what turns you on VISUALLY?

visual turn ons (pick as many as you like)

  • Tight clothing...jeans, spandex, vinyl, leather

    Votes: 14 30.4%
  • a peek of nipple...or

    Votes: 12 26.1%
  • loose clothing..unbuttoned blouse/shirt, skirts

    Votes: 16 34.8%
  • explicit sex...genitals, entry...

    Votes: 10 21.7%
  • butts

    Votes: 12 26.1%
  • legs

    Votes: 13 28.3%
  • kissing

    Votes: 15 32.6%
  • cum shots

    Votes: 5 10.9%
  • other...specifically

    Votes: 21 45.7%
  • i cannot bear to look

    Votes: 1 2.2%

  • Total voters
    46
BlackSnake said:
Buttom of a woman's butt-cheeks peaking from under a short skirt, and not being able to tell if there's a thong present.

When you've a thong on your lips,
a melody in your heart,
what a wonderful way to start,
your day
 
Other

Topless, wearing blue jeans, fly open, perhaps pushed down a little but not showing genitalia.

Maybe this comes from lusting after dad's Playboys when I was a kid - I don't know. I just LOVE topless women in bluejeans.
 
Re: Other

Chimney Sweep said:
Topless, wearing blue jeans, fly open, perhaps pushed down a little but not showing genitalia.

Maybe this comes from lusting after dad's Playboys when I was a kid - I don't know. I just LOVE topless women in bluejeans.
Strongly concur.
 
Re: Re: Other

Ted-E-Bare said:
Strongly concur.

Like the unzipped but not revealing aspect in male pinups also. Lean body, good tone, just a hint of pube/base of cock. And a pretty face to go with it.

Mmm :)

xx.S:rose:
 
rhinoguy said:
better?


and here I am wonderin' to myself "how the heck did she know my name?...DUH!.... no spark of intelligence in THESE eyes!

Brilliant! Love this sketch.
 
Just found a fabulous example of my object of lust...

I can't post the link, but I encourage all who love the topless w/bluejeans look to go to stuff magazine's website (www.stuffmagazine.com) and go to the gallery of women. Look up Holly Marie Combs (the chick from Charmed) and look through her pics. One is an almost perfect example of what I love.

Yowza!
 
blue jeans yes...

tight on the back side, but not so tight on the front they outline anything. I like the suggestion made by the fan of folds radiating upwards from where the tops of her thighs meet. And if the woman has enough hips so that the waist is loose so much the better.

Combined with a top just loose enough so that only when she turns do her breasts stretch the material....

rhinoguy - I like your pics. Coincidentally I just wrote a short (<500 words) "thank you note to a former lover" story a few days ago making use of that very same imagery.

obg
 
Re: Just found a fabulous example of my object of lust...

Chimney Sweep said:
Look up Holly Marie Combs (the chick from Charmed) and look through her pics. One is an almost perfect example of what I love.
I know that pic. Yeah, nice.

She's always been a thinking man's sex symbol.
 
at the risk of being accused of hijacking

rhinoguy - this is the note to the former lover i mentioned. not trying to hijack your thread. first writing in a while.


Dear ______,

I overheard a conversation recently that reminded me I owe you a debt of gratitude. You taught me something that has put me in good stead with other lovers ever since, and for that I thank you. And I suppose that, indirectly, my lovers, both current and former, thank you as well. God knows they’ve thanked me.

Looking back, do you realize it’s been 30 years? Do you even remember what it was you taught me? I told you then that it was a first time for me. But there were many firsts, some for both of us, so maybe you don’t. How about this – do you remember me looking up at you, through the soft tangles of hair and over your mound, across the plain of your belly and between your slight breasts, and telling you this was my first time?

At first, I didn’t think you were teaching. I just supposed it was two young people figuring things out, but it soon became apparent you had much more experience than I did in this matter. I remember the way your hands guided my head, your fingers showed me the way, and your words - ohh gawwdd, your words. “Use your lips here.” “Can you roll your tongue? See this? Feel it grow with your tongue? Now just suck on it, but gently.” “Start further back, a little further, a little further. Oh, yes, right there….”
“You’re taking to this like a duck to water.” That last seemed an odd thing to say, at least at first.

I remember the following conversation like it was yesterday. Some time later, after we’d both enjoyed a good, energetic fuck, and I’d rolled onto my back you climbed on top, and straddled me, looking down at me thoughtfully. “You know you’re very good at that, don’t you?”

”At fucking?” I asked, a little incredulously. I never lasted as long as I wanted to. Never had, and sometimes I still don’t.

“At going down on me.”

A little hurt, but also a little proud, I simply replied “Why, thank you.” A moment passed, maybe several, your eyes still pensive, not straying from mine.

“Do you remember the times I cut my hair really short?” I nodded. “I did that when I was seeing other girls. Did you know I saw girls, too?” I couldn’t speak, and only shook my head.

And then you made some excuses for it, and kept talking about it, and talking about it, and then, looking down at my belly, feeling my hard cock beneath you, you said, “You *like
* hearing about this, don’t you?” Again, all I could do was nod, but you slid forward a little bit, cocked your hips just so, and took me inside. Then you leaned forward, and whispered the rest in my ear, without moving. All you did was squeeze.

My wife has often given me great compliments, but I always assumed they stayed between us. And then, the other night, I overheard her say to one of her friends, “I don’t know where he learned it, and I don’t want to know. But, he’s very good at giving head. Imagine how good a girl would be – I think he might be better.”


If you’re out there, and by some freak of nature see this, I hope life’s been kind to you. And even though it’s been a lot of years, I thank you. Others thank you as well, but I thank you more.

Take care,
_______
 
rhinoguy said:
ChimneySweep & Ted-e-Bare...so does Holly Marie Combs LOOK intelligent? Does she strike you as an intelligent looking woman?
I may be falling into the trap of judging a person by the parts she plays, but HMC did play an able, intelligent young woman in the much missed Picket Fences.

And next to Alyssa Milano (yummy) and Shannon Dougherty who wouldn't look like a genius.

But her not showing up on the covers of tabloids so that I've noticed is a plus for her.

Maybe I should have said she's the thinking man's favorite Halliwell sister. But when I'm feeling dumb there is Alyssa. And Rose McGowan is pretty cute too.

OK, this has been a pointless thread. May I can save it with some visuals.

http://home.knva.com/show_images/0304_season/charmed.jpg
 
A thinking man's woman....:rolleyes:

When you guys see a gorgeous woman, I think there is one part of you that actually starts to "think" and it ain't the head on top of your shoulders!!!
 
rhinoguy said:
I would not deny that.

HOWEVER...for lasting/complete desire/arrousal..she needs to exhibit intelligence.

So, I guess your desire and arousal for me would last about a minute? LOL
 
Honey123 said:
So, I guess your desire and arousal for me would last about a minute? LOL
Fishing for a complement sexy?

All the women here on Lit engage us men with their intelligence. It is their wit and intelligence that comes through as bytes of data. Beauty, the physical kind, cannot be adequately expressed in any photo (especially a 150x150 pixel AV photo) . It is your internal, findamental beauty that shines through in the postings.
 
I picked butts and other. I notice hands and eyes first, then hair colour. I like big hands with long fingers and not all super rough, but a little rough. A silky or velvety rasp against my skin. I am partial to blue or green or hazel eyes, especially when paired with silvery salt and pepper hair, or dark hair. Is not just the light coloured eyes and dark hair thing, though that is striking. Blue or green eyes can be very dark in shade (yes, that is a big turn on.) There is one thing about my sweetie's eyes that makes me absolutely hot and insane with desire. His eyes are a fairly dark blue, normally. When we are talking about sexy mushy loving stuff, they turn a darker blue. Just watching the change in colour, watching them get deeper blue, knowing what is going on inside his mind and body ignites me. The tangible, yet subtle evidence of his desire huge turn on. A hard cock is a hard cock, but cocks have minds of their own. There is no intimacy in a cock; anyone could elicit that response. To see his desire in his eyes is more personal to me, more intimate. Besides, I am not into hard core sexual imagery. It makes me giggle. Show me a hard cock and my response is "EEEEWW, giggle."

<wandering off in almost hijack land>

For those of us who are sort of turned off by hard core sexual imagery, have you noticed a difference between an anonymous body and your lover's? Take the cocks mentioned above. An anonymous cock yanked off a website in all it's tumescent glory does nothing for me, besides the "EEEEwwww" giggle" response. But when I think of my lover's body, it's not so icky and it is a turn on. I could perv on a picture of his body/cock/whatever but an anonymous body/cock/whatever leaves me cold. There was an amusing cock rant in another thread on the bdsm boards written by a friend of mine. (If I could figure out how to post a link to a specific post instead of a page on a monster long thread, I would link it, because it was funny. If anyone knows how to do that, could you please toss me a PM? Thanks in advance! I know it can be done, because a mod did it for me once.) In her rant, she mentioned that she had never seen an uncircumsized cock, so of course guys sent her some. She also noticed a difference between a friendly cock (when she knew the person it was attached to.) and a stranger's cock. It was a strange difference, and I sort of knew where she was coming from, but neither of us could really put our finger on it. Has anyone else noticed this?
 
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