Why is it so Challenging...

lady_jennaxx

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To find a younger man who is comfortable with his sub tendencies?

I'm not into anything hardcore by any means. I prefer the dynamic to have a heavy emphasis on exploration, connection and nurturing acceptance as opposed to stern force. I consider myself a strong woman but I am not interested in humiliation or degradation.

Any men interested in discussing...the PMs are always welcome:rose:
 
Good question

I consider myself a switch, but always feel rather nervous any chance to explore my submissive side which usually kills any momentum.

Societal expectations drilled into our subconscious would be my guess?
 
I'm not a man but it shouldn't be hard. I've had a lot of them contact me.
 
Hi Lady Jenna,

Don't worry. We're out here!

It's rare to find a dominant that expresses that kind of perspective, as a younger male submissive myself the typical humiliation/degradation centric don't appeal to me as much as what you are describing.

Hope to hear more of your thoughts!

Fox
 
I would like to support Jenna, she is a fantastically sweet woman and she WILL make your knees weak :)
 
hey there
My names Chris
Im 23, 6ft, 180lbs, slim, curly blond hair, grey eyes.
Have been curious about submitting to an woman recenty and would love to chat about it.
 
Because young men suck and have working dumbsticks
.. and less concern for lovers they think can be easily replaced vs cherished
 
Isn't it the same as everything else ailing people? Patriarchy and masculinity.... Testosterone running high in younger men. It takes time to let go of the societal constructs and be comfortable in your own skin I suppose.
Anyways, 36 yr old, if not too old, is available here 😁
 
Isn't it the same as everything else ailing people? Patriarchy and masculinity.... Testosterone running high in younger men. It takes time to let go of the societal constructs and be comfortable in your own skin I suppose.
Anyways, 36 yr old, if not too old, is available here 😁

I suspect your observations are correct simpledude.
 
If the young men are hard to find, you could open your window to older men
 
Its really quite simple. Those of us who need Lifestyle Dynamics find that any relation we seek are at least 10 times as complicated/complex as any vanilla relationship. Its harder to find someone who clicks with your needs (and you theirs) than people who are in vanilla relationships.

For example. If you need a D/s dynamic... well there are many different kinds of Doms and just as many different kinds of subs. Its so challenging... not to mention when you have vanillas who want to jump in and have no idea what they need/want.

Hope this helps some.

Master Doctor
 
Its really quite simple. Those of us who need Lifestyle Dynamics find that any relation we seek are at least 10 times as complicated/complex as any vanilla relationship. Its harder to find someone who clicks with your needs (and you theirs) than people who are in vanilla relationships.

For example. If you need a D/s dynamic... well there are many different kinds of Doms and just as many different kinds of subs. Its so challenging... not to mention when you have vanillas who want to jump in and have no idea what they need/want.

Hope this helps some.

Master Doctor

Very helpful :rose:

It is difficult to relate to those who claim to have interest in a particular dynamic, yet have no idea what it really entails.

As the search continues...
 
Would be nice to have someone like you in my life. I am confident in my tendencies and would love to explore them, but could use a woman to help bring them out in a sensual and positive manner
 
Very helpful :rose:

It is difficult to relate to those who claim to have interest in a particular dynamic, yet have no idea what it really entails.

As the search continues...

I am gratified that you found my missive of value. If you ever need someone to talk to, please feel free to contact me.
 
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