A Difficult Choice

If you had to choose one to be your lover for life, which would it be?

  • A lover who is absolutely beautiful, but only average in the sack.

    Votes: 6 12.2%
  • One who is a fantastic lover, but who cannot speak (or write) at all.

    Votes: 10 20.4%
  • One who is brilliant with wit and words, but who cannot function sexually at all.

    Votes: 11 22.4%
  • One who is average, physically, mentally, and sexually.

    Votes: 22 44.9%

  • Total voters
    49
individual interp

So what we are thinging is our individual interpretations of your choices are based on our on lackings in life or the things we value most. It is interesting that so many of us did not take the options at face value and chose to think outside of the box to create our own ideals.

I wonder if the results would have been diferent if each individual did not put their own 'spin' on things.

Great poll by the way!
 
I chose the beautiful, but average lover. I'm reminded of the Woody Allen quote, "Even bad sex is good." (or words to that effect)

Besides, there's nothing to say that Beautiful = Dumb. As Clinton said the other night, strength and wisdom aren't mutually exclusive qualities. Neither are Beauty and Brains.

Given the downsides presented, I just thought that average sex with a beautiful lover is something I could live with, whereas the other options really cut out some far more important things.

And, it's too depressing to settle for "average" in so many things. Everyone is above average in something or other, aren't they?
 
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Oh. I'm in BDSM forum. (sheepish grin) Hi all!

I actually landed here doing a search on Seattle, and this seemed like a really interesting poll. I don't know what it has to do with Seattle, or BDSM for that matter....

Ummm, ....

I've always had kind of a fantasy about being tied to the bedposts, if that counts.
 
I chose average all around. with average, there's lots of room to go up, and learning is a fact of life. even the worst lover can learn what makes his/her partner hot, and the most ignorant person will never remain so forever.

But then...I love to teach.
 
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