Why can't ever bisexuals ever fall in love with same sex?

[Xectxny19X]

Xectxny19x

I just wanted to ask you what this line in your profile means:
"Liew gaw, pood gub kon tee mee muhlayad ka"

Hi there,
It's Thai. I'm sorry to hear you lost touch with that girl.
*throws you a reassuring smile*
I wouldn't think it's me, because if it's that long ago...
I wasn't even using the internet at that age.
Take care.

 

[Sanitysux]

I wouldn't think it's me, because if it's that long ago...
I wasn't even using the internet at that age.

Ah..ha..ha...I feel like such an old man now!
It was a long time ago. I was MUCH younger then myself.
AOL was my introduction to the internet.
We didn't have a romantic relationship, nothing like that.
Just two "newbies" hanging out and acting stupid.

We spent most of our time in chat rooms, driving the Conservative Christians insane by talking dirty!
{They get so uptight about beastiality & human sacrifice???}
When we weren't swapping "WaRez" of course.
{That's before we knew it wasn't completely legal/moral }
Anyway, thanks for the quick reply.

 

[John Doe]

No. I don't think it's missing out on anything because one is not bisexual. You're missing out when you're not getting what you want. There's a difference.

I don't think she said you're missing out if you're not bi, I think she said you're missing out iof you're bi, but only let yourself fall in love with one gender.

Personally, myself I don't give a fuck what people think of me because I'm gay. I'm a gay man and that's who I am, have been since day one. If people can't accept that then see ya! I don't need them. You have to accept and be proud of who you are if you are to be a happy person. If they want to "label" me gay, well then great! Because that's who I am.
Interestinly enough, I've found that most people find it strange and perplexing, not so much because I'm a gay man, but more because I've have never desired to be with a woman. I'm not bisexual. They just don't get it. I will say though, that some of the most painful relationships I've had in my life have been with a bisexual man. Because of the fact that sooner or later, he's going to get that "urge" or "need" to have to have his "fling" with someone of the opposite sex. Problems. Now I'm speaking here for myself, because in my case I'm more of a monogamous person. I would take these flings as cheating or betrayal.
That's why I don't think a gay person and a bisexual person could have a serious monogamous relationship together. Sorry if I got a little off course here, but I do understand your statement that more often than, bisexuals will end up sticking with the opposite sex for a serious relationship.

Most bisexuals are just as monogamous as you are. If someone has the urge to have a "fling," they are either bi-curious or there is some other reason for it, like there would be in any other kind of relationship. Bisexuals aren't necessarily sluts, just like homosexuals aren't necessarily any more promiscuous either.

 

[DarkAurora]

I'm not a she.

Maybe I should get a different screenname because people always assume I'm a girl when I don't have an icon up.

 

[sxxyboy1000]

Wtf!

Who's not monogamouss.s.s.s.s.s? Be careful about labelling folk - I could get well pissed off at such a ridiculous generalisation. Don't come back with stats etc. Everybody is different and to sit there and preach some sort of black/white philosophy makes me+friends+lovers see red! GRRRRR!

 

[rip_1_4_u]

I know there are a few cases where bisexual people fall in love and have serious relationships but more often than not, they just have sexual flings with the same sex and stick with the opposite sex for serious relationships. I do understand a little because I used to tell myself when I was a young teenager that I was just sexually attracted to men because I didn't want to deal with the fact that I was gay. I understand too if you don't want to be labeled as "gay" because you don't want people around you treating you different but it just seems to me that you are lucky to be bisexual and that you are losing out by limiting yourself to only loving the opposite sex.

Hmmm, I fell in love with a woman in college, but she was with someone else. I married a guy who was my best friend and told him about the women I had been interested in and/or had cared about. We were together for 5 years.

I dated a few women, dated a couple of guys, then fell in love with a woman, who I was with for 15 years. I labeled myself a lesbian, since that's all I was into. My friends are lesbians or gay friendly.

I've had to really rethink my labels, since my girl friend and I broke up a few months ago. Jeez, now I'm attracted to men and women. I think it was too confusing for me to accept before that I had all these choices! So I'm labeling myself now as bisexual, since my relationship with my girlfriend was one of the most powerful events in my life. I've been out for a long time, and am not interested in hiding a thing.

I know most people can have a broad range of sexual feelings and emotional feelings for the same and opposite sex. I'm open to a relationship with either a man or a woman right now -- as long as the person I'm with can accept that I'm out as bisexual.

 

[Mikijl Dragon]

I would have to say

I originally looked towards same sex relationships as just sex nothing more. My view has changed over the last year as I now care for my boyfriend deeply. I love my wife as well so I guess that makes me double lucky!

 

[John Doe]

I'm not a she.

Maybe I should get a different screenname because people always assume I'm a girl when I don't have an icon up.

Sorry, but really it's all the same difference around here isn't it?