A Dom's responsibilities

[FurryFury]

I certainly agree that everyone should be responsible for themselves. I believe in treated living creatures with respect as well. I don't see it as a poor PYL's being held accountable while poor pyls are not or a male vrs female thing, at all.

The reason why a PYL should keep this in mind in particular is that they are taking power given to them consensually and therefore, by assuming that mantle, should also take greater care. JMO.

 

[CookingDom]

What surprised me the most is how everyone was ready to attack and how harshly she was judged.

As I read the thread I felt very bad for her….

While there is a feeling amongst most people reading the original post that the person being 'attacked' was someone who was new, like yourself, and on the surface unstable. It was pretty much the general consensus that the person (and a few of the other people in the thread) were one person, so the 'attacks' were more ridicule at the lengths SIR/sir/SIRE/SHITE/SHIRE/SinBad went to in order to perpetuate the myth that anyone actually gave a shit about what he was doing, and how many virtual subs he/she/it felt we needed to believe he had.

 

[LittleVixen69]

While there is a feeling amongst most people reading the original post that the person being 'attacked' was someone who was new, like yourself, and on the surface unstable. It was pretty much the general consensus that the person (and a few of the other people in the thread) were one person, so the 'attacks' were more ridicule at the lengths SIR/sir/SIRE/SHITE/SHIRE/SinBad went to in order to perpetuate the myth that anyone actually gave a shit about what he was doing, and how many virtual subs he/she/it felt we needed to believe he had.

Yes well I have to say after reading I had take a look at his profile... lol
Just to see who everyone was talking about...

 

[FurryFury]

He is big on calling all women posters "fake" until they prove they are female.

Yes well I have to say after reading I had take a look at his profile... lol
Just to see who everyone was talking about...

 

[marieR19]

What surprised me the most is how everyone was ready to attack and how harshly she was judged.

As I read the thread I felt very bad for her….

See, that's where I'd have to disagree.

There were *plenty* of nice, polite posts telling the OP that they should not be posting that in this section, that it was not right to "make out" and basically go on and on and on about this master on this forum, etc. There were plenty of *polite* posts that told the OP exactly why people weren't liking the thread.

But the OP didn't listen. Neither did those "other" subs or alts or trolls or whatever. They kept posting about their master, how they don't question him and how rude WE were for questioning him, etc etc. THEY were the ones the escalated it, by not taking those polite posts to heart and actually *stopping*.

Were other people in the thread rude as well? Yes. But the OP started, and escalated, and ignored all polite intervention. I can't feel sorry for that person, whether they are real or a troll.

 

[Sinpain]

Okay, I'm going to make myself really clear, since I apparently wasn't the last time.

I'm not going to call anyone names, since I can see how one can think I had some hand in all of this, but I haven't.

However, I can also feel nothing but contempt for the lot of you ( including the person who started this thread), who taunted and teased this poor individual relentlessly, and rivaled in the fact that she most obviously didn't understand this, and took everything she was told seriously. During this time, she was sending me notes that were confusing, but because I don't live on this site, I truly didn't understand what she was referring to. "Pizzas"? What? I just kept writing back "I have no idea what you're talking about". It wasn't until i saw that dreadful thread that my stomach turned.

I never told this individual to post anything about me. She'd done it once, and I reprimanded her, but... fine... you want me to say it? She's nuts, and kept posting about me. I can see how people may think I told her to, but i didn't, and I was discussing this predicament with two of my subs as it happened. I was copying and pasting her notes and asking wtf was going on with this person. We all didn't know, until we saw the thread. I thought it would die down, but it didn't. now that i'm being accused of committing some kind of financial scam, I felt compelled to come back and speak on that. I'm being accused of a crime, and that's not cool, cuz it's not true. I never asked this poor girl to do anything, other that get a mic and headset, and that was one of the tings I asked her to do via text, before she gave me her number, and asked me to call her.



The person in question seems to be either mentally underdeveloped, and it's pretty obvious. I noticed this after the one and only phone conversation. Do you not understand?

If I am guilty of anything, it is of being exactly what i say I am, and that is upsetting to people who, understandably are probably jealous, since they cannot fathom that a person has the ability to turn more than one sub on, and invite them to join a select union of people. It's the way I roll, and I don't think it's a problem. It's not like I asked for it to be advertized in the way it was. In fact, my plan... which is STILL me plan... is to have my subs make threads in the ampics section. If anything, it will back up everything I've said about how hot they are, and finally end the debate about "Alts".

I'm a sexy DOM, who has encouraged his many subs to talk to other doms to see if they are turned on by them, and to take as much time as they wish in doing so. It's THEIR choice not to keep searching. Is it because they enjoy being more turned on than they ever have? Probably. Is that a bad thing? Why is bad to enjoy that feeling? They who don't care that I have many subs. I'm a DOM who likes to be called "SIR" in caps. Get over it.

I can brag, but I don't have to. Is it fun to show off a little? Sure. Wouldn't you, if you had my ability?

Don't... hate.

I hope I've made myself clear. Please don't accuse people of things until you have facts.

I like facts. I like knowing that I'm turning on a real female, so I ask to see them on cam, hear their voice, or pics. Never pics alone, though.

You desperate men can relish in talking to someone who may be a man, but.. not me. Not in the year 2011, when a person can prove their gender very easily, but simply initially showing their body on cam, without showing their face, or letting their voice be heard. I have nothing against gay men. I do know that straight men are a fetish for some gay men. I'm not gay. I like women. I don't want to waste time, even for a minute, with a gay man on IM.

SIR

 

[Loverskitten]

I'm not going to call anyone names, since I can see how one can think I had some hand in all of this, but I haven't.

However, I can also feel nothing but contempt for the lot of you ( including the person who started this thread), who taunted and teased this poor individual relentlessly, and rivaled in the fact that she most obviously didn't understand this, and took everything she was told seriously. During this time, she was sending me notes that were confusing, but because I don't live on this site, I truly didn't understand what she was referring to. "Pizzas"? What? I just kept writing back "I have no idea what you're talking about". It wasn't until i saw that dreadful thread that my stomach turned.

I never told this individual to post anything about me. She'd done it once, and I reprimanded her, but... fine... you want me to say it? She's nuts, and kept posting about me. I can see how people may think I told her to, but i didn't, and I was discussing this predicament with two of my subs as it happened. I was copying and pasting her notes and asking wtf was going on with this person. We all didn't know, until we saw the thread. I thought it would die down, but it didn't. now that i'm being accused of committing some kind of financial scam, I felt compelled to come back and speak on that. I'm being accused of a crime, and that's not cool, cuz it's not true. I never asked this poor girl to do anything, other that get a mic and headset, and that was one of the tings I asked her to do via text, before she gave me her number, and asked me to call her.



The person in question seems to be either mentally underdeveloped, and it's pretty obvious. I noticed this after the one and only phone conversation. Do you not understand?

If I am guilty of anything, it is of being exactly what i say I am, and that is upsetting to people who, understandably are probably jealous, since they cannot fathom that a person has the ability to turn more than one sub on, and invite them to join a select union of people. It's the way I roll, and I don't think it's a problem. It's not like I asked for it to be advertized in the way it was. In fact, my plan... which is STILL me plan... is to have my subs make threads in the ampics section. If anything, it will back up everything I've said about how hot they are, and finally end the debate about "Alts".

I'm a sexy DOM, who has encouraged his many subs to talk to other doms to see if they are turned on by them, and to take as much time as they wish in doing so. It's THEIR choice not to keep searching. Is it because they enjoy being more turned on than they ever have? Probably. Is that a bad thing? Why is bad to enjoy that feeling? They who don't care that I have many subs. I'm a DOM who likes to be called "SIR" in caps. Get over it.

I can brag, but I don't have to. Is it fun to show off a little? Sure. Wouldn't you, if you had my ability?

Don't... hate.

I hope I've made myself clear. Please don't accuse people of things until you have facts.

I like facts. I like knowing that I'm turning on a real female, so I ask to see them on cam, hear their voice, or pics. Never pics alone, though.

You desperate men can relish in talking to someone who may be a man, but.. not me. Not in the year 2011, when a person can prove their gender very easily, but simply initially showing their body on cam, without showing their face, or letting their voice be heard. I have nothing against gay men. I do know that straight men are a fetish for some gay men. I'm not gay. I like women. I don't want to waste time, even for a minute, with a gay man on IM.

SIR

Seriously I have thoughts on this post!
Did you see my new shoes?

I posted them in the cafe but thought this an appropriate response. They came with spare keys, hehehe

 

[sereneone4u]

I'm not going to call anyone names, since I can see how one can think I had some hand in all of this, but I haven't.

However, I can also feel nothing but contempt for the lot of you ( including the person who started this thread), who taunted and teased this poor individual relentlessly, and rivaled in the fact that she most obviously didn't understand this, and took everything she was told seriously. During this time, she was sending me notes that were confusing, but because I don't live on this site, I truly didn't understand what she was referring to. "Pizzas"? What? I just kept writing back "I have no idea what you're talking about". It wasn't until i saw that dreadful thread that my stomach turned.

I never told this individual to post anything about me. She'd done it once, and I reprimanded her, but... fine... you want me to say it? She's nuts, and kept posting about me. I can see how people may think I told her to, but i didn't, and I was discussing this predicament with two of my subs as it happened. I was copying and pasting her notes and asking wtf was going on with this person. We all didn't know, until we saw the thread. I thought it would die down, but it didn't. now that i'm being accused of committing some kind of financial scam, I felt compelled to come back and speak on that. I'm being accused of a crime, and that's not cool, cuz it's not true. I never asked this poor girl to do anything, other that get a mic and headset, and that was one of the tings I asked her to do via text, before she gave me her number, and asked me to call her.



The person in question seems to be either mentally underdeveloped, and it's pretty obvious. I noticed this after the one and only phone conversation. Do you not understand?

If I am guilty of anything, it is of being exactly what i say I am, and that is upsetting to people who, understandably are probably jealous, since they cannot fathom that a person has the ability to turn more than one sub on, and invite them to join a select union of people. It's the way I roll, and I don't think it's a problem. It's not like I asked for it to be advertized in the way it was. In fact, my plan... which is STILL me plan... is to have my subs make threads in the ampics section. If anything, it will back up everything I've said about how hot they are, and finally end the debate about "Alts".

I'm a sexy DOM, who has encouraged his many subs to talk to other doms to see if they are turned on by them, and to take as much time as they wish in doing so. It's THEIR choice not to keep searching. Is it because they enjoy being more turned on than they ever have? Probably. Is that a bad thing? Why is bad to enjoy that feeling? They who don't care that I have many subs. I'm a DOM who likes to be called "SIR" in caps. Get over it.

I can brag, but I don't have to. Is it fun to show off a little? Sure. Wouldn't you, if you had my ability?

Don't... hate.

I hope I've made myself clear. Please don't accuse people of things until you have facts.

I like facts. I like knowing that I'm turning on a real female, so I ask to see them on cam, hear their voice, or pics. Never pics alone, though.

You desperate men can relish in talking to someone who may be a man, but.. not me. Not in the year 2011, when a person can prove their gender very easily, but simply initially showing their body on cam, without showing their face, or letting their voice be heard. I have nothing against gay men. I do know that straight men are a fetish for some gay men. I'm not gay. I like women. I don't want to waste time, even for a minute, with a gay man on IM.

SIR

Oh lord...

 

[Sinpain]

Thank you for making light of the fact that I was accused of a serious crime. Thanks.

Thank you too, Serene. I guess being accused of a serious crime that you didn't commit isn't serious to you either.

 

[FurryFury]

This having women "prove" themselves to you thing is an asshole move that screams wannabe.

 

[CinT]

Submission is a gift and it should be respected as such. It is not a toy to be played with and then cast aside when it becomes inconvenient.

Very well stated.

 

[deadxsparrow]

I was once like her,when I first got into the lifestyle I fell into a trap by someone who was not what they said they were,but now that I have learned from my mistakes I found a great dom,someone who treats me right and cares about me,and doesn't just use me or take advantage of me not being used to the lifestyle. My dom is sinpain by the way

 

[rosco rathbone]

Can someone fill me in on the drama? Seems convoluted...

 

[allicat93]

Let's all step back....

...and take a breath. This is very serious stuff y'all are saying, without knowing the facts. There was a whole other side to this that was NOT aired. I hate to say it but Waja did lose her marbles and become obsessive. Not only did she completely lose it from the get-go and would contact me, but there were big things happening behind the scenes. Sinpain did what he could given the circumstance.

 

[Kajira Callista]

Can someone fill me in on the drama? Seems convoluted...

*Hands you some pie*

 

[rosco rathbone]

Is this the same muppet who "publicly denounced" her dom??

 

[Kajira Callista]

Is this the same muppet who "publicly denounced" her dom??

One of them....but its getting confusing. I think we need to color code them because they all sound identical.

 

[babygrl11]

You desperate men can relish in talking to someone who may be a man, but.. not me. Not in the year 2011, when a person can prove their gender very easily, but simply initially showing their body on cam, without showing their face, or letting their voice be heard. I have nothing against gay men. I do know that straight men are a fetish for some gay men. I'm not gay. I like women. I don't want to waste time, even for a minute, with a gay man on IM.

SIR[/QUOTE]
i agree. seeing as how the sub is so new, u jerks may be scaring her off. unless sinpain asks u to get involved, dont but he wont so fuck off and be nice to newbies.

 

[sereneone4u]

Thank you for making light of the fact that I was accused of a serious crime. Thanks.

Thank you too, Serene. I guess being accused of a serious crime that you didn't commit isn't serious to you either.

Maybe you just accused me by possibly taking my post the wrong way...

 

[KoPilot]

I'm not going to call anyone names, since I can see how one can think I had some hand in all of this, but I haven't.

However, I can also feel nothing but contempt for the lot of you ( including the person who started this thread), who taunted and teased this poor individual relentlessly, and rivaled in the fact that she most obviously didn't understand this, and took everything she was told seriously. During this time, she was sending me notes that were confusing, but because I don't live on this site, I truly didn't understand what she was referring to. "Pizzas"? What? I just kept writing back "I have no idea what you're talking about". It wasn't until i saw that dreadful thread that my stomach turned.

I never told this individual to post anything about me. She'd done it once, and I reprimanded her, but... fine... you want me to say it? She's nuts, and kept posting about me. I can see how people may think I told her to, but i didn't, and I was discussing this predicament with two of my subs as it happened. I was copying and pasting her notes and asking wtf was going on with this person. We all didn't know, until we saw the thread. I thought it would die down, but it didn't. now that i'm being accused of committing some kind of financial scam, I felt compelled to come back and speak on that. I'm being accused of a crime, and that's not cool, cuz it's not true. I never asked this poor girl to do anything, other that get a mic and headset, and that was one of the tings I asked her to do via text, before she gave me her number, and asked me to call her.



The person in question seems to be either mentally underdeveloped, and it's pretty obvious. I noticed this after the one and only phone conversation. Do you not understand?

If I am guilty of anything, it is of being exactly what i say I am, and that is upsetting to people who, understandably are probably jealous, since they cannot fathom that a person has the ability to turn more than one sub on, and invite them to join a select union of people. It's the way I roll, and I don't think it's a problem. It's not like I asked for it to be advertized in the way it was. In fact, my plan... which is STILL me plan... is to have my subs make threads in the ampics section. If anything, it will back up everything I've said about how hot they are, and finally end the debate about "Alts".

I'm a sexy DOM, who has encouraged his many subs to talk to other doms to see if they are turned on by them, and to take as much time as they wish in doing so. It's THEIR choice not to keep searching. Is it because they enjoy being more turned on than they ever have? Probably. Is that a bad thing? Why is bad to enjoy that feeling? They who don't care that I have many subs. I'm a DOM who likes to be called "SIR" in caps. Get over it.

I can brag, but I don't have to. Is it fun to show off a little? Sure. Wouldn't you, if you had my ability?

Don't... hate.

I hope I've made myself clear. Please don't accuse people of things until you have facts.

I like facts. I like knowing that I'm turning on a real female, so I ask to see them on cam, hear their voice, or pics. Never pics alone, though.

You desperate men can relish in talking to someone who may be a man, but.. not me. Not in the year 2011, when a person can prove their gender very easily, but simply initially showing their body on cam, without showing their face, or letting their voice be heard. I have nothing against gay men. I do know that straight men are a fetish for some gay men. I'm not gay. I like women. I don't want to waste time, even for a minute, with a gay man on IM.

SIR

http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmedhealth/PMH0001930/

Might wanna get that checked out.

 

[Jaded_One]

I'm not going to call anyone names, since I can see how one can think I had some hand in all of this, but I haven't.

However, I can also feel nothing but contempt for the lot of you ( including the person who started this thread), who taunted and teased this poor individual relentlessly, and rivaled in the fact that she most obviously didn't understand this, and took everything she was told seriously. During this time, she was sending me notes that were confusing, but because I don't live on this site, I truly didn't understand what she was referring to. "Pizzas"? What? I just kept writing back "I have no idea what you're talking about". It wasn't until i saw that dreadful thread that my stomach turned.

I never told this individual to post anything about me. She'd done it once, and I reprimanded her, but... fine... you want me to say it? She's nuts, and kept posting about me. I can see how people may think I told her to, but i didn't, and I was discussing this predicament with two of my subs as it happened. I was copying and pasting her notes and asking wtf was going on with this person. We all didn't know, until we saw the thread. I thought it would die down, but it didn't. now that i'm being accused of committing some kind of financial scam, I felt compelled to come back and speak on that. I'm being accused of a crime, and that's not cool, cuz it's not true. I never asked this poor girl to do anything, other that get a mic and headset, and that was one of the tings I asked her to do via text, before she gave me her number, and asked me to call her.



The person in question seems to be either mentally underdeveloped, and it's pretty obvious. I noticed this after the one and only phone conversation. Do you not understand?

If I am guilty of anything, it is of being exactly what i say I am, and that is upsetting to people who, understandably are probably jealous, since they cannot fathom that a person has the ability to turn more than one sub on, and invite them to join a select union of people. It's the way I roll, and I don't think it's a problem. It's not like I asked for it to be advertized in the way it was. In fact, my plan... which is STILL me plan... is to have my subs make threads in the ampics section. If anything, it will back up everything I've said about how hot they are, and finally end the debate about "Alts".

I'm a sexy DOM, who has encouraged his many subs to talk to other doms to see if they are turned on by them, and to take as much time as they wish in doing so. It's THEIR choice not to keep searching. Is it because they enjoy being more turned on than they ever have? Probably. Is that a bad thing? Why is bad to enjoy that feeling? They who don't care that I have many subs. I'm a DOM who likes to be called "SIR" in caps. Get over it.

I can brag, but I don't have to. Is it fun to show off a little? Sure. Wouldn't you, if you had my ability?

Don't... hate.

I hope I've made myself clear. Please don't accuse people of things until you have facts.

I like facts. I like knowing that I'm turning on a real female, so I ask to see them on cam, hear their voice, or pics. Never pics alone, though.

You desperate men can relish in talking to someone who may be a man, but.. not me. Not in the year 2011, when a person can prove their gender very easily, but simply initially showing their body on cam, without showing their face, or letting their voice be heard. I have nothing against gay men. I do know that straight men are a fetish for some gay men. I'm not gay. I like women. I don't want to waste time, even for a minute, with a gay man on IM.

SIR

Ignore

 

[Jaded_One]

...and take a breath. This is very serious stuff y'all are saying, without knowing the facts. There was a whole other side to this that was NOT aired. I hate to say it but Waja did lose her marbles and become obsessive. Not only did she completely lose it from the get-go and would contact me, but there were big things happening behind the scenes. Sinpain did what he could given the circumstance.

Ignore

 

[Jaded_One]

You desperate men can relish in talking to someone who may be a man, but.. not me. Not in the year 2011, when a person can prove their gender very easily, but simply initially showing their body on cam, without showing their face, or letting their voice be heard. I have nothing against gay men. I do know that straight men are a fetish for some gay men. I'm not gay. I like women. I don't want to waste time, even for a minute, with a gay man on IM.

SIR

i agree. seeing as how the sub is so new, u jerks may be scaring her off. unless sinpain asks u to get involved, dont but he wont so fuck off and be nice to newbies.[/QUOTE]


And IGNORE....

(and I really need to figure out how to do the multiple quote thing... )

 

[WajaLover]

Obeying SIRE

You know, i just realized why SIRE hasn't been talking sexually to me except on the ONE phone call He made for me: i have mental issues. i know that this will probably result in me being banned from Literotica, but here's the truth: would You All want someone 4-6 years younger than 20 years old to be on Literotica?

Well, I've got some serious mental issues that bring my mentality to 4-6 years younger than my actual age of 20. I'd forgotten that in all that I've been doing on here but my counselor/therapist reminded me that if any pervert or rapist or whatever were to do me any harm, then they would not be tried as someone doing this to a 20yr old, but as doing it to someone 14-16 yrs old. i WOULD NOT be telling You all this, but i am obeying SIRE. To anyone who is accusing Him of making up a second account as WajaLover, it is simply not true. Fact is, He hasn't even punished me for all the ways i've been disobediant. Fact is, SIRE didn't even believe my age even when we were talking on the phone. I still live with my Mom and i still enjoy her taking care of me.

Up until 4 years ago, I was living with my stepmom, ML for short, who was a sixth-grade English teacher. I've been told all my life that I sound older than I am (except on Lit) because of the books I read (romance), and my time with my step-mom.

 

[Daddy2mylilgirl]

Wow.

*backs out of the thread slowly*