Women - How Do Dicks of Different Sizes Feel Inside You?

[Familiemom]

I like big and hard ones

 

[Bramblethorn]

being a guy I probably shouldn't be contributing to this thread, but seeing as it's gone a bit of the rails... why not?

FWIW, congrats on writing the first believable "I have an 8" dick" post I've read in a very long time.

 

[ShelbyDawn57]

Well, I was way off on the first three pages or so, but then AH normalcy (read lunacy) reasserted itself.

Should have see limtericks and a discussion on the origin of the days of the week coming, silly me.

Not casting aspersions, but I have noticed a certain trend of threads derailing when certain "influences' appear. Ahem, ahem...

 

[LMWM321]

FWIW, congrats on writing the first believable "I have an 8" dick" post I've read in a very long time.

Thanks... I have nothing to gain by lying.

I don't want to give the wrong impression.... My wife and I still have great sex, but it's in spite of my big dick, not because of it. We have found our own work-arounds.

 

[Erodicus]

I like big and hard ones

Now that's what I call a refreshingly direct answer.

 

[AG31]

I've asked a few women I know, but they haven't had a huge range in girth and say it doesn't matter too much. Is this the consensus? Can you not tell a big difference even when the thickness is substantially different?

I see you are a writer with multiple stories already, yet you are a new face here in AH. A word of advice: Asking such creepy questions can be taken the wrong way, no matter if your question is genuine or not. Just giving you a fair warning.

I don't think your question is creepy at all. It seems a perfectly reasonable question. And it allows us ladies to spread the information that you can't feel anything on the walls of your vagina. Imagine giving birth if you could!!

Not only do I not find it creepy, I can't remember a bad reaction to questions such as yours. Welcome to Lit!

 

[AG31]

I can't believe people replied to this.

Can't wait for "ladies, can you show me your boobs, I need to describe what they look like"

It's good that a guy asks the question. Enough of this "feeling the sperm spurt inside her." That's just stupid, and if more people asked questions, more people would be educated.

 

[lc69hunter]

My second wife was of the opinion that a large cock was like a decadent dessert, good occasionally, but wouldn't want a full diet of it, as she preferred one that would comfortably fit in all three holes and not make her sore the next day.

 

[Littletoo]

I am working on a story where a woman fucks a guy with a thick dick after being with a long-term boyfriend with an average one, but I realized all I really know about this is what I read in smut.

I've asked a few women I know, but they haven't had a huge range in girth and say it doesn't matter too much. Is this the consensus? Can you not tell a big difference even when the thickness is substantially different?

If you can tell, how would you describe the difference between a thick dick and an average one when it is inside you?

If you can't, does it still make sense to write about her being able to tell as a form of literary exaggeration that excites the reader? As in, is it better to write something like, "As he entered me, I could feel him stretching me wider than Tom could've dreamed," versus something like, "As he entered me, the size I initially feared felt similar to Tom"?

While we are on this topic, as women, do you care if the size of a man's dick is described in erotica?

Edit: Clarifying that I am asking about girth and not length.

I'm probably not the girl to ask about this. I'm 5'1 and weigh 100 lbs. They are all HUGE to me.

Size is more of a "guy thing." I have NEVER HEARD a girl say to me, "Oh. My BF is 'too small to satisfy me.'" The complaints I DO hear from girls are always about technique. Whenever I DO hear, "Not long enough," it always refers to length of time in coitus, never to "length of penis."

I can tell you for a positive fact that without looking, I can ID any guy I've had more than once by their technique, even if, hypothetically, their units were all dimensionally identical.

My ex was a "quick draw." The weasel pops and he withdraws, rolls over, and switches on ESPN. Then there's Mr. "strip-and-dip" (no foreplay) Then there's the ",jackhammer" who watches WAY too much porn and knows almost nothing about real girls. There's the low rider, who never touches my clit, and the high rider who pops me too fast. There's preferred.position: missionary, doggie, cowgirl, reverse cowgirl, white crane. My roommate is a maths professor. She can tell you how many combinations there are.

I have only one concern about size. If it won't fit in my MOUTH, It doesn't go in my ASS. Yes, there was one. He wasn't black, though, he was Hmong. I went to a mixed-race, mostly black, inner City high school in St Paul, Minnesota, across the river from Minneapolis, (George Floyd country). I was the DEI-quota; the blond, blue-eyed white girl from the West Chicago 'Burbs. I've had a rainbow of cock colors and sizes.

Sorry, guys, the BBC thing is a complete myth (but I know that conceit is irresistible to erotica writers. so I promise I won't tell.) I learned that the size distribution of black cocks is about the same as white. I also learned there that racism is an Equal Opportunity Vice which does not depend on the color if one's skin, but on the content of one's character.

I wish you luck with your story. I'm not a writer. I've never written anything. I am, however, the other half of the writing experience. .

A Reader

 

[StillStunned]

There's preferred.position: missionary, doggie, cowgirl, reverse cowgirl, white crane

White crane? (It sounds like something from the Karate Kid.)

 

[LMWM321]

Sorry, guys, the BBC thing is a complete myth (but I know that conceit is irresistible to erotica writers. so I promise I won't tell.) I learned that the size distribution of black cocks is about the same as white. I also learned there that racism is an Equal Opportunity Vice which does not depend on the color if one's skin, but on the content of one's character.

I wish you luck with your story. I'm not a writer. I've never written anything. I am, however, the other half of the writing experience. .

A Reader

I've always loved the irony of how long ago white men sought to make white women fearful of consorting with black men by telling dehumanizing lies about how they have terrifyingly huge penises and are hyper sexual. Then, along comes porn which propagates another lie - that women crave huge cocks - Ha!! Now, today's white men feel threatened and diminished because they internalized their own horrifically racist and misogynist lies about race and penis size. Poetic justice, I'd say. And of course, the idea then becomes fetishized - giving us the exhausting BBC category of KinK.

In my story "Sharing Michelle" I recount fulfilling my wife's fantasy of being shared with another man. He's was a black massage therapist who looks exactly like her celebrity-crush - The Duke from Bridgerton. My wife has forever swooned over The Duke - and not b/c he's black and likely has a huge dick, but because, well... the dude is freakin' gorgeous (her other celebrity crush is tennis legend Roger Federer, a white guy). ...Oh, and The Duke look-alike has a very average sized penis, which is to say much smaller than mine, which my wife loved b/c with him, oral was comfortable, and anal was finally possible. Please read it if you're interested in how a smaller dick can indeed be better than a very large one.

 

[Kumquatqueen]

I've certainly encountered penises that are too small to satisfy, unable to really tell that they're in, let alone hit a G-spot. Luckily the one I've met more than once belongs to a chap who knows how to supplement action with his fingers (or use fingers instead of his cock), not to mention using his mouth beforehand, so it's not a problem. From his point of view, people happily suck him off for ages because it's easy and comfortable, so he's hardly suffering!

Another gentleman of my acquaintance has a very large cock, which means he has to be careful with most women. The time of the month when a cervix is lifted up out of the way to enable deeper fucking is most welcome!

 

[tripleflip]

I'm probably not the girl to ask about this. I'm 5'1 and weigh 100 lbs. They are all HUGE to me.

Size is more of a "guy thing." I have NEVER HEARD a girl say to me, "Oh. My BF is 'too small to satisfy me.'" The complaints I DO hear from girls are always about technique. Whenever I DO hear, "Not long enough," it always refers to length of time in coitus, never to "length of penis."

I can tell you for a positive fact that without looking, I can ID any guy I've had more than once by their technique, even if, hypothetically, their units were all dimensionally identical.

My ex was a "quick draw." The weasel pops and he withdraws, rolls over, and switches on ESPN. Then there's Mr. "strip-and-dip" (no foreplay) Then there's the ",jackhammer" who watches WAY too much porn and knows almost nothing about real girls. There's the low rider, who never touches my clit, and the high rider who pops me too fast. There's preferred.position: missionary, doggie, cowgirl, reverse cowgirl, white crane. My roommate is a maths professor. She can tell you how many combinations there are.

I have only one concern about size. If it won't fit in my MOUTH, It doesn't go in my ASS. Yes, there was one. He wasn't black, though, he was Hmong. I went to a mixed-race, mostly black, inner City high school in St Paul, Minnesota, across the river from Minneapolis, (George Floyd country). I was the DEI-quota; the blond, blue-eyed white girl from the West Chicago 'Burbs. I've had a rainbow of cock colors and sizes.

Sorry, guys, the BBC thing is a complete myth (but I know that conceit is irresistible to erotica writers. so I promise I won't tell.) I learned that the size distribution of black cocks is about the same as white. I also learned there that racism is an Equal Opportunity Vice which does not depend on the color if one's skin, but on the content of one's character.

I wish you luck with your story. I'm not a writer. I've never written anything. I am, however, the other half of the writing experience. .

A Reader

No, dorlin' Betty Everett said it all, much better than you did, before you were born:

"It's In His Kiss"

It's in your Jazzercize® playlist.

Only a male writer could POSSIBLY imagine that a girl would have to go all the way to penile girth to realize she was with a different guy. (Eye-roll)

Another Reader

 

[drobert44]

No, dorlin' Betty Everett said it all, much better than you did, before you were born:

"It's In His Kiss"

It's in your Jazzercize® playlist.

Only a male writer could POSSIBLY imagine that a girl would have to go all the way to penile girth to realize she was with a different guy. (Eye-roll)

Another Reader

Flip, I think you nailed it!

 

[Littletoo]

White crane? (It sounds like something from the Karate Kid.)

White Crane is an opening posture in Wu-style Tai Chi. But as a sex-position it is from the probably apocryphal Tao of Wu Sow.

I got it from my roommate's ex roommate, a Chinese post-doc working with a local chip house to connect your electronics directly to your nervous system.

"White Crane sit on Glory Throne" is a position Saolin monks used when
devouring...um...I mean deFLOWERIing virgin sacrifices.

"Man sit. Girl straddle man Lap impaled on cock"

I've tried it. I liked it.
..

 

[ShelbyDawn57]

White Crane is an opening posture in Wu-style Tai Chi. But as a sex-position it is from the probably apocryphal Tao of Wu Sow.

I got it from my roommate's ex roommate, a Chinese post-doc working with a local chip house to connect your electronics directly to your nervous system.

"White Crane sit on Glory Throne" is a position Saolin monks used when
devouring...um...I mean deFLOWERIing virgin sacrifices.

"Man sit. Girl straddle man Lap impaled on cock"

I've tried it. I liked it.
..

It does sound fun. Wonder how it works on girls like me?

 

[EmilyMiller]

A general comment…

When asked in what seems to be a non-creepy way, accompanied by a credible explanation, I see nothing wrong with women speaking about their sexual experiences, if they are happy to do so.

It’s framed as a story-centric question, so appropriate for an author-centered forum. IMO of course.

Just sayin’

Emily

 

[AG31]

I've occasionally read posts about people hijacking threads and haven't paid much attention. But I do think some people here should reflect on their impact on the rest of us. Why not start your own thread when something seems to be veering off into a small group back an forth?

 

[VerbalAbuse]

I don't think your question is creepy at all. It seems a perfectly reasonable question. And it allows us ladies to spread the information that you can't feel anything on the walls of your vagina. Imagine giving birth if you could!!

Not only do I not find it creepy, I can't remember a bad reaction to questions such as yours. Welcome to Lit!

There's a ton of nonsense stories reading something like:

the woman's clearest sensation was the man's seed jetting against her cervix.

 

[countdowntolov3]

Wen asked in what seems to be a non-creepy way, accompanied by a credible explanation, I see nothing wrong with women speaking about their sexual experiences, if they are happy to do so.

It’s framed as a story-centric question, so appropriate for an author-centered forum. IMO of course.

Yeah, I agree.

"What does it feel like to have a penis inside you?" - Not creepy.

"Tell me about the biggest dick you've ever had." - Creepy.

"What does anal feel like?" - Lazy. Go give it a try, and then you tell me.

Edit: I suppose I should contribute a little then. I think the feedback in this thread that you can't feel too much deeper in the vagina is good. But, at least to my experience, I'm not like, numb up there. There's just far far fewer nerve endings. It's hard to tell what's going on. Also, I can absolutely tell when a guy's cum in me, though it's a wet feeling, not the "shooting heat" that's getting ragged on here. And it's subtle. Like, I can only recognize it now that I've experienced it enough. I dunno, it felt like some of you were saying "nope, no sensation at all past two inches," and that's great if it's your experience, but it's not quite mine.

 

[EmilyMiller]

Yeah, I agree.

"What does it feel like to have a penis inside you?" - Not creepy.

"Tell me about the biggest dick you've ever had." - Creepy.

"What does anal feel like?" - Lazy. Go give it a try, and then you tell me.

FWIW when I wrote my Futanari story, I asked three male Lit friends to describe what they felt touching and playing with themselves. And what it felt like to have an erection and to have some one suck you etc

Now it was people I knew and it was in PMs not public, but kinda the same deal.

Emily

 

[bestkeptsecret678]

As for length, I'll let you in on a little secret. Once you get a couple inches into the vagina, there are no nerve endings, so 4 inches of meat works just as well as 8.

No nerve endings? I’d be interested in more female commentary on this point (not that I don’t believe PSG). Just that it’s new information and I’m always interested in the science and/or biology behind our experiences.

 

[EmilyMiller]

No nerve endings? I’d be interested in more female commentary on this point (not that I don’t believe PSG). Just that it’s new information and I’m always interested in the science and/or biology behind our experiences.

Not my area at all, but I believe that the science is that there is variation. People are different. I’m not sure there have been large scale studies, but smaller ones have found that innervation varies substantially, with different levels in different places, in different women.

I think it’s true to say that - on average - innervation reduces with depth, but there is quite a lot of variability.

Interestingly, no correlation has been found between levels of innervation and sexual dysfunction (lack of desire, inability to orgasm, etc.). I think the mental / emotional side has a role here.

In general few absolute statements about the human body hold for all people.

Emily (who is trying to avoid starting work again at midnight )

 

[Matty01]

My cock is only 2 inches

 

[LMWM321]

Not to belabor this whole size thing (and apologies to OP for yet another un-related post), this from from a quick google search. From Medical News Today:

"Researchers found vaginal depth ranged from approximately 2–5 inches (in), or 5–13 centimeters (cm). The average vaginal depth was around 3.6 inches (9.1 cm). The vagina is the canal to the cervix, which separates the uterus and the vagina."

So why would any guy want a cock that is considerably longer than the depth of their partners vagina? I can tell you, having the head of your dick reach the cervix while 3" of your dick is still outside the entrance is not ideal - for either person.

Would anyone enjoy hopping into a warm, inviting shower only to find the the shower head goes no higher than your sternum? That's kinda roughly analogous to having a very long dick.