would it turn you on?

[kaynip]

For the men.if your wife or girlfriend in bed one night started telling you about there past lovers and what they got up to in the sack,would it be a turn on or cause a fight.if the ladies have an opinion ,your welcome

 

[ReadyMike]

Just a few months ago I would have said "Hell yeah! Super hot talking about former lovers."

Now I have a girlfriend, and by a strange twist of fate we went to high school together for a few years (although we didn't date then), and she has been married and divorced.

Anyway, I don't think I'd find it hot, but I don't think it would be all that exciting to hear about former lovers, especially if I knew them.

 

[cadman7777]

it definitely would although my wife only had one lover before me......Iguess she thought she should just quit while she was ahead

But I always ask her who she would like to fuck and why ...but she doesn't like to participate

 

[Wife of Bath]

I guarantee he does not want to hear about it and it would lead to a fight.

 

[Jackotheshadows]

eh, she didn't have that many before me, but considering I'm (A) Southern, and (B) have a tremendously wide jealous streak, it would be A Very Bad Thing.

Likewise, I'd never discuss previous partners with her, unless it was a funny story..."This one time, I fell off the bed in the middle of sex, and the dog started howling at us..."

 

[Erik6266]

Early on in our marriage it would cause a fight. She used to tell me stuff now and then. I know for instance that she doesn't like nipple clamps lol and that one guy she had a porn star size cock.

Now given the state of our relationship I would welcome it. It would be a huge turn on.

 

[Andrianya]

I would only tell him if it was a bad story. Like this one guy that I slept with that just grunted and sweat on me. Like buckets of sweat. He'd appreciate that cause he'd know how much better I was getting from him. But I'm sure he wouldn't want to hear about my awesome sexual experiences. I know it would make him self conscious.

 

[dkovic77]

wow...like Ron Jeremy sweat?

 

[cadman7777]

I guarantee he does not want to hear about it and it would lead to a fight.

maybe you are right..just tell us your experiences then

 

[kaynip]

Thanks for the replys everyone.I love it when she tells me her sexploits but I can also understand the trouble it could cause.

 

[2TryAnything]

I have it pretty good. My wife always tells me I'm the only male lover she truly enjoys. She likes the idea of being with another woman and, when we're in bed, she tells me stories of her [very limited] girl-on-girl encounters from her youth. She claims they were much more enjoyable than any experiences with prior male lovers.

 

[Andrianya]

Yes, like Ron Jeremy sweat. I had to pull off the sheets and flip the mattress when he left. Crazy gross.

 

[islandguy]

I guarantee he does not want to hear about it and it would lead to a fight.

But I would love to hear about ALL of yours...

 

[dkovic77]

Yes, like Ron Jeremy sweat. I had to pull off the sheets and flip the mattress when he left. Crazy gross.

surprised you didn't burn it

 

[hisSLUTwife]

I guarantee he does not want to hear about it and it would lead to a fight.

thats been my experience

 

[man_4_milf]

If she were a lover and we were not in a relationship it would be hot. If it were w or GF it would be harder to manage but I would be open to hearing, learning and applying if possible.

 

[rmaitland]

could be hot

But would definitely not be a cause for a fight. I think more likely to be pretty hot. Heck, how about a re-enactment?

 

[LickYourNips]

thats been my experience

Same with me on that one.

It can really only be hot if they are fantasies.... even if a real life story were hot at the the time, it usually eats away later and causes conflict - - - UNLESS you have no real feelings for the person... then it doesn't matter. I have had experience with that.

- Jake

 

[Noor]

It can really only be hot if they are fantasies.... even if a real life story were hot at the the time, it usually eats away later and causes conflict - - - UNLESS you have no real feelings for the person... then it doesn't matter. I have had experience with that.

- Jake

I agree.

 

[TallMan60]

I actually love it. My wife is a bit reluctant, but I love to hear the details about her experiences (or near experiences with other men). She has told me everything and I find it very hot. I would actually like her to be with other men, as long as I'm sure she would not leave me for another man (and I'm confident of that, I mean there is much more to our relationship than sex), then I would love to have her experience other men and tell me about it. She's not very interested though. Maybe someday.

 

[kaynip]

I agree with you,it is hot.

 

[IAboy]

It's been too long for that.

 

[HAPPY DAYS]

Wife's Experience

I love it when my wife tells me about her sexploits before we were married. The more detail, the better.

 

[PublicAffection]

In my history, I have been with men who would be put off and upset if I told them the dirty truth of my experiences, and I have been with men who are totally turned on by it.

In a twist of fate, I managed to fall for my husband. I love it when he tells me about fucking other women. Some of the best sex we've had was when we were at his parents house in his old bedroom and he told me about fucking some girls there in the past. I just had to one-up them!

 

[AzZap]

If she was playing with my cock at the time I'd love it. My wife is to much of a prude but I've had lovers playing and sucking my cock while telling me past experiences they have had. Whether it was all real or part fantasy it was damn exciting.