Your Ideal Sexual Lifestyle

[cadman7777]

I have talked to him about mine and asked him what his are. He says he doesnt have any. Hes an overly analytical person in general...a bit robotic in my perspective. I have offered him swinging, "hall passes" or some sort of open sexual relationship and he said he doesnt need any of that...Ive come to learn he doesnt really need sex at all. He doesnt understand why I need sex.

Does he respond to any of your fantasies? Geez I wish my wife would tell me hers although I really don't think she has any........she doesn't talk about past experiences either which I think could be hot too....

 

[LittleGreene]

I think my husband are on an amazing place - with a change to our sex life that’s happened this year.

We’ve always been very sexual, but ebbs and flows with actually how much sex we have dire to life stresses.

This year we’ve been to a swingers club and have played with couples. Only twice but both times were amazing.

So we think that we will play a couple of times a year when our life allows it, and in between surf the halo effect we get from being with other people.

 

[SweetCookies]

I'm at a bit of a crossroads in my life, middle age looming, and trying to understand myself and my true desires. For my entire life, I've suppressed what that I truly desire for a life that revolved around what I was "supposed to do."

I think my ideal sexual lifestyle would be to have a partner that wants to explore their sexuality as much as I do. Doing things together and separately. Someone with a similar mindset and appetite. Swinging, stag/vixen, hotwifing, it's all on the table. No judgment. We have each others' backs. We help each other realize our ultimate fantasies. That's it in a general sense. What specifically happens would bloom from there.

I'd love to hear others' ideal situations. How would it look for you?

I have been fortunate enough to being living my idea sexual lifestyle. It's actually pretty close to what you have described in the sense we consider sex to be a fun thing we can enjoy together as a couple, separate with others, together with others and just bring to the table something one or both of us want to try and see how we can do that.

 

[571nova]

I'm very lucky in that I have a super-hot looking GF that's into almost everything sexual, from anal to hotwifing. We also are able to discuss our kinks in an honest way without fear of rejection by the other. In an ideal world the only thing I would like to add to my sex life would be a sissy. It's something I have thought about from a number of years.