Where are the femmes at?

[inmyanonymity]

hi

i'm bi-curious and interested in learning more.

 

[playwithlezli]

Dyke here-willing to support any queer lifestyle that involves consenting adults, but happy to live my lezzie life at the moment.

As to being femme, a friend described me well as a frilly butch as I can pull off the femme look but can also fart on command and not afraid to put my back into my work and get my hands dirty.

I do hate that people don't realize I'm gay though - I constantly get mistaken for straight.

Etoile, I hear you and feel the same, my line lately is "you know I'm batting for the other team eh?". Seems to do the trick, but I sure can't wait for a time when we don't have to identify ourselves!

 

[ungenderless]

I don't know if others would count this, but I am an MTF Transgender, and I identify myself as lesbian. My lovers would concur that I am indeed quite femme.

 

[playwithlezli]

I don't know if others would count this, but I am an MTF Transgender, and I identify myself as lesbian. My lovers would concur that I am indeed quite femme.

Why wouldn't it count?

 

[ungenderless]

Why wouldn't it count?

Oh I dunno, but I know that some people wouldn't see me as lesbian because I'm stuck with a male body. But I'm very fortunate that BJ and Wal see me as a woman, even casually referring to me as "she". ^__^

 

[Wolfman1982]

What a load of bollocks ungenderless. Since I see MtF transsexual as female, and I call them "she", and "her" in the right context. So to me you are a MtF transexual lesbian. So again you are a woman, and there for. You are called her, and when I am using your gender in another context, then it would be "she".

Ok ?

 

[Night_Jasmine]

To be honest, you will find that most of us will refer MtF trans as her and she, simply because that's who they are inside.

 

[ungenderless]

Ok, thank you.

 

[neonflux]

Dyke here-willing to support any queer lifestyle that involves consenting adults, but happy to live my lezzie life at the moment.

As to being femme, a friend described me well as a frilly butch as I can pull off the femme look but can also fart on command and not afraid to put my back into my work and get my hands dirty.



Etoile, I hear you and feel the same, my line lately is "you know I'm batting for the other team eh?". Seems to do the trick, but I sure can't wait for a time when we don't have to identify ourselves!

frilly butch?!? * perks up ears *

 

[neonflux]

Oh I dunno, but I know that some people wouldn't see me as lesbian because I'm stuck with a male body. But I'm very fortunate that BJ and Wal see me as a woman, even casually referring to me as "she". ^__^

Of course, you count! Pre or post!

~ Neon

 

[Tymeless]

I don't know if others would count this, but I am an MTF Transgender, and I identify myself as lesbian. My lovers would concur that I am indeed quite femme.

well your just like me a femme MTF *hugs* your a lesbian just like i am too *hugs* again

 

[Mistress K]

I guess I usually refer to myself as a butch dyke.

I am bisexual though in a monogamous lesbian relationship. I don't know if I even like "the penis" (as I call it) anymore but that could just be because I am happy with my woman

I like to call my girl femme, but she is too butch in attitude to pull it off *laughs*

 

[neonflux]

OK, found this browsing the W4W section on Craig's List this AM, thought it appropriate to post, with a big & & to the poster, whoever she might be

-------- begin quote ------->

Butch Tribute to The High Femme

We Love You Because-

You are the light to our darkness
You define our sexuality
You are elegant and graceful
Smart, Quick, Kind, funny a smart ass
Kind, gentle, loving, wild, sexy, bold and brave
You ease the burden of our gender in this mad world
You make us feel real
Without you our sexuality would have no place to breathe
Would have no place to feed our desire, express our passion our inner being
You make the trails and battles of life worth it
You cause us to dream
Inspire us to create, write, sing, and paint
You cause us to want to be the best we can be
You challenge us and cause us to be brave and walk through our fears
You make us feel alive when we are packing and you reach your hand over and grab our cock and look at us with that hunger that desire that endless need that is the butch femme beauty
You respect the Daddy in us
You understand the boi
You know our fears often before we express them
You understand our silence
You know we never want you to know, how much we need you
You know, we never want you to see us cry,
We are strong, we are tough, rugged and smart, we are brave, we are breakable, we are more fragile than you know, we are secure, we are sexually and mentally driven, we are
the little boy who needs his Mistress/Mamma, the Butch who needs our woman, The Daddy who needs his girl, his princess, The Top, who needs to feel his bottoms trust and the look in your eyes when we are holding the cane, the colors of the night, and after play we make love to you endlessly
We hold you in our arms and watch you sleep
We smell the scent of your skin; your hair and we smile to ourselves
We know there must be a god, because you my beloved, beautiful femme are evidence of a god.
We love walking into a room with you on our arm
Because in our eyes, you our femme, you are the most beautiful woman walking the earth
You are the hottest sexiest expression of the beauty in this vast universe
You are our deepest desire
And cause the deepest fear-
All we really fear is loosing you.
Because you are the love of our life, in a world filled with madness, and cruelty, in a time and place in history where sanity matters not, where compassion is lost to selfishness, where beauty is destroyed,

Yet alone in our arms holding you, the world is ok, there is beauty and love that lasts, there is a world of hope- In these moments all that matters is you, our beloved femme.

Yes with your 100 pairs of shoes, your lace corsets, your pumps, your endless array of accessories, your poutting demanding ways, your silent treatments when angry or hurt, your giggle, your moan, your sigh,
Your aching endless need, your mouths on our cocks, your touch on our face, your kiss on our lips,
Your head on our leather when your sleepy
Your hair falling over us while making love
Your smile in the morning when the girl needs Daddy

Your soul in our soul, two hearts beating in this mad, mad world.

To every femme who has ever loved a butch we thank you.

You are our truth

<-------- end post ------

~ Neon

 

[ungenderless]

well your just like me a femme MTF *hugs* your a lesbian just like i am too *hugs* again

Yay! Aww, thanks for the hugs. It's nice to find someone else who is in my situation. I hope we get to chat more. ^__^

 

[Tymeless]

Yay! Aww, thanks for the hugs. It's nice to find someone else who is in my situation. I hope we get to chat more. ^__^

my messengers are listed just add me to the one of your preferance

 

[MissJuliana]

femme, lesbian/bi, FMF Domme & sub...

Ya got all that? I'm really not as "confused" as it sounds. The labels are always too general. Mainly, in spite of this ONE M, I'm a femme dyke. Can't get enough of the heels, stockings, and lingerie.

 

[SweetCherry]

I'm definately femme. I'm sitting here right now in a skirt, beaded tank top and polka dotted panties with lace trim. I so couldn't pull off butch. Even in a man's suit, I still look ultra girlie. *laughs*

 

[Night_Jasmine]

I don't know where I fall. I'm more of a jeans and t-shirt girl. I do enjoy dresses but since I don't go anywhere really, no point to dressing up.

 

[Tymeless]

I'm definately femme. I'm sitting here right now in a skirt, beaded tank top and polka dotted panties with lace trim. I so couldn't pull off butch. Even in a man's suit, I still look ultra girlie. *laughs*

well thats nothing to be ashamed of i wish i was right there with you looking girlie!

 

[MissJuliana]

I'm definately femme. I'm sitting here right now in a skirt, beaded tank top and polka dotted panties with lace trim. I so couldn't pull off butch. Even in a man's suit, I still look ultra girlie. *laughs*

To the polka dotted panties with lace trim. How fun! And, what a way to make a statement.

 

[ungenderless]

I'm definately femme. I'm sitting here right now in a skirt, beaded tank top and polka dotted panties with lace trim. I so couldn't pull off butch. Even in a man's suit, I still look ultra girlie. *laughs*

That sounds really cute! I wish I could pull off wearing stuff like that.

 

[deliaO]

I'm definately femme. I'm sitting here right now in a skirt, beaded tank top and polka dotted panties with lace trim. I so couldn't pull off butch. Even in a man's suit, I still look ultra girlie. *laughs*

This is a lovely image and I like the ropes in the avatar too. Bi-sexual here but I lean more toward women.

 

[Equinoxe]

I am much more femme than I am butch, if the terms must be used, but I generally prefer not to categorise myself that way and plainly refuse to use either word as a noun.

 

[SweetCherry]

well thats nothing to be ashamed of i wish i was right there with you looking girlie!

Heh. I might have a few extra (and brand new) pairs of girlie looking panties with bows and lace, and a skirt and top or two I could lone you. If we're the same size that is.

 

[SweetCherry]

To the polka dotted panties with lace trim. How fun! And, what a way to make a statement.

Heh. The lace was just added bonus for me. I love the fun patterns, so I bought a pack with polka dots and flowers. I didn't see the lace til I opened them up. And the bows on some of 'em made me giggle. My 10 year old looked at them, then at me and said, "Mom, aren't you a little bit OLD for that kinda thing?" I told her to hush or she'd not make it to 11.