what turns you on VISUALLY?

[nikkijames]

I love tattoos on a man.

My weakness is a nice tattoo done on the inside of the forearm.


MMMMM

 

[shereads]

To hell with subtlety. For quick-and-certain visual stimulation, I think we can all agree that there's no substitute for oversized double penises with the wearer's fist wrapped around them, a bare chest, an alert scowl, and a fin-shaped bronze warrior helmet. More stimulation than this you can't get without amphetimines:

 

[BlackShanglan]

SOME are LESS esoteric.
that's my point.

Well, I am an esoteric pervert. I've never denied it.

Shanglan

 

[BlackShanglan]

Perdita,
I am afraid that YOU do not GET me.

But perhaps putting words in all caps will help?

I believe many women SAY they are arroused by "seeing" an intellectual something because they believe that is what they are turned on by (and belief makes it reality). I also believe that men say they same thing... more often than not because THEY believe THAT turns on a woman.

My qustion was not : "What turns you on?" rather "what turns you on VISUALLY?"....and what ever you THINK you are seeing i say is 83% imagined...and that is NOT concrete...it is real, but not concrete.

Although I decline the convenience of a gender, I can tell you that my perception of intellect in a person is quite visual and concrete. I only wish I could show you my clearest image. That smile and cock of head, those blazing eyes, that impish, waggish grin - what matter the forty-odd years between us?

Shanglan

 

[lucky-E-leven]

I can enjoy the explicit as well as the implied.

My favorite, however, is soaked through clothing. The silhouette is undeniable and yet the details hang in the balance. Some are obvious while others hide beneath wet rumples of clothing. The heavy hang of cloth on a body with the added bonus of some see through spots is just delicious to me.

~lucky

p.s. The desire to struggle with that stubborn cloth in an attempt to free its wearer is often very hard to walk away from.

 

[rgraham666]

Note to self: Take shower in clothes before meeting lucky.

Oh damn. She's not wired that way.

 

[BlackShanglan]

I can enjoy the explicit as well as the implied.

My favorite, however, is soaked through clothing. The silhouette is undeniable and yet the details hang in the balance. Some are obvious while others hide beneath wet rumples of clothing. The heavy hang of cloth on a body with the added bonus of some see through spots is just delicious to me.

~lucky

p.s. The desire to struggle with that stubborn cloth in an attempt to free its wearer is often very hard to walk away from.

That's quite fascinating. I would never have thought of it on my own, but you make it sound beautiful.

I love the pictures you and vella have been posting, btw. It's good to see people looking so happy.

Shanglan

 

[Wholemanz]

Turn ons

Lesbians with big boobs of course.

 

[Svenskaflicka]

I LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOVE to watch my man's face when he comes.


A little too late to get turned on by THEN, though...

 

[Honey123]

I chose "other", specifically because I get turned on by the look in a man's eyes when he is desiring me.

Just at that moment, when in his eyes, he wants nothing more than to devour me.

THAT is an incredible turn on and perhaps the sexiest thing in the world.

 

[sweetnpetite]

I LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOVE to watch my man's face when he comes.


A little too late to get turned on by THEN, though...

I have the problem that I get turned on by things that happen at the end. They aren't visual though, so I didn't post about them

 

[Lucifer_Carroll]

I have a soft (hard?) spot for the Appearance of Intelligence. Glasses fetish? A little. Between two pictures of a woman: one with contacts and one with glasses, I'll pick the glasses one every time, but more than that, the look behind that shows that it's not just the vapid actions of a rote machine, but that the person is tending towards thinking. It's a look in the eyes mostly that is hard to describe, but you can tell it in most porn out there.

A lot of the women in internet porn, I hate to say, have the "I have no clue what I'm doing but doesn't my body make you hard" look in their eyes that kills the hard-on and makes it so I have a fairly limited amount of porn I use (mostly stories and such). I prefer the eyes where the nakedness isn't cause the user has always used their body for seduction instead of their mind, but because the person decided to bare something intimate to the world and that such a decision is a big deal.

And yes, it's a visual thing. It's just a visual thing that's hard to describe.

 

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[Guest]

I chose "other", specifically because I get turned on by the look in a man's eyes when he is desiring me.

Just at that moment, when in his eyes, he wants nothing more than to devour me.

THAT is an incredible turn on and perhaps the sexiest thing in the world.

This won't help Rhino, because it would be next to impossible to capture in a drawing,

but Honey reminded me of the look a man gets from a woman that says "I want you to make love to me now." It's a wonderful look; and a wonderful moment I keep meaning to write about.

Other comments about other posts.

Yes, movement is wonderful and indescribable, and alas, useless for Rhino is trying to do (unless he wants to beome an Animator. Hmm, Pixar going into erotic films...)

And I too have a things for glasses and Tina Fey types. Partly it is the sudden change in their appearance when the glasses come off, and the hair comes down that is erotic, as they transform themselves into something even sexier just for you, in private.

And then too, I harken back to being really young and kissing a girl. If she took her glasses off, she was telling me she wanted to do more kissing.

 

[sweetnpetite]

I have a soft (hard?) spot for the Appearance of Intelligence. Glasses fetish? A little. Between two pictures of a woman: one with contacts and one with glasses, I'll pick the glasses one every time, but more than that, the look behind that shows that it's not just the vapid actions of a rote machine, but that the person is tending towards thinking. It's a look in the eyes mostly that is hard to describe, but you can tell it in most porn out there.

Not so much about the intellegence (although, I do know what you mean) but I often prefer the 'before' shot in the men's hair color comercials (get rid of the grey). And also in facelift avs. Men's faces look sexier with a little weather. (It's not fair, but it's true.)

 

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[Lucifer_Carroll]

it is odd. I believe the lust look (for me) is more "real" than the look of intelligence.

Intelligence...a twinkle in the eye? assosiated with wit? merriment? a stare of into space..implying thoughtfulness...or forgetfullness? furrowed brow as in deep in thought..or just confused? if there is something else there I happily bestow the mantel of intelligence on an object of lust, but without substantiation...words spoken, or reaction TO words or events... i contend it is an assumption, a projection.

convince me otherwise.

or not.

Convinve you? Of something that I can barely describe and only really know when I see it (or more often is the case fail to see it)?

It's something that's missing in most photography and video camera based porn. Especially the internet variety. Perhaps it's the concentration on lust that makes it so. Perhaps it's the type of woman who'd allow a tape or pictures of herself fucking strangers be broadcast globally. I don't know.

Erotic illustrations tend to stumble on the look more than erotic photographers. Perhaps it's because it takes the face and mannerisms of a girl who looks unlikely to do the acts and then makes her do them. Who knows?

As you can tell I'm quite shit at describing it.

 

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[Honey123]

How about when a woman absently caresses her neck or leg?

 

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[sweetnpetite]

catchin' smoke in your hands.

the look you describe is also the look of NOT being bored/jaded.

it is of INTERESTs, of humor, of LIFE or desire...One would THINK that look would be more common outsdie of pornography as a JOB.


INSIDE of the context of pornography as a job...couldn't a succesful actor/actress project that indescribable spark while perhaps not actually BEING "intelligent". Or is that impossible with ACTUAL intelligence?

You know what this post reminds me of?

Ed O'Neil.

Not half bad looking without the dumbass look on his face, the slouch and the hand down the front of his pants.

Oh, and coicidentally I've seen him in glasses and they look quite nice on him.

(You might know him better as Al Bundy. That's Al, from Married with Children- not Ted Bundy. That's a whole other ball of wax)

 

[Honey123]

yup!

I love women's necks.
When their hair is up..the little wisps ar etantelizing to me.

Yes! Yes!!

And a stretch.

Picture it:

A woman sitting at her desk..you in your office...she pushes herself back just a little, so that her chair moves and you are able to now have a clear view of her.

She arches her back, this movement pushes out her breasts, which are now nicely outlined through her tight shirt. She raises her arms, stretching herself and entangling her hands in her hair, then raises them above her head. In slow motion, you see her hair fall like feathers around her face, her neck...she closes her eyes and then covers her face with her hands, massaging her temples, then slowly working them down to her neck and ending with them skimming so lightly over her breasts....

 

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[Guest]

Re: Re: what turns you on VISUALLY?

A man masturbating.

If he happens to be wearing weight-lifting gloves, I have no problem with that.



Same man, opening a duffle bag with, um, implements inside.

Is it warm in here, or is it just me?

Oooh, yes!

Another: A man staring directly into my eyes, with menace in his own.

 

[Honey123]

How about when a man is between your legs and is looking up at you while, you know