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Adult onset bisexuality

Bisexguy70 said:
My first bi sexual desires I think happened when I saw one of my first porno magazines. It happen to be a taboo type magazine, and one of the features was this hot chick, but had a penis. Being so young and innocent, I was so turned on by it. I see this hot woman with great tits very pretty. As I turn the pages what was revealed was a penis under her dress which couldā€™ve possibly been airbrushed and Iā€™m not sure. I masturbated that image for weeks and couldnā€™t get it out of my mind. When I was older and could purchase my own porno magazines, and DVDs, I always steered towards the tranny section. One night when I was working out of town in a hotel I had purchased a lot of porno material and a majority of it was tranny related. In some strange way, I wanted to become one of those trannies i was lusting after. To me they were unattainable, but I need to do experience more in some form or fashion. So itā€™s the whole if you canā€™t beat them join them mentality and I decided that I would try to become my own tranny. The closest way I knew how to accomplish this was to go out and purchase some lingerie. I got a garter belt and stockings, some panties and a camisole top. After I put them on in the hotel room, I got this overwhelming urge to suck a cock and get fucked by another guy. I masturbated so much after I had put on the lingerie and if a man wouldā€™ve been there, he couldā€™ve probably had his way with me. I decided to share my new found interest with my wife and surprised her after I came home wearing the same outfit. She was disgusted with it and told me to take it off and she didnā€™t care for it at all. I was devastated and just decided to not do it anymore. However, I still had those thoughts of wanting a manā€™s cock, and to try it and on occasion, and I would dress up when she was away from the house. I like the feeling of it and it made me feel slutty, vulnerable, sensual, and submissive.
My orgasms or so intense as in my mind always envisioning, sucking some guys cock weā€™re getting fucked in my ass. I discovered craigslist personals, and found the section of men looking for other men. I decided to reach out one time and meet up with a guy who could host and wanted to try sucking a cock for real when I was about 46. We met, We talked for a little bit. I was very nervous and we ended up in bed in the 69 position. The guy had a nice 7 inch thick, cut cock, and within about five seconds of having his cock between my lips I was hooked!! the sensation of him, sucking my cock as I had another cock in my mouth cannot be put in words. Once I broke the ice, I pursued cock more and more. I was on the personal section a lot and at that time found several guys who I could hook up with for mutual oral. Even though I fantasized about getting fucked I never really wanted to do it for real although I had used dildos before I just wanted to not be too risky. I hate condoms and if I was going to get fucked, the guy would be bareback and I didnā€™t want to take that risk. However, oral and sensual body contact was sufficient for me and every time I ended up having intense orgasms. About the third or fourth guy I met I brought up the idea of dressing up and he was so turned on by it. I ended up buying a pair of crotchless fishnets and had a chance to host him at my house. He wanted to rim me and he lick my ass, it was so good and I felt like a woman getting her pussy licked. So for me, I find playing with other men so gratifying, and whenever I do, I feel as though Iā€™m a woman and a manā€™s body. I really like the sensation of pleasing another man, and hearing him moan. I just canā€™t get enough of hot men sex. Iā€™m still very attracted to women. I love the site of a nice female body and if I could, I would but hooking up with guys is so much easier. When I expressed the idea of dressing up for them, most guys are pretty much turned on by it so about 3/4 of the time Iā€™m usually wearing some form of lingerie when I get on my knees and give head. It brings the sensation of cocksucking to a whole new level.
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Lovely story
 
ZacharyFagg said:
It's not at all uncommon. I think as a guy ages he becomes a bit more open minded, or just doesn't care what others think as much as he did when he was younger. Or, the desire just becomes overwhelming after years of repression.

I've been with several middle aged guys that just figured out it was easier to have sex with other guys. Slutty bottoms like me are always willing to suck or fuck, we take little effort and we are zero drama. We will get you off, then leave.
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I appreciate guys like you. Wish you lived in my neighborhood. You totally get it. I'm not gay, don't even consider myself bi really, but at my age of 60yrs, the willingness of "courting" a woman or putting up with any drama with any women is in my past. It seems 100% more easier to just find a guy like yourself for some no strings attached pleasure. And you are 100% correct that I figured out it was easier to have sex with other guys. Or if I ever do have sex again, it will be easier to have sex with a guy than go through all required to put up with dealing with a woman.

And yes, as I aged I became more open minded. I NEVER (back in my early days) would have even thought or considered of doing anything with any other guy or males. To this day I don't find men "attractive" beyond the penis & sex acts. I have no interest in kissing a guy nor do I look at them sexually in anyway. But get me in a room privately with another guy that I've known & trust, get naked & I'd be fine with the fun.
 
saintcero said:
As it does me. Being on Lit and SilverDaddies has helped me a lot. It has normalized these feelings so to speak. Iā€™m not as alone as before. There are others like me. Now if society would just loosen up a bitā€¦.
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Yeah I don't care about society loosening up but I understand what you mean. I have a neighbor guy about 5yrs younger than me I wish I could just tell him if he wanted to have some fun that we could. But I'm pretty sure he would be shocked & I couldn't trust it if I ever did say something to him. Because of what you mentioned. Most of society isn't loosened up. I'd be 98% willing to bet if he gave it thought he probably would be open to try it. His wife is a bitch & I'm pretty certain if "society" was more loose he MIGHT be willing. But, it's not that simple on how to approach things. He probably would be uncomfortable talking to me ever again if I was to say such things to him. Or even perhaps tell his wife, his mom & dad who also live in the same house. It just sucks more guys can't talk about such things without being worried about shit. Like it should be a simple yes or no or maybe and that is that. IN an ideal society that is how it would be. This society isn't as excepting & open as it pretends to be. Sadly.
 
I don't know if "people" think his wife is a bitch. I know I do & so does his mom. LOL. He mentioned him & is wife fighting one night when they pulled up in their driveway & she slammed the door to the car & the house while he told me they were fighting. Lookign back now that was probably my only chance then. She has a gambling problem. If he ever mentions he is in a fight with his wife again, I will 100% let off with my situation and be filled with tons of hints about how I have no sex life with my wife anymore for the last 15yrs. And see what he says & go from there. Sadly though I hardly ever see the guy. He's quiet & just wants to talk small talk about TV shows & movies is about it.
 
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The closest I've come is here on Literotica.
I read one thread called men spanking men and it stirred desires that I didn't realise I might have.
I was a little shocked actually.
 
After having looked at porn for over 4 decades I had noticed that my favorite thing to watch was cocks cumming, usually on women's faces, but more recently by jackoffs spurting on their hands, or gay blow jobs. Always been pretty much straight, but not close minded. Always liked nice looking cocks spewing goo. I started wondering about maybe giving a blow job. Went to a glory hole for the first time when I was almost 60. Loved it! What a pervert! Wife almost shit a brick when I told her about it, but thankfully I'm still married. Haven't sucked a cock since, but I definitely fantasize about it when I jack off.
 
Adult onset? Hmm, yeah, the realization dawned on me when I hit adulthood...40 something yrs ago. Spent most of those yrs hiding and denying it to myself even while indulging in it whenever the opportunity popped up.
 
Adult onset bisexuality? Interesting way to talk about it. Mine wasn't as much of a physical attraction as mush s it was just fun. As a younger person I didn't have o clue about "bisexuality" or any of that it just felt good. But I always found myself "attracted to" females. In times of desperation for release I suppose I might have (don't care how you want to put a label importance on shit) been inclined to do things sexually stimulating with another male. Didn't have such opportunities or ever thought about seeking it though. And it wasn't because of society frowning on it, I just wasn't attracted to guys. So if I had any "onset" it must have been WAY before I even knew what sexuality was. When in my late teens though, between girlfriends, I did discover the local adult bookstore video arcades. I went there with the purpose to watch some porn & masturbate. Back when I was young VHS machines was expensive & I didn't have porn at home like they do so easily these days. I didn't have no clue about gloryholes until I seen one at the adult bookstore arcade. The thought was exciting. Getting a BJ that is not me giving. That didn't even cross my mind. Call me gullible I suppose but (or possibly just shutting my mind off in hopes of a BJ), I swore there was a girl behind the other side. A guy with his girlfriend, wife, whatever. I convinced myself of that before putting my dick in that hole. LOL. Tbh I was horny & really didn't gaf. I got off, it was better than my hand and I left immediately after I got off. As I drve home & got back to my house I did give it a brief thought that if it was a guy behind there I got the BJ from would that make me gay? HELL NO. I went there to masturbate and what happened was better. It didn't make me even want to be the guy giving the BJ at all. All I know I enjoyed it & it was way better than my hand. So, this became a great place to go get off on the weekends. I didn't feel bad about it or even thin about any onset bisexuality whatsoever. I went there until I got another girlfriend and didn't even think of going back there while I had a girlfriend willing to lease me everyday. I stopped going there not only because of the girlfriend, but because it was around the same time aids started popping up. It scared the shit out of me I might have got it going there. Thankfully I never did. But I just was going to GET BJs not give them.
Anyways, fast forward I was straight my entire life, still consider myself straight I dgaf about lame labels. Got married have a great sex life for 30yrs until my wife got kidney failure and lost interest in sex. Which was horrible for her mostly and NOT me. yeah not having sex made me go back to watching porn & masturbating. So be it. But of course watching porn leads to other videos of variety. So the gloryhole videos turned me on. Male ones & female ones. So, a close friend for years (who I came to find out later had m/m experiences in boarding school), told me his wife wasn't putting out and he was frustrated. I NEVER considered him & I together. I told him I was in the same situation. All he said was, "I'm so horny I'd do it with a guy." I thought he was joking but he wasn't. He asked if I'd consider it. My dick got hard at the thought of it. I told him I'd have to think about it. A few days later he asked me if I thought about it, I told him I did, and he asked "So what you think? We give each other a helping hand? That wouldn't make us gay or anything." I told him I suppose it wouldn't. It WAS exciting for us both. We both agreed no kissing or anything like that. It wasn't like that. It was just a helping hand. Well that lead to a helping mouth & some great long 69 sessions. And after all said & done, I still never thought of it as being any kind of "adult onset bisexuality". It was just better than masturbating alone was all. Plus it was super convenient because we both knew each other for years & it was 100% safe to have no condom fun. He moved on. To this day I wish I had a friend like him for convenient sex & to get off. And I still don't look at it as me being "bi" even. But whatever others want to label it IDGAF go for it IDC. I'm not will at my older age to go seeking, courting for women anymore. I don't want the drama & emotions attached anymore when it comes to women. it's way easier & more convenient with guys. And I don't go out to parks, porn theaters or any of that for anonymous hook ups that is too risky and doesn't appeal to me I'm not that desperate for sex anymore. When I was younger maybe I was then IDK. I find this entire putting "labels" on people's sexual experiences or desires really dumb. Why do people GAF about that so much? Freegin' LAME imo. But if somebody NEEDS to put a label on themselves or feel good about having some kind of "identity" then good for them IDGAF about ANY of that stupid mental bullshit.
 
Early 50's when I though about expanding and experimenting. Chatted with a bi-cpl online and decided it was time to make the move. Arranged to meet at their place and i was early so popped in local dive for a lil liquid courage. Got to their place, he opened the door and she was sitting on the couch naked. We all had the same thought, Jackpot. Was offered a beer and sat down next to her and he sat on the other side of me. Wasn't much small talk going on.
He made the first move and started rubbing my cock while I was stroking her thigh. After 60 seconds I was rock hard and reached for my first experience rubbing another guy's cock. We immediately moved upstairs to the king mattress on the floor and off came the laundry. We were stroking each other's cock while she sat in front of us watching.
Got my first taste of cock when I sat next to her and she grabbed his cock and pointed it to my mouth. Nice mushroom head.
We passed him back and forth and I needed a taste of her. Got into the triangle, I was eating her, he was sucking me, she was sucking him, then BING, switch. I'm sucking him, he's eating her, and she's sucking me.
Him and I stood up and he pinned me against the wall, got on his knees and just went to work on my cock. Didn't hold out too long and dumped my first load down his throat. He didn't skip a beat and kept sucking me til I got hard again, the whole time she's on the bed with her toy buried deep, turned-on watching us enjoy each other. Didn't take long when I got hard again and put a second load down his throat. First 2 BJ's by another guy was one to remember.
I plopped down on the bed and he plopped in front of me, stroking and pointing his cock towards my mouth. Rolled on my stomach and took his cock full throat. Was sucking him and wasn't even aware of her til she propped my ass in the air, lubed up my ass, and slid her toy inside me. She's pounding me with her toy and I'm bobbing on his cock, then BING, they switched.
My tongue is deep in her honey hole when he grabs my hips and pressed his mushroom head into me. I felt that pop when his head pushed in me. I was completely blown away by how he felt sliding deeper in my virgin ass. What started slow quickly built up until he couldn't pound me hard or fast enough. As he slowed down I could feel his cock beginning to throb. He drilled me hard one last time and dumped his whole load deep in me.

3rd inning stretch lol

After cleaning up and some fluids, it was her turn but I knew I'd be back around to him soon. She's on all fours and I'm fucking her from behind with him standing by me with his cock in my mouth until he caught me by surprise and dumped his warm salty load down my throat. My first time swallowing another guy's load. I knew it wouldn't be the last.
She rolled over just in time to watch me take his load, then I moved him down, ass propped up, lubed him up, and the wait to fuck another guy was over as I pushed into him. She got a POV as she held his ass cheeks apart while I pushed inside him. There was a gleam in her eyes watching her man taking my cock. The harder I fucked him, the more she moaned until I couldn't hold back anymore and dumped my load inside my first guy.
We went another few innings, 7th inning stretch, cleaned up, got fluids in, and went back at it til 4 in the morning. Needless to say, my first time with the cpl who popped my cherry got me forever hooked. Got together with them twice a month for the next 6 months, even with them bringing in another bi-cpl twice.
 
At the gym this morning, I caught eyes with two different guys. I had thought about this one guy before.
Actually over the last couple of days I have thought about him qa few times, not really too hard just thoughts.
i was just thinking about him as someone that would be fun to massage and rub on.
Then this morning the second guy actually might have been checking me out. He kind of was off to the right about
15 foot or so. I looked down there and saw him a few times and I was thinking thinking of him sexually already. Am I
bad or what, LOL. He has the body style I like, a little slender about the same height and just a nice energy.
We'll have to see what happens. I think the next time I see him I will definitely talk to him.
I think the first guy too.

I would maybe like to pm with a couple of guys and just chat about sexual desires and fantasies. We could shower and then go lay
on the bed and play.
 
RoanMtn said:
I think I may be bisexual, as occasionally I masturbate to sucking cock and being penetrated.
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Thatā€™s s great start. If you havenā€™t explored your ass and what pleasures you can get from playing there you should do that immediately. If/when you feel the urge to insert something more than your fingers - getting a dildo and lube up. If youā€™re cool with that - change your profile status to Bisexual. Welcome to the club!
 
Oshkosh60 said:
I was straight as could be, mainly because liking men was not a good option when I was growing up. However, in my mid thirties, I was going through a period with my crossdressing (long time wearer of panties and other undergarments) where I just had to show someone that I wore them. This led to trips to an ABS. At first I would just let them see me and I would jack off. Then one day, I let an older man suck me....followed by another, and another and another......still felt shameful about it. Love women, everything about them. Can't look at a guy and say, "Man, I'd like to be in bed with him." But three years ago, at age sixty, I thought of being with another man. First, letting him suck me, then perhaps making the man wear panties when he sucked me.....then the fantasies turned to sucking him and maybe fucking him. All these fantasy partners were older men. Then I met a younger mid-twenties couple who were a bit kinky....so I started fantasizing about them (they later broke up). But yeah, I have the fear of STD's. If I didn't, I would find a cock to suck tomorrow. But I am always looking and wondering. (Yeah, ran into an older man last week. Hope to run into him again and see if I can detect a vibe.)
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Same here, almost. I love women. I go to the beach or park wearing tiny bikinis. I fantasize about sucking some guy's cock.
 
Travler99921 said:
Herr is my story. What is yours?.

I was 50 when I first got the desire ro have sex with another man. I resisted i
the urge for several years. Finally I could no longer resist. I came out to my wife before my first time. After many discussions she helped be clarify that my primary interest was in sucking cocks. She was OK with that and was even a bit excited about it.

We found out neither of us were really all that happy with penis in vagina sex. She wanted more cunnilingus and then wanted to help me masturbate or just watch me masturbate. I was OK with that.

Within a month I sucked cock for the first time. It was better than I expected. My homosexuality did not replace my heterosexuality. It was an addon.
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You are one lucky cocksucker my friend! Can't tell you how many of us would LOVE to have a wife like yours!!!
 
I got my first taste of cock at a very early age - 69ing with my best friend. I FUCKING LOVED IT and had to have another the very next day! I kind of suppressed that loving feeling because I had a girlfriend and I thought sucking dick was probably wrong, but truth be told, it was just an outward suppression because cock was DEFINITELY on my mind when I watched porn with my girlfriend turned wife, or when I ate her out, pretending that her pussy was so wet because another cock had been in there, or when she sucked me off (I lived vicariously through her blowjobs). Today, I love that I love cock and only wish I could enjoy it more openly. Wife would never approve of that or would the family. So I'm a closet cocksucker and I'm ok with that too.....
 
My wife had read some story that included bi threesomes. During sex she asked if I had ever felt I wanted, I said no. Sheā€™s since said would I suck or even take one from behind. It seems to turn her on so I said yes and got so hot I would try.
 
Iā€™m so happy I found my attraction for women in my mid-20s. Has given me so much joy ā¤ļø
 
I didnā€™t have the urge to be intimate with other men until I was over 21 and living on my own after college. I thought it strange that some people over the years had though I was gay, and although a few had ā€made advancesā€ I wasnā€™t interested. In my first job, one of my coworkers - who was not out but known to be gay - invited me for drinks at his place one Friday, got me drunk, and although I know we were naked together and woke up in the same bed, I still have no memories of what we did. He said he came inside me, but I doubt it because my ass did not feel used. We never did that again. I had other opportunities but no encounters until after marriage and children. It was the Internet and the opportunities there that led to my first hookups with men - mainly in hotels on business trips. The urge grew as I got older. I did have 1 or 2 friends who I met up with regularly. Somehow the friendships and sex were nearly all very good. Now Iā€™m retired and meet with another retired MWM friend from time to time and have a good times and good sex.
 
Travler99921 said:
Herr is my story. What is yours?.

I was 50 when I first got the desire ro have sex with another man. I resisted i
the urge for several years. Finally I could no longer resist. I came out to my wife before my first time. After many discussions she helped be clarify that my primary interest was in sucking cocks. She was OK with that and was even a bit excited about it.

We found out neither of us were really all that happy with penis in vagina sex. She wanted more cunnilingus and then wanted to help me masturbate or just watch me masturbate. I was OK with that.

Within a month I sucked cock for the first time. It was better than I expected. My homosexuality did not replace my heterosexuality. It was an addon.
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Awesome, I'm 60 and sucked my first cock on the DL, After going to a Drag show I told he I may be Bi-curious. It didn't go badly just said I can't have any cocks :(. She wants to go back to the show again soo maybe?
 
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