Adult onset bisexuality

[gametime07]

After many years of being curious about sucking cock, I finally had the nerve to meet up with a man from a hookup site. We had three encounters, one being a threeway with a friend of his. I enjoyed all three times. I’ve hinted to my wife if seeing two men together would turn her on, she said absolutely not.

 

[storypost603]

I’m 42 with every year that passes I fantasise about sucking cock more and more it’s the only thing that gets me hard.

I can understand this. I also have a strong desire suck cock....

 

[stevieee74]

when you suck your first cock, you will be hooked,,,

 

[richdon03]

I’m 42 with every year that passes I fantasise about sucking cock more and more it’s the only thing that gets me hard.

Just do it. Either you will like it or you won't.

 

[richdon03]

when you suck your first cock, you will be hooked,,,

Not necessarily.

 

[betabrad]

I dont know if you can look at porn so much and not eventually start being curious. A lot of looking at some hot little slut on her knees sucking a big hard cock while stroking and cumming, i think you just condition yourself, of course you're looking at the hot slut, but you're also looking at that big hard cock when you cum too. I think that if that doesnt just turn you bi, it at least opens up that bisexual side that may have been dormant inside of you. I know that I still consider myself basically straight - well .. maybe I should say that I am hetero-romantic ( i only want to kiss a woman and be in a romantic relationship with a woman), but , at least to some extent, bi-sexual; I mostly stroke myself and cum to fantasies of sucking cock and being fucked , with a woman watching and getting off.

 

[KinkStevens]

I’m 42 with every year that passes I fantasise about sucking cock more and more it’s the only thing that gets me hard.

Yep. That can happen over time

 

[DayDreaming2407]

I have become more interested in women as I've gotten older. I still love men and am happy with my bf but the idea of being with a woman is a huge turn on.

He hasn't expressed interest to me but if he wanted to explore a bi side, as long as he's safe, I would be all for it.

 

[BrokenQuill]

I have been wanting to try it ever since, but have never had the opportunity present itself.

I'm about 4,500 miles away. Otherwise I would have been happy to help!

 

[J1biboi]

Here’s my story. I can’t say at what age, but there was a time in the mid 60’s that I was determined to have a certain haircut. I looked and looked and just couldn’t find anyone that could do it. I was telling a friend one day and he said he had an uncle that had a barber shop, I could ask him. He said there was a guy that he had heard could do it. He worked a Beauty salon for women, at that time a man could not get his haircut in a beauty salon. He said he could do it, but I would have to go to his house. My mom had taken me to the shop to talk to him, he was small built and pretty obvious he was gay. But he said he was married to a woman and had a child. So mom said OK. He cut my hair a couple times with no incidents, but the third time I called him, he said he was living with his parents. Pretty close to the house, so I walked there and things got a little weird (he took his shirt off to cut my hair) still nothing. The next time he had me sit on his bed while he set a chair up for me. He gave me a porn magazine to look at while he did this, then he came in, sat next to me with his hand in my leg. He mentioned that I was getting a boner and said I must like the book. I don’t remember how it started, but he wound up between my legs, pulled my pants down and gave me my first BJ! I never got to try it on him, but he did it 3 more different times! I have been wanting to try it ever since, but have never had the opportunity present itself.

I know how you feel. I got to suck one cock many years ago, I've always wanted to do it again, but, like you, the opportunity just hasn't happened.

 

[easyoff]

when you suck your first cock, you will be hooked,,,

Same goes for the taste of his cum

 

[none2_none2]

I have to say that the thread title seems strange: "Adult onset bisexuality". If you google just "Adult onset" what comes back is various health chronic conditions such as

Adult onset allergies
Adult onset asthma
Adult onset diabetes (type II of course)
Adult onset Still's disease
Adult onset Hydrocephalus
...

Hopefully, the author didn't mean to insinuate that bisexuality is a disease; still that is the typical connotation of the phrase "adult onset..."

While I personally don't like labels, I have little in common with most of the men who comment on this "alphabet" Chatter. I don't crave cock at all. It simply, usually cums with men. Oral sex pales in comparison with being inside a man's behind. I've had hundreds (if not thousands) of attempted blow jobs. I think it should be a requirement that if a guy claims how great they are at giving blowjobs that they should be filmed doing so with their hands tied behind their backs. Why? Because most guys literally suck at giving blow jobs. The namely suck on the head ah the last part of the shaft. They hardly ever take the entire shaft or if they do it isn't for very long. They usually give what I would call a hand job with a modification that they will suck on the tip of the cock while jacking most of the shaft with their hands.

Where as with a man's asshole, if it is clean and the guy isn't in pain, you can stay as deep and as long as you want to and get lost in the moment. Of course some tops run it by treating a man's asshole as though it is a titanium chamber to excavate as if you possess a jack hammer. A man's asshole is a privilege sanctuary to enter into. Sadly, may times it may be the one and only time you get to enter such a man's cave. It should be treated as a shrine and privileged space to enter.

You never know if you will have the chance to be there again, so make the most of it. I'm so fortunate, that I have a beautiful man with a beautiful hairy ass. Sadly, with my ED, I am cursed not to be able to enter -- at least not with my cock. You cannot get any deeper closeness with another man than being inside him. Thank GOD for ever man who is willing to let you enter his most sacred space. Bottoms are the closet a man can get to the divine on earth.

 

[Playful_Artist]

Herr is my story. What is yours?.

I was 50 when I first got the desire ro have sex with another man. I resisted i
the urge for several years. Finally I could no longer resist. I came out to my wife before my first time. After many discussions she helped be clarify that my primary interest was in sucking cocks. She was OK with that and was even a bit excited about it.

We found out neither of us were really all that happy with penis in vagina sex. She wanted more cunnilingus and then wanted to help me masturbate or just watch me masturbate. I was OK with that.

Within a month I sucked cock for the first time. It was better than I expected. My homosexuality did not replace my heterosexuality. It was an addon.

I'm glad you had a supportive wife. Mine filed for divorce when I told her my desires.

 

[Playful_Artist]

It's very intimate to have a hard cock in your mouth... even if you don't know him. Oral sex is great. stop cheating yourself and go for it.

 

[luvslingerie200]

I'm glad you had a supportive wife. Mine filed for divorce when I told her my desires.

I think I would get a similar reaction

 

[Playful_Artist]

Sorry bro

 

[KinkStevens]

I had the desire for years and never acted on it. Partially because of the stigma of being called out, partially because there wasn’t anyone that I thought would reciprocate.
I had more than my share of circle jerks that were strictly no touching anyone else. But then one friend and I started jerking each other. I would have done more but he wouldn’t.
Never sucked a cock until 30 or so and then it was a woman who nudged me.
A good jerk off / suck off buddy would be great in my life now but I’m not looking. GF is a hard no and I will not take a chance on losing her.

I say I am not looking but I am fantasizing

Thats a shame. I wish you cock and prosperity

 

[Easyvirtue]

I had my first and only experience when I was in my early 30’s and after years of playing it “straight” and narrow, all I do is think about sucking cock and being sucked. When I masturbate it’s usually with a rubber dick in my ass and one in my mouth!

 

[vizio]

For me it started with my last failed relationship with a woman. I'm a cross dresser and found I craved the touch of another human. So I tried having sex with a man and it was every bit as satisfying as sex with a woman. More surprising was how easily I feel into the feminine roll. I love sucking cock and get very aroused hearing a man praise my oral abilities especially when they cum in my mouth and I eagerly swallow every drop.

 

[PleasePeesMe]

I'm glad you had a supportive wife. Mine filed for divorce when I told her my desires.

That's why I can't tell my wife. It makes me sad, because I'd like nothing more than to share a cock and its cum with her.

 

[BrokenQuill]

That's why I can't tell my wife. It makes me sad, because I'd like nothing more than to share a cock and its cum with her.

I know exactly how you feel. I mentioned my interest in cock to my wife several years ago. Our marriage survived, but only just. Our sex life stopped.

 

[PG564E]

I dont know if you can look at porn so much and not eventually start being curious. A lot of looking at some hot little slut on her knees sucking a big hard cock while stroking and cumming, i think you just condition yourself, of course you're looking at the hot slut, but you're also looking at that big hard cock when you cum too. I think that if that doesnt just turn you bi, it at least opens up that bisexual side that may have been dormant inside of you. I know that I still consider myself basically straight - well .. maybe I should say that I am hetero-romantic ( i only want to kiss a woman and be in a romantic relationship with a woman), but , at least to some extent, bi-sexual; I mostly stroke myself and cum to fantasies of sucking cock and being fucked , with a woman watching and getting off.

Hey Brad, your post is very arousing to me. I'm a male who was attracted to hard cocks watching porn (straight, bi, and totally gay) and it changed me sexually forever.
Would like to PM with you if you might be interested.

 

[richdon03]

Same goes for the taste of his cum

This is DEFINITELY not universal. Diet is EVERYTHING!

 

[richdon03]

...

Hopefully, the author didn't mean to insinuate that bisexuality is a disease; still that is the typical connotation of the phrase "adult onset..."

I, most certainly, wasn't bi-sexual in my youth or early-to-mid adult years. The term, "adult-onset" . . more specifically, "late adult-onset" applies PERFECTLY, to me. I did not see the negative connotation. However, I'm fine with that connotation, as dis-ease is, precisely, the feeling that I experience when I get that sudden "itch" to get my cock sucked by some random.

 

[Travler99921]

I, most certainly, wasn't bi-sexual in my youth or early-to-mid adult years. the term, "adult-onset" . . more specifically, "late adult-onset" applies PERFECTLY, to me. I did not see the negative connotation. However, I'm fine with that connotation, as dis-ease is, precisely, the feeling that I experience when I get that sudden "itch" to get my cock sucked by some random.

I had no intention of implying becoming bi later in life is in any way pathological. I just could not find a better more concise way of saying it. I have chatted with several sexologist, and there seems to be very little research in this area. That is too bad.