Who's on top?

[PVodogaz]

mmmmmmm mmmmmm mmmmm

Some great posts here in this thread

 

[PrincessHoney]

a good post always makes me happy....


esp a good long hard post i can slide up and down!!

hee hee *in a naughty mood*

 

[cheekygirl]

Damn Sheath ~ you certainly have a way with words. You
so eloquently described exactly what I like!

 

[fnnyworld]

I love it when shes on top. Your hands are free to wander all over her. My fav. is the ass...

I agree, the feeling of his hands and mouth all over me while penetrating is awesome. There is so much more control of pressure and speed too... love to have my ass thoroughly enjoyed while making love to a man, nibbling my neck and breasts, full deep kisses, and the ability to stifle my screams of pleasure by burying my face in his neck.........ahhhh.

Then again I like spooning too ;-)

 

[PVodogaz]

a good post always makes me happy....


esp a good long hard post i can slide up and down!!

hee hee *in a naughty mood*

yes you're in a very naughty mood Princess

 

[CoyoteTales]

Of course, what'll really bake your noodle ...

It's a true story, that thing with the moonlight; I was there.

There's a little bit of magick left in the world, if you know where to look for it. If you know how to look. If you take the time to see.

I'm not sure where I read this; it's been years -- but there's a huge difference between sex and lovemaking -- the difference between rubbing two parts together and /connecting/ -- and that is my real aim when I commit to a private session with someone.

Because it's not about who gets what, who's on top, what's on second, I don't know (...third base!) -- but rather, whither you and your partner derive the most mutual enjoyment.

In my travels, I've come across people who like different things. It's like liking different flavors of ice cream in its own way -- I'm one of those guys who doesn't comprehend the orgasmic qualities of chocolate.

(Well, with one exception -- fresh baked brownies. And dangit, I have no brownie mix in the house. Right. Price Club run this weekend.)

But I digress.

Lucky is the person who finds in their partner the matching opposite of their desires -- because then you both get what you want.

I must admit to a bit of a stray thought, now; 'are we trained to like being on top for men, or on the bottom for women, by the media exposure we have to sex?' Or is it because we're wired for the one or the other? Do we get the urge to experiment because we've heard about one position or another from someone else?

Indeed....

-CoyoteTales

 

[gochiefs]

Ok, here's another sex position question....When fucking, would you rather be on the top or the bottom? Does one turn you on more than the other? Why?

i like to be on top most. and hey piano girl, you never told us yours

 

[Owlz]

Ok, here's another sex position question....When fucking, would you rather be on the top or the bottom? Does one turn you on more than the other? Why?

I'd have to say I'd rather be on the bottom. Why? Because the woman seems to derive more pleasure, at her pace, in that position, when she's in control.

 

[fulie57]

I love it...

.... love it love it when a woman is in control. And I hate admitting it for it <i>does</i> sound lazy.

Ride Me Like The Wild West.

Or go slow.

 

[Avery_Chisholm]

God, am I ever in the mood to answer this question.

I want him on top. I absolutely love that. Because I can feel the power in his body and how he uses it. I can tell by the tension in his arms when I run my hands over them, in the trembling of his thighs when I wrap my legs around him, just how much he is holding back. I can feel that spiral of tension in him dissolve with every thrust. It's like feeling a dam give way under water, the way his body gives in before the rush of passion...the way he breathes into my ear, a little harsher every now and then, the way he groans when I rise up to meet him...it makes me feel so small, so alive, so TAKEN, knowing he can do anything he wants, I'm lying back and offering my body like a buffet of pleasures, and he can choose to make love to me so slowly I want to die melting, or he can thrust so hard I cannot breathe...but I can feel the choice in him, especially in his arms, the anticipation of what he might do...God, there is nothing like that moment when he feels my body tighten around him and he knows I'm right there on the edge, that feeling of power that runs through him so strongly that I can feel it as though I were reading his mind...and then the hesitation disappears and his muscles under my hands become like bands of steel as he pushes deeper, holds me tighter, his voice incoherent but who gives a fuck, what he says doesn't matter, it's just that he says it at all...then the dam breaks and he rides the swell of it with all the tension gone, knowing I can and will take anything he can give me...feeling so delightfully possessed by him, the strength of him so much more powerful than my own, but feeling safe in the midst of it...and just wrapping myself around him and letting him take me without asking how I want it. Just taking it. There is absolutely nothing else in the world like that feeling of being so vulnerable and so powerful all at once.

*sigh*

S.

AMEN

 

[Owlz]

God, am I ever in the mood to answer this question.

I want him on top. I absolutely love that. Because I can feel the power in his body and how he uses it. I can tell by the tension in his arms when I run my hands over them, in the trembling of his thighs when I wrap my legs around him, just how much he is holding back. I can feel that spiral of tension in him dissolve with every thrust. It's like feeling a dam give way under water, the way his body gives in before the rush of passion...the way he breathes into my ear, a little harsher every now and then, the way he groans when I rise up to meet him...it makes me feel so small, so alive, so TAKEN, knowing he can do anything he wants, I'm lying back and offering my body like a buffet of pleasures, and he can choose to make love to me so slowly I want to die melting, or he can thrust so hard I cannot breathe...but I can feel the choice in him, especially in his arms, the anticipation of what he might do...God, there is nothing like that moment when he feels my body tighten around him and he knows I'm right there on the edge, that feeling of power that runs through him so strongly that I can feel it as though I were reading his mind...and then the hesitation disappears and his muscles under my hands become like bands of steel as he pushes deeper, holds me tighter, his voice incoherent but who gives a fuck, what he says doesn't matter, it's just that he says it at all...then the dam breaks and he rides the swell of it with all the tension gone, knowing I can and will take anything he can give me...feeling so delightfully possessed by him, the strength of him so much more powerful than my own, but feeling safe in the midst of it...and just wrapping myself around him and letting him take me without asking how I want it. Just taking it. There is absolutely nothing else in the world like that feeling of being so vulnerable and so powerful all at once.

*sigh*

S.

Wow, sheath...just...WOW!

 

[Owlz]

::slowly takes hand out of pants, looking around innocently:: heh

I like the power of it all, sheath took the words out of my mouth. And I feel that i'm not very good personally ontop to begin with. I like it, but I'm not comfortable up there most of the time.

It would be an honor and a pleasure to be on top of you, Blue.

 

[Owlz]

underneath.......... with my legs on his shoulders......... deep and hard....... mmmmmmmmmmm, hearing his balls slapping in tmy juices, banging against me.....

mmmmmmmmmm

*note to self - stop reading threads that get you horny*

Noooooooo, don't *ever* stop reading those types of threads!

 

[Owlz]

*quiet smile* The concept, y'mean? It's at the very top of my list of favorite situations to be in (right above 'during a summer thunderstorm'), but sadly, it's been years since the last time I got to do it. But... here's a mental snippet for you.

I remember... pausing for breath, listening to the harsh sounds of my lover's breathing, looking at her beneath me, heat radiating upwards from her body into mine, driving off the autumn chill. She opened her eyes to regard me.

"You stopped," she murmured.

"Mhmm," I agreed, and took her hand up to my mouth, kissing the fingertips and palm gently. I gave her another grind of my hips to keep her centered in the middle of the current plateau; she took an appreciative breath.

"What're you up to?"

"Just sharing a moment.... watch."

And I laced my fingers through hers, and lifted her hand and mine --

--until it intersected the moonbeam coming in through the half-open blinds.

I turned her hand over, so that we held a bit of silver light together. "That." I said.

"Oh." she said quietly, after a long moment of contemplation.

And I squeezed her hand firmly, and started moving again with a purpose....


-CoyoteTales

I used to be able to write like this. Damn, I hate getting old.

 

[Owlz]

Who's on top; What's on the bottom; I Don't Know is beside the bed, taking notes.

 

[sheath]

Owlz and Avery...thanks.

S.

 

[Owlz]

Owlz and Avery...thanks.

S.

For what?

 

[sheath]

For what?

For the compliments, silly.

S.

 

[Owlz]

For the compliments, silly.

S.

You're most welcome (and most deserving).

 

[Xelebes]

I'm a guy and I prefer being on the bottom. I tried mimicking top motions out of sheer boredom and in an experimenting mood a few times and damn is it uncomfortable.

 

[Nomad420]

the old over / under, wot?

I really like both, so it depends on the girl. If she wants to be on top, hey, ride 'em cowgirl! If she prefers being on the bottom, I include that at no extra charge. Generally I try to cover both.

I love being on top b/c I love having the woman's legs wrapped around me, and I love moving her legs / lower body in different angles and positions - legs together, legs apart, her on her side, slightly rotated, etc. Plus, if the situation is conducive, I can use my hands to touch her breasts and clitoris. Big bonus points there.

I love being on the bottom just to give the woman all the control. I really like laying back with my arms behind my head, watching a beautiful girl ride me, especially when it gets her off. Additional bonuses include breast touching / sucking, ass-grabbing (maybe even a little finger > bum play if she's into it) and having her lie right against me and wrap her arms around me as I thrust up into her.

Lately I've really enjoyed being on top but with her laying facedown, legs together. I kind of straddle from behind with my legs on the outside and enter her from behind / above. Amazingly stimulating for both of us - highly recommended.

 

[Teddybear1626]

Oh my what this thread is doing to me tonight!!

I LOVE BEING ON TOP!! Controling him going as fast as i want or as slow as i want. Massaging my breasts and playing w/ my clit as i'm riding him giving him one hell of a show! Cant beat it!!

Oh could i go for some great sex right now! lol

 

[Owlz]

Oh could i go for some great sex right now! lol

That makes two of us, Miss bear.

 

[Willing and Unsure]

I must admit to a bit of a stray thought, now; 'are we trained to like being on top for men, or on the bottom for women, by the media exposure we have to sex?' Or is it because we're wired for the one or the other? Do we get the urge to experiment because we've heard about one position or another from someone else?

Indeed....

-CoyoteTales

I'll try to answer this one. For me, it has nothing to do with the media, it's just a preference in what I like. Personally, I cum the hardest when taken from behind, but I also enjoy having my ass squeezed rather hard when that time comes for him to cum too (makes me cum even harder.... but I digress).. Anyways, when it comes to who is on top, it all depends on the person. I dont particularly like to be on top, and that's more becuase of three reasons: 1) I'm not that good at it and 2) I dont like the feeling of my fat bouncing around with me and 3) I fall over once I start to cum. But that's just me. I prefer to be on bottom because I can wrap my legs around him, put them up over his shoulders or find somethign else to do altogether. I've found though, that in this position, we are both always goign to be somewhat comfortable and he can sit up, play with me (breasts and whatnot) while I play with him and keep my legs happily up in the air. Other than that, read what Sheath said to answer your question. I think she more than summed it up for just about all of us ladies.

 

[michie]

On my tummy, him on top. I think it is because I am submissive, but I don't like to go on top. I like a man that will do it hard and take control. I don't really like to be in control. Nothing better than recieving.