profile pic i wanna use. im def not a computer genius

What pic are you trying to resize? Do you have a link to it you can post ?

 

[BiaTcHiNFiRe]

Sadly, a friend of mine has passed away. She just turned 39 years old not long ago. She was very active in the local BDSM scene. She had her own business and made custom corsets. She had the luxury to make her own hours so she could travel a lot and was very active in national events as well.

Her friends from all over the country, as well as acquaintances and customers for her corsets around the world are saddened by the news of her loss. She was taken far too soon and I find it difficult to understand a God that would take such a sweet, vibrant, friendly and loving person in the prime of her life. I guess he needed the sweetest of sweet angels and if that's so, he found her. Amy, I'll miss your bright smile and loving heart. 'Till we meet again...

I am sorry for your loss.

 

[kjaere]

Angry at, and irritated and confused by a co-worker. I might follow your lead on a lot of things. I don't question your decisions. I back you up in front of other co-workers. But don't forget I have at least as much experience as you. Do not patronize me. I will let you know that I disagree when it matters. And I will let you know when you've gone off the deep end. If that translates as disrespect to you, well grow a fucking backbone.

 

[OldGuy1026]

Sadly, a friend of mine has passed away. She just turned 39 years old not long ago. She was very active in the local BDSM scene. She had her own business and made custom corsets. She had the luxury to make her own hours so she could travel a lot and was very active in national events as well.

Her friends from all over the country, as well as acquaintances and customers for her corsets around the world are saddened by the news of her loss. She was taken far too soon and I find it difficult to understand a God that would take such a sweet, vibrant, friendly and loving person in the prime of her life. I guess he needed the sweetest of sweet angels and if that's so, he found her. Amy, I'll miss your bright smile and loving heart. 'Till we meet again...

39, so young, I feel bad too, and I didn't even know her. Take care.

 

[BiaTcHiNFiRe]

Waking up with these crocodile tears in my eyes beacuse I cannot have what I need. sigh

Some days are just worth of ... This is one of them I guess.

 

[Master_plus_1]

I call the pharmacy to make sure slave j's prescription is ready. "Yeah, sure, we'll have it for you in about 20 minutes." I drive 40 minutes through miserable weather only for them to realize that the prescription isn't ready, nor do they even keep that particular medicine in stock at that pharmacy. Now, this is a tiny place, I can understand not having everything on hand, but considering that I was given a definite time-frame on when it'll be ready three different times one would imagine someone would have bothered to check at least once that they can actually fill it.

 

[Imo]

Struggling with css and margins and all those tiny rotten detail that make a site look pretty. To further sour my mood, this isn't a good mindset to work on my erotic stories either. I'll just go for a coffee or work off some annoyed energy on the hometrainer and accept I won't get anything done right now. BAH!

 

[bitchee62]

Arriving at hospital in good time for my 9.30 a.m. consultant's appointment ater referral from my GP. Finally getting to see him at 11.20 a.m. Explaining that I had been referred because my poor hearing makes my volunteer work taking phone calls very difficult as I VERY often have to ask (very distressed) people to repeat themselves, where others don't have to.... that I've even had others listen in to my calls and they have confirmed that they can hear when I can't.

After speaking quietly to me, and seeing that I could hear him, he announced that there was nothing wrong with my hearing and my problem must just be that I don't pay attention to people. He wouldn't have said that if he could see me manning the phones, one finger stuck in my other ear, grimacing and straining as I ask a suicidal person to repeat the same comment for the third time.

But there we are. Apparently I'm fine and just need to start listening properly.

This:
Are you sure he wasn't giving a self diagnoses? Do they have a special class for some doctors? How not to listen to your patient 101 maybe?
I had a neurologist pull this on me after two other Dr's saw me lose the ability to speak and move my left side. His mightiness tells me its a migraine and will clear up just fine in a few days. I couldn't talk but I think he figured out he was fired when I hit him with my (full) barf pan. Turns out I had a stroke the next Dr figured it out and put me on clot busting meds.
Hang in there, your GP should be able to find a Specialist to refer you to that will listen to you.

And getting stopped for 86 in a 65 when the cruise was on 74... and we were in the center of a 3 car group. Of course he didn't stop anyone else.

 

[catalina_francisco]

...Some family. You would think when your mother passes away, that your siblings not only respect her and her last wishes, but each other. Unfortunately, with my sisters, they are on a mission to do what they want and can get away with, right down to suggesting they dress our mother in an outfit they prefer, not the one she chose and specified as what she wanted to wear to her own funeral, having an open casket which my mother hated the idea of for herself and specified, and telling me I should skip coming home for her funeral as she is dead now, so despite her specifically saying she wanted me there, as they see it, she won't know so why bother. Of course this all was delivered with my eldest sister screaming abuse at me over the phone at the top of her lungs (can you believe such behaviour from a 63 year old woman?!)when I rang her to see how she was (she has the flu) and give her my flight details.

My mother predicted this type of crap might come from them which is why she put safety measures such as a government handled will and estate in place so there was some options left to me if they went on bitch mode, and to the day she died she was voicing her concerns about the way they might behave and her hopes they would grow up and out of respect for her, act decently. F also predicted their behaviour as he said from the first day he met them they were untrustworthy, sneaky, vindictive bitches. I tried to defend them only to have them do worse than anyone perdicted.

So do I close down my mothers house (as advised by the government trustee was my right and option) and leave everything, including sentimental items, my personal belongings, and family photos in the hands of government public servants (if anything is still there as they have been at her house all week) to decide what to do with them, or do I just try and shut out their shit and avoid them as much as possible while there, as well as let them take all the family photos and whatever else they can steal while trampling on my mothers memory and bitching about her? all I really wanted was to sit in my mothers living room and have some quiet closure, and collect my own belingings...now it looks as if I will be unable to do any of that. Sheesh, I had already packed my macro lens with the thought I would just take photos of the family photos and let them divide them between each other. Oh, and as for my daughter's cancer, they say they don't give a shit what happens to her. Of course, they see themselves as very nice people who deserve respect. So yes, I am a little pissed, but more so disappointed and ashamed they would do and show no respect for our mother and her passing.

Catalina

Catalina

 

[george51]

I was a little disappointed this evening to find that I had a puncture..

 

[intothewoods]

Yikes cat. Sorry to hear it.

 

[bitchee62]

...Some family. You would think when your mother passes away, that your siblings not only respect her and her last wishes, but each other. Unfortunately, with my sisters, they are on a mission to do what they want and can get away with, right down to suggesting they dress our mother in an outfit they prefer, not the one she chose and specified as what she wanted to wear to her own funeral, having an open casket which my mother hated the idea of for herself and specified, and telling me I should skip coming home for her funeral as she is dead now, so despite her specifically saying she wanted me there, as they see it, she won't know so why bother. Of course this all was delivered with my eldest sister screaming abuse at me over the phone at the top of her lungs (can you believe such behaviour from a 63 year old woman?!)when I rang her to see how she was (she has the flu) and give her my flight details.

My mother predicted this type of crap might come from them which is why she put safety measures such as a government handled will and estate in place so there was some options left to me if they went on bitch mode, and to the day she died she was voicing her concerns about the way they might behave and her hopes they would grow up and out of respect for her, act decently. F also predicted their behaviour as he said from the first day he met them they were untrustworthy, sneaky, vindictive bitches. I tried to defend them only to have them do worse than anyone perdicted.

So do I close down my mothers house (as advised by the government trustee was my right and option) and leave everything, including sentimental items, my personal belongings, and family photos in the hands of government public servants (if anything is still there as they have been at her house all week) to decide what to do with them, or do I just try and shut out their shit and avoid them as much as possible while there, as well as let them take all the family photos and whatever else they can steal while trampling on my mothers memory and bitching about her? all I really wanted was to sit in my mothers living room and have some quiet closure, and collect my own belingings...now it looks as if I will be unable to do any of that. Sheesh, I had already packed my macro lens with the thought I would just take photos of the family photos and let them divide them between each other. Oh, and as for my daughter's cancer, they say they don't give a shit what happens to her. Of course, they see themselves as very nice people who deserve respect. So yes, I am a little pissed, but more so disappointed and ashamed they would do and show no respect for our mother and her passing.

Catalina

Catalina

Catalina
You have my sympathy and condolences. I will never understand why people let their worst side come out when a family member dies.
The only thing I can think to say is do what you need to for you, your daughter and your mother. If you can, save your strength for the things that only you can deal with.
If you have the government trustees handle the estate will they be a diversion for your sisters anger? That could allow them to vent on the trustee instead of you being their only focus.
Your sisters will behave like adults or not sadly it sounds like not. From what you have written your mother saw them for who they are and not who she wanted them to be.
Please understand I mean no offense by saying this. As a mother with a child (adult) who is not who I wanted him to be. I know this had to be heartbreaking for your mother, it seems she planed ahead and made her wishes known. She sounds like she was a remarkable woman.
I'm sorry for writing a book for a post. Your's reminded me of my mother in laws death (not a tenth as bad as what you are going through) and the rush to grab things by some family members.

Reg

 

[catalina_francisco]

Yikes cat. Sorry to hear it.

Thanks. This has made a painful moment in our lives more painful and distressing, though not entirely unexpected if I were honest and based expectations on past behaviour.


Catalina

 

[catalina_francisco]

Catalina
You have my sympathy and condolences. I will never understand why people let their worst side come out when a family member dies.
The only thing I can think to say is do what you need to for you, your daughter and your mother. If you can, save your strength for the things that only you can deal with.
If you have the government trustees handle the estate will they be a diversion for your sisters anger? That could allow them to vent on the trustee instead of you being their only focus.
Your sisters will behave like adults or not sadly it sounds like not. From what you have written your mother saw them for who they are and not who she wanted them to be.
Please understand I mean no offense by saying this. As a mother with a child (adult) who is not who I wanted him to be. I know this had to be heartbreaking for your mother, it seems she planed ahead and made her wishes known. She sounds like she was a remarkable woman.
I'm sorry for writing a book for a post. Your's reminded me of my mother in laws death (not a tenth as bad as what you are going through) and the rush to grab things by some family members.

Reg

Thanks. My biggest fault may be I do not like to believe the worst of people, so I had kept believing they would not go into power trip mode the moment she died, but seems my trusting nature left me wide open for a blindside attack. Oh well, if they try repeating their false accusations to some of our relatives, they may get a surprise as my mother has mentioned several times in the last year about how she had spoken of her concerns, and the way they were treating her to many of our cousins and at the same time mentioned how much she missed me and knew if I were there, she would not have a worry in the world.

Fortunately she is at peace now as my sister was initially organising for her to go into nursing care if she left the hospital, and was planning on using that experience as an opportunity to punish my mother for not agreeing to go into a nursing home several years ago when she tried to bully her into it. She planned to not give any thought to how much my mother would like the place, and also told her she would select what personal items she would take, not bring her the things she asked for. Sheesh, then she says she loved the woman....with love like that, who needs enemies?!!

Catalina

 

[DVS]

Cat, I offer my sympathy at this time of loss. Losing a parent isn't easy. I understand your situation all too well. Unfortunately, your sisters seem move vindictive than mine were. When my mother died, my dad had already been incapacitated by several small strokes. My two older sisters took charge of the whole process and only allowed me to participate when they thought it would make it easier on them.

I did my best to blow it all off as how some people handle grief as my sisters were very close to my mother. But, my parents were always the police between these two sisters and myself when we were growing up. It's just something that happens, I guess...sibling rivalry things. I still see it to this day, and my parents have both been gone for years.

I hope your situation gets better, because it can cause unnecessary stress and division within the family. But, I guess I'm not telling you anything you don't already know. I'm sorry you have to deal with this as I know you wish the family would just come together and do as your mother wanted.

 

[BiBunny]

Geez, cat. I'm sorry.

 

[catalina_francisco]

Cat, I offer my sympathy at this time of loss. Losing a parent isn't easy. I understand your situation all too well. Unfortunately, your sisters seem move vindictive than mine were. When my mother died, my dad had already been incapacitated by several small strokes. My two older sisters took charge of the whole process and only allowed me to participate when they thought it would make it easier on them.

I did my best to blow it all off as how some people handle grief as my sisters were very close to my mother. But, my parents were always the police between these two sisters and myself when we were growing up. It's just something that happens, I guess...sibling rivalry things. I still see it to this day, and my parents have both been gone for years.

I hope your situation gets better, because it can cause unnecessary stress and division within the family. But, I guess I'm not telling you anything you don't already know. I'm sorry you have to deal with this as I know you wish the family would just come together and do as your mother wanted.

Thanks DVS. And yes, you sound like you had a similar situation. One sister abused and tormented me so much as a child ( to the point of biting her own arms and telling our parents I had done it which earned me the only belting I got in my life, and which I found out a couple of years ago the other sister saw her do and kept her mouth shut all these years), I ended up on heavy medication to try and stop throwing up every morning from nerves. My mother told the doctor exactly what and who was causing my problems....oh, and the same sister had an electrical cord around my eck one day intending to strangle me, but our parents came home earlier than expected, so she couldn't finish what she began.

The other sister has objected to my parents visiting me while I lived in Oz, and my children and I visiting them as well as taking them on picnics with us. She would ring up screaming at me I was not allowed to see them so much. She also rand me and screamed abuse at me when I went back t school as a single parent and then went onto university...in her mind, I was trrying to prove I was better than her and our other sister...coudlnpt imagine how it could have anything to do with trying to escape living below the poverty line.

As with your situation, once my mother was gone, and they found out F was unable to come with me to Oz, they went into power bitchmode. He said he would come after all, but I told him it was OK and I would be OK. I dread thinking what is coming next. And to think I was going to surprise them by taking them out to a special dinner, just the three of us, to celebrate our mothers life and begin our lives together without her in our life. Can you believe they are in their 60's..seem more like 5?!!

Catalina

 

[catalina_francisco]

Geez, cat. I'm sorry.

Thanks. Don't think I have had time to grieve as yet, though I consciously remember the good relationship my mother and I shared, despite our sometimes having a different view of things. As she always said, at least when we disagreed, we agreed to disagree and move onto something else...my sisters would punish her by not talking to her for weeks/months, and when they did, being cold and bitchy until they felt she had been paid out on enough. I have a lifetime of good memories, and some very honest and open conversations we shared, right up to the moment of her death. I will miss our 3-5 hour phone calls every week or so. I don;t think I will miss them under the circumstances.

Catalina

 

[Seurat]

Today's scream: freaking window on the car was stuck down. No problem, cameras all over the place. I walk out of work into a 'scattered shower' which lasted long enough for me to walk to my car. Soaked the whole side of the interior. :angry:



Cat, you have my sympathy. My mother said that when she died, the first thing I was to do was change the locks on the house to lock out my siblings. Her death was a slow surprise (cancer) and the day we got her into the hospital, my sister cleaned the place out.


They may be family, but they have fucked you over more than once too often. It is no longer time to be nice, whether they are 6 or 60. Do what you have to do to make you happy, and to make you feel that you have fulfilled what your mother wanted you to do. It all comes down to what you will be thinking about it all in a year.