subdudeme13
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EmmAgain
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I’ve use Feeldoe strapless types in the past but I find they’re just not secure enough to really pound away. (Might be the way I used them?) They’re way more portable than the usual harness types, tho, which is great if you’re out on a date with a handbag.
We have a Joque with a couple of dildos - anal and vaginal - for when we entertain visitors. Once we’re in the groove, I really like to go hard - which is why I appreciate the stability of the Joque.
I modeled in Argentina for a sex toy company while I was at school. They had their own line and it was surprisingly good quality. This is me on the receiving end.
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I’ve use Feeldoe strapless types in the past but I find they’re just not secure enough to really pound away. (Might be the way I used them?) They’re way more portable than the usual harness types, tho, which is great if you’re out on a date with a handbag.
We have a Joque with a couple of dildos - anal and vaginal - for when we entertain visitors. Once we’re in the groove, I really like to go hard - which is why I appreciate the stability of the Joque.
I modeled in Argentina for a sex toy company while I was at school. They had their own line and it was surprisingly good quality. This is me on the receiving end.
My wife didn’t like the feeldoe either. She said it hurt her. She said certain positions made the bulb inside her press against something and was uncomfortable and even painfull.
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Yeah, they tend to slip around a bit and press on delicate parts. I’ve sometimes found them uncomfortable but, so far, not outright painful. As long as you don’t need to pack it, a harness strap-on is way better..
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Yeah, they tend to slip around a bit and press on delicate parts. I’ve sometimes found them uncomfortable but, so far, not outright painful. As long as you don’t need to pack it, a harness strap-on is way better..
I don’t know how you could pack it, they are very rigid. My wife does pack but she has a XL Mr Limpy that’s ment for packing.
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Oh there are some with folding pivot - it kinda clips into place so the whole thing can fold. Still embarrassing when TSA do their rummaging mind you….
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Oh, I’m sorry we are not talking about the same thing. Packing is wearing it outside the house. My wife wears a strap on under her clothes sometimes while we’re out and about.Oh there are some with folding pivot - it kinda clips into place so the whole thing can fold. Still embarrassing when TSA do their rummaging mind you….
As long as they let you through with it, you’re good to go don’t be embarrassed
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Does she let you fondle it or stroke it? Discretely of course!
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I did just that, she came over and had cold feet, and I’m fine with that, if I’m going to be done, I want a girl, who is passionate about it
but slowly slowly, and we may get there
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She presses it against me and I have discretely and maybe not so discretely played with it.
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You gotta love a tease. Next thing you know you will be wearing a butt plug when you go out with a remote control vibrator in it!
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You should massage her feet and warm them up. Then work your way up, slowly.I did just that, she came over and had cold feet, and I’m fine with that, if I’m going to be done, I want a girl, who is passionate about it
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Too late, already have a lovense hush. We use it often.You gotta love a tease. Next thing you know you will be wearing a butt plug when you go out with a remote control vibrator in it!
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Maybe you should buy a suction cup base dildo of the appropriate size for you maybe one that will fit into a harness . Then when you are talking about it sometime mount it to a stool and take it for a ride with her watching maybe if she sees you enjoying it she might reconsider make sure you get the harness too just in case .
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The feeldoe absolutely needs some kind of harnessI’ve use Feeldoe strapless types in the past but I find they’re just not secure enough to really pound away. (Might be the way I used them?) They’re way more portable than the usual harness types, tho, which is great if you’re out on a date with a handbag.
We have a Joque with a couple of dildos - anal and vaginal - for when we entertain visitors. Once we’re in the groove, I really like to go hard - which is why I appreciate the stability of the Joque.
I modeled in Argentina for a sex toy company while I was at school. They had their own line and it was surprisingly good quality. This is me on the receiving end.
