Why is it so Challenging...

To find a younger man who is comfortable with his sub tendencies?

I'm not into anything hardcore by any means. I prefer the dynamic to have a heavy emphasis on exploration, connection and nurturing acceptance as opposed to stern force. I consider myself a strong woman but I am not interested in humiliation or degradation.

Any men interested in discussing...the PMs are always welcome:rose:

I believe it's hard finding anything... people always get in their own way.
 
It's not as easy as you would think. Being a sub and finding the right women is tough stuff
 
It's not as easy as you would think. Being a sub and finding the right women is tough stuff

Finding the right fit with another, regardless of the dynamic you seek, is a tough proposition. But if you want it enough, you just keep looking and don't settle :rose:
 
I believe, from the tone of PMs I've received, that the answer to my question lies in the current climate we live in. There seems to be less value placed on the actual investment of time, thought and interaction. Those things involve effort, and despite the fact that almost every routine task of our daily lives can now be resolved with the phrase "there's an app for that", the advent of smart technology hasn't eliminated the desire (at least for me), for an actual human connection.

I hope I'm not the only one that feels that way.
 
Arguable, perhaps you should be more specific than sub tendencies as well. It seems as though there are hundreds, if not thousands, of young and eager subs willing to play and enjoy you. Yes, many are looking for more play over long term, but perhaps the magnitude of submission you are looking for should be a bit more... specified?

As for human connection, many look for more a way of a letting our sexual desires out, with human connection later. I doubt many people here will be meeting in person or searching for a long term or permanent partner from afar, either.
 
Arguable, perhaps you should be more specific than sub tendencies as well. It seems as though there are hundreds, if not thousands, of young and eager subs willing to play and enjoy you. Yes, many are looking for more play over long term, but perhaps the magnitude of submission you are looking for should be a bit more... specified?

As for human connection, many look for more a way of a letting our sexual desires out, with human connection later. I doubt many people here will be meeting in person or searching for a long term or permanent partner from afar, either.

If anyone had the desire to get a better idea of what my definition of "sub tendencies" is, they can easily search my post history (which is what I do prior to initiating contact), or they can simply ask me.

And honestly, I don't feel the need to provide justification for what I'm hoping to find, or how, just as I wouldn't expect anyone else to.

But thanks for the input and good luck in your search.
 
That is fair, searching a persons history is one of the benefits about the site, but bringing it to one place is definitely beneficial.

Im simply hoping to answer your questions, or at least give another point of view. Everyone is looking for something different.

Good luck to you as well! I hope you find who you are looking for
 
That is fair, searching a persons history is one of the benefits about the site, but bringing it to one place is definitely beneficial.

Im simply hoping to answer your questions, or at least give another point of view. Everyone is looking for something different.

Good luck to you as well! I hope you find who you are looking for

Thanks.
 
I believe, from the tone of PMs I've received, that the answer to my question lies in the current climate we live in. There seems to be less value placed on the actual investment of time, thought and interaction. Those things involve effort, and despite the fact that almost every routine task of our daily lives can now be resolved with the phrase "there's an app for that", the advent of smart technology hasn't eliminated the desire (at least for me), for an actual human connection.

I hope I'm not the only one that feels that way.

I agree with u here an actual connection is very important in relationships
 
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