which is easier to tell your SO . . .

[Wolfman1982]

I haven't had the pleasure of meeting Etoile yet, but I definitely agree with your assessment of her comment.

I haven´t had the pleasure of meeting her either, but I can imagine her as a great sparring partner, if she was interested in martial arts ok I admire her, but that is another story

 

[etoile_filante]

I haven´t had the pleasure of meeting her either, but I can imagine her as a great sparring partner, if she was interested in martial arts ok I admire her, but that is another story

LOL... I didn't mean "meet" as in actually meeting her, I just meant that our paths haven't crossed on the board (yet). Maybe one day though...

 

[good_bi]

 

[Etoile]

No worries. I didn't take any offense at all to the use of the word queer.

Yep, I mean "queer" in the sense that means "not straight." Cross-dressing, gender play, being transgender, being bi-curious...it's all ways of being queer. It's anything non-heterosexual or non-gender conforming.

Wolfman isn't quite right - I don't mean it as strange, I don't use it that way, I use it as I just mentioned. But his native language is not English, and I think I know what he meant, and he's a cool guy.

etoile_filante! What a surprise to see someone else with my name, I am pretty sure I have been the only Etoile on here for many years. Pleased to meet you.

 

[etoile_filante]

etoile_filante! What a surprise to see someone else with my name, I am pretty sure I have been the only Etoile on here for many years. Pleased to meet you.

Etoile!!! I'm pleased to meet you too. You know, I'm sure that there are as many Etoiles here as there are covering the skies. However, it just takes some longer to realize that than others...

 

[Etoile]

Etoile!!! I'm pleased to meet you too. You know, I'm sure that there are as many Etoiles here as there are covering the skies. However, it just takes some longer to realize that than others...

There are 10 people here with "etoile" in their name, three of which are variations on "étoile filante". There's Etoile (me), Étoile de nuit (never posted), Etoile1313 (never posted), Etoileange0485 (never posted), Etoilefilant (never posted), etoilefilante (never posted), etoilenoire (never posted), etoile_filante (you), les_etoiles (never posted), and lunaetoile (never posted).

I wouldn't say it "takes longer to realize that" - I would say there's nothing to realize! There aren't really any other Etoiles here besides you and me.

 

[Ms_Anais]

She almost exclusively likes lesbian porn though, which, incidentally, I also love. . .

Seems to me this fact in itself might be a sign of something...

I almost exclusively enjoy lesbian porn as well, and my wonderful husband hasn't missed that clue. He knows of my cravings, though not of my experience. If I knew he had an inkling to explore his bi side (which I believe everyone has), I'd encourage it like crazy... and feel so much better about how thoroughly I've explored my own.

 

[good_bi]

 

[somberReality]

that you like to cross-dress or that you have bi tendencies?

Ladies: which would you accept easier if your man told you?

On that note . . . I know many people don't like labels . . . but what do you call a man that likes to play with women and men, likes to dress like a man and a woman, likes to be top and bottom, likes to be dominant and submissive, can't get enough vanilla sex despite also having has tons of fetishes, loves wearing wearing men's thongs and women's thongs, loves looking at breasts and six packs, wants to have an amazing masculine body and a feminine body, is in the closet regarding the later of each of the aforementioned. . . .and whose fantasy it is to be any member of a MFM, FMF, MMM or FFF threesome?

GB

My next man

 

[good_bi]

I just realized something that should have been obvious to me