Why did i become bi?

This pretty much describes it, but I was in a near-sexless marriage, and I agree with others above, sex is exciting, new is exciting, getting off is fun and guys are easy.
I'm Greater Cincinnati going thru divorce WM 59..let's chat/meet
 
From an early age, I knew cock did something for me. Love the ladies but there is something about sucking cock that turns me on. I become a cocksucking slut at the sight of a nice hard cock in my face.
Just like you, all my will power drains away if I see a hard cock. The only thought in my head is to inhale that man meat and make it explode.
 
I'm also 55, and my urges started from chatting with other guys on here a couple years ago. At first, it was just fun to chat with someone while I was jerking off. Then I started thinking more and more about them jerking off at the same time. I gradually became more and more aroused by the idea of a man enjoying his cock. Then I became more aroused by the idea of enjoying his cock myself. And I finally decided I was ready to explore those urges.

I think what it boiled down to is partly because I was just plain lonely and horny, but also because I've done virtually everything that can be done with a woman, so I thought I'd broaden my horizons and see what other sexual pleasures I could enjoy.
I couldn't agree more, such a great observation, thank you!
 
I became Bi because it was hard to resist the offer of a blow job from men who would ask to suck me. They would pick me up hitchiking. I went home with them for a quickie, got naked in bed, and enjoyed getting sucked or fuck them. Usually there was booze or pot involved. Curiosity led me to stroke their cocks or do a reach around. Eventually I tried sucking and, though at first I was nervous and it seemed akward, I learned to relax and enjoy, and eventually crave having a cock in my mouth. It took a while before I kissed a man and gave up my anal cherry, but when I did that seemed the final step to being fully Bi.
 
For me I've known I had an attraction to men for almost as long as I've been attracted to women. I don't think I was born this way though.

I experienced a number of traumas as a child that I think created the perfect storm. I'm not speaking for anyone else.

I'm also learning that I'm bi in a way that many other bi men aren't.

There are tons of men who enjoy submitting to a man, playing a very feminine role. That's not me.

There are a ton of men who enjoy completely dominating another man. That's not me.

No judgment on either, just not me.

I prefer "bottom" but I don't feel feminine or submissive when I bottom. I feel masculine.

When I top I don't feel a rush of power and control, I feel masculine.

I love kissing a man, running my hands all over him, I want the same in return.

I'm not unique by any means there's several men on here that are just like me.

I have a male lover, and I do love him.

I have a wife, that I am in love with. The romantic connection is much stronger to her than with him, but there is absolutely a romantic connection to him.

I think I'm just rambling.

My short answer is I didn't become bi, and I can't imagine a satisfying sex life that didn't include both men and women.
 
For me I've known I had an attraction to men for almost as long as I've been attracted to women. I don't think I was born this way though.

I experienced a number of traumas as a child that I think created the perfect storm. I'm not speaking for anyone else.

I'm also learning that I'm bi in a way that many other bi men aren't.

There are tons of men who enjoy submitting to a man, playing a very feminine role. That's not me.

There are a ton of men who enjoy completely dominating another man. That's not me.

No judgment on either, just not me.

I prefer "bottom" but I don't feel feminine or submissive when I bottom. I feel masculine.

When I top I don't feel a rush of power and control, I feel masculine.

I love kissing a man, running my hands all over him, I want the same in return.

I'm not unique by any means there's several men on here that are just like me.

I have a male lover, and I do love him.

I have a wife, that I am in love with. The romantic connection is much stronger to her than with him, but there is absolutely a romantic connection to him.

I think I'm just rambling.

My short answer is I didn't become bi, and I can't imagine a satisfying sex life that didn't include both men and women.
My kind of Bi as well. Thanks for explaining.
 
I had my first MM experience when I was 40. It was a mixture of circumstance, opportunity and lust. I was apprehensive about repeating the experience but curiosity and desire made me seek it out.
 
I was in my 40s when I started to wonder what it would be like to play with another cock. Took me a few years to get an opportunity to touch one, but didn't take very long to go from wanking to sucking each other. I still love women, but there's something about playing with another cock.
 
I was in my 40s when I started to wonder what it would be like to play with another cock. Took me a few years to get an opportunity to touch one, but didn't take very long to go from wanking to sucking each other. I still love women, but there's something about playing with another cock.
i found out with checking this site. i read a couple of stories and got really turned on. i eventually had some chats and meet up with someone.
 
I don't remember a time when I didn't masturbate. I was masturbating and having orgasms long before I could ejaculate. I've never been and still am not attracted to guys, only their cock, only when it's hard. I believe it all started with finding pleasure from my own hard dick. I've never wanted to kiss another guy or have anal. I am only aroused by the idea of sucking cock and frotting. Dick size as well as height and weight play into my desires. Smaller guys with bigger cock drive me to my knees. The absolute best for me is a very feminine big dick trans girl who likes to orally dominate as much as I like to orally submit. I've talked to a lot of guys online over the years but have never found anyone into my groove.
 
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