What to Do When You Wake Up to Your Partner Masturbating Beside You

[SmokingFap]

Never caught a partner, but funny story. When my ex-wife and I were dating, we went to bed at her place, tired. About 15 minutes after we laid down, she propped herself up and asked, "Are you masturbating?" Not that she would have minded, but I laughed and said, "No. That's just my heartbeat. My heart pounds sometimes from my anxiety." She said, "No way. The bed's shaking!" She pulled off the covers and saw that nothing was going on down there. Then she put her head on my chest to listen to my heart. She got up and looked at me in shock. I just laughed and said, "Yup. Sorry."

 

[lil_jenni]

I've never been awakened to my Hubby masturbating. If I were, I'd probably ask why he didn't wake me. Then I'd get to business taking care of it for him (probably with my mouth).

He has, on a few occasions, awakened to me masturbating. He has always lent a helping hand, lips, tongue, and/or cock when this has happened.

 

[sandybrooke]

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[forgotmyantidepressants]

He got embarrassed and ran out of the room, so I went back to sleep.

 

[MrMikelobe1952]

He got embarrassed and ran out of the room, so I went back to sleep.

Not to be too much of a busy body, but can I recommend that you tell him it turned you on to see him with his cock in his hand? You will be happier if you can help him get over his embarrassment.

 

[forgotmyantidepressants]

Not to be too much of a busy body, but can I recommend that you tell him it turned you on to see him with his cock in his hand? You will be happier if you can help him get over his embarrassment.

It's hard to overcome a conservative upbringing.

 

[LostHorizon]

Join in and help her or start masturbating myself.

Is this is trick question?

 

[MrMikelobe1952]

It's hard to overcome a conservative upbringing.

Whose?
Yours or his?
My wife had a very conservative upbringing, and I know that she cannot overcome her discomfort with masturbation.
I'm feeling lucky that she learned to enjoy sex.

I would be thrilled if she were comfortable with my masturbation.

 

[forgotmyantidepressants]

Whose?
Yours or his?
My wife had a very conservative upbringing, and I know that she cannot overcome her discomfort with masturbation.
I'm feeling lucky that she learned to enjoy sex.

I would be thrilled if she were comfortable with my masturbation.

Both of us. That happened a long time ago. We gotten more comfortable with our own sexualities and each other's as we've gotten older.

 

[MrMikelobe1952]

Both of us. That happened a long time ago. We gotten more comfortable with our own sexualities and each other's as we've gotten older.

That is good to hear.
Do you think that, today, you would like to see that?

 

[Hypnobitch01]

Help out of course!

 

[NakedStoryLover]

Go down on her/him/them, if they want you to of course. Or, watch.

Perfect answer.

 

[hulmule]

i would ask is there anything i can do for you to make it a great morning

 

[Girl43bbw]

My whole life, never really played with myself, now last few months, I can't fucking stop, like it's a problem. Lol I am doing it morning, after work, in the evenings, I wake up in the middle of the night and go, then morning. It's been so bad I got checked by a doctor. I'm fine just hitting my sexual peek? Lol so partner is 20 years older than me, it's nothing to him, he cannot do much and hasn't for years honestly(medical and age). He just asks if it was good?

 

[Strixaluco]

My whole life, never really played with myself, now last few months, I can't fucking stop, like it's a problem. Lol I am doing it morning, after work, in the evenings, I wake up in the middle of the night and go, then morning. It's been so bad I got checked by a doctor. I'm fine just hitting my sexual peek? Lol so partner is 20 years older than me, it's nothing to him, he cannot do much and hasn't for years honestly(medical and age). He just asks if it was good?

Yeah... Women may have their peak even 20 years older than men, so with the age difference going the classic way, it likely won't match at all. Been there too - except my partner didn't even notice.

 

[sandybrooke]

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[welatshaw]

i just read an old Jezebel article about what to do if you are woken up by a fapping partner

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so what is your reaction?

what would you do?

Ask if they want some help?

 

[spawnofdavey]

I would absolutely love it if that were to happen. I'd be shocked as it's never happened in 20 years, but I'd bloody love it.

 

[Erosfan]

I've never woken up to my partner masturbating. I was awakened many times by my wife masturbating me!

 

[RubyNRock]

I carry on helping him out, and if he’s really lucky I’ll climb on top

 

[sunset_dreaming]

Separate beds through cohabitation with the wifey means any time can be a masturbation fest.
Do occasionally miss those midnight half-asleep suck-n-fucks after waking from feeling wanty and needy though….

 

[jassybb]

I would tell him to stand up, be a good boy & do it looking at me, saying things i'd like him hear from him, while he does it lol.

 

[calmlikeabomb]

Light a candle so that I can see the shadows and sweat on her skin.

 

[down13]

I would tell him to stand up, be a good boy & do it looking at me, saying things i'd like him hear from him, while he does it lol.

Did this a few times during covid, but not since.

 

[Tryharder62]

I'd think "Thank goodness" then I'd roll over and go back to bed.