absolutely HUGE movement of White Male Submission

[Esclava]

The author of that essay may indeed have a point - but here's a twist ...

There is a white male (20+ yrs my senior) I met at a munch that asked me twice if I was a Domme. Then 2 more times if I was SURE I wasn't a Domme.

I have never presented myself at this event as a Domme. If I have said anything that might be misleading, it is that, "I have recently returned to rl BDSM and I am exploring what I like and what I don't like. Right now, I am submissive." Unfortunately, if the way I carry myself contradicts that statement in someone's eyes, what am I to do? I am who I am - and my life experiences have made me ... me.

So, since I've been pretty clear that I am submissive, does anyone have any ideas why he still thinks I can - and at some time in the future will - Domme him? Thank you, kindly ...

Esclava

 

[Marquis]

The author of that essay may indeed have a point - but here's a twist ...

There is a white male (20+ yrs my senior) I met at a munch that asked me twice if I was a Domme. Then 2 more times if I was SURE I wasn't a Domme.

I have never presented myself at this event as a Domme. If I have said anything that might be misleading, it is that, "I have recently returned to rl BDSM and I am exploring what I like and what I don't like. Right now, I am submissive." Unfortunately, if the way I carry myself contradicts that statement in someone's eyes, what am I to do? I am who I am - and my life experiences have made me ... me.

So, since I've been pretty clear that I am submissive, does anyone have any ideas why he still thinks I can - and at some time in the future will - Domme him? Thank you, kindly ...

Esclava

Wishful thinking?

 

[onceburned]

Wishful thinking?

That is my take on it. Some guys, if they aren't having any luck finding a domme, will ask subs in hopes that they are switches who can be persuaded to cross over..

 

[landcruisergal]

That is my take on it. Some guys, if they aren't having any luck finding a domme, will ask subs in hopes that they are switches who can be persuaded to cross over..

Or seduce them with the offer of washing their windows....Worked for me.

 

[Netzach]

The author of that essay may indeed have a point - but here's a twist ...

There is a white male (20+ yrs my senior) I met at a munch that asked me twice if I was a Domme. Then 2 more times if I was SURE I wasn't a Domme.

I have never presented myself at this event as a Domme. If I have said anything that might be misleading, it is that, "I have recently returned to rl BDSM and I am exploring what I like and what I don't like. Right now, I am submissive." Unfortunately, if the way I carry myself contradicts that statement in someone's eyes, what am I to do? I am who I am - and my life experiences have made me ... me.

So, since I've been pretty clear that I am submissive, does anyone have any ideas why he still thinks I can - and at some time in the future will - Domme him? Thank you, kindly ...

Esclava

FemDom shortage. Just ignore it, unless, of course, it appeals somehow.

 

[Esclava]

FemDom shortage. Just ignore it, unless, of course, it appeals somehow.

Thank you - it does appeal, but I feel - neither prepared nor able - to be a suitable Domme. I've not learned all I must about being a submissive.

I do feel the desire - but I also feel the need to be at peace with my submissive inside. I can only quiet her if I give in, allow her to take her place and, truly, see which is stronger - my submissive influence or the Domme who lurks within.

Esclava