Why Haven't You PMd the Poster Above You?

I did a long time ago but she's a lot more kinky than I am...
Usually, I'm very private about these things and don't respond to a current/ former play partner publicly about what we do out of public view.
And, to be clear, I'm not ashamed of a single kink I have. I discuss them openly and they are generally appreciated by my friends. The reason we stopped talking was not my kinkiness-- how dare you try to shame me that way?

I just looked and I didn't save our conversation, but when I said goodbye to you, it was because we weren't a good fit. The last time I tried playing with you, I found that you were (once again) not responding to what I needed. You have two positions you like to imagine during sexting: pounding like a jackhammer from behind and, even more frequently, being ridden as you pound like a jackhammer (with a little BJ thrown in here and there). It didn't matter what I wrote about what I was feeling, needing, or "doing" to you... Seconds later, you were right back at the jackhammer. Jesus... Look at the gifs you post -- they're ALL like that...

And if that's your thing, that's fine. Do you. Someone will love it. Hell, I love it sometimes. But not every time. As I remember that night, I was asking you to be as plain and boring and vanilla as possible by imagining gentle missionary after I'd had a bad day... and you just weren't acknowledging my needs or desires as you talked about forcing me to straddle you as you were hammering away at me. It wasn't working for me, so I ended things.

Despite my giving you what surely feels like a dressing-down, I hope you know that I still wish you well in all parts of your life. If we see each other around again, let's either keep up with the polite silence, or stick to a collegial, kind hello, shall we?
 
And to get the thread back on track, I'll say that while I do love a beast from time to time, it looks like he's got his eyes on someone else right now. 😁

.... Edit to add:
Shit. @Bowlerpa06 posted at the same time I did. And same-- we're just meeting today, so that explains why no PMs yet.
I honestly just don't PM much anymore. It's not that I won't respond, but I don't really initiate. Been here too long to do that I guess. :)
 
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