Anal Gape?

[darlynd]

Maybe those that enjoy that view will think differently than I, but the first time I left my girlfriend gaping I loved it. Of course, she had been tied down to a kneeling bench, and I was in full Domme mode. The idea that she not only loved for me to play with her anally, but that I could see that she would now be "open" for me to use her that way to my … her … deepest pleasures …… yeah. I liked it. And used it. And she loved it.

It didn't take a week for her to 'return to normal' and then we got to start all over again.

 

[HeyItsDani]

When I first saw a speculum used on a vagina I was immediately intrigued. Sure, I'd seen a vagina here and there up close, but nowhere near the detail that could be provided by the speculum, lights and camera zoom. So I had a look to satisfy my curiosity as a male and find out more on this beautiful female anatomy. I guess the anal gape was slightly similar.

You don't see anything with an anal gape, though. It's not like you can see all the pretty skin folds inside the rectum when they do that. http://30.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_luon26pkrb1r6p6u9o1_100.gif

 

[HeyItsDani]

...but that I could see that she would now be "open" for me to use her that way to my … her … deepest pleasures …… yeah.

I could be wrong, but I believe in order for a guy to get anything out of butt fucking someone, the anus has to be closed around his cock. So having her "open" that way wouldn't do much for a guy (and that's who the vast majority of porn is marketed toward). Maybe one of the guys can clarify this.

 

[NordicOz]

You don't see anything with an anal gape, though. It's not like you can see all the pretty skin folds inside the rectum when they do that. http://30.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_luon26pkrb1r6p6u9o1_100.gif

Not to question your statement, but the few I have seen, have had the camera going extremely close to "the action" whereby you could actually see the dark tunnel in question and a large part of the colon with it's ribbed, ringed muscles.

Some have even gone as far to introduce a speculum afterwards to gain an even greater view.

 

[HeyItsDani]

Not to question your statement, but the few I have seen, have had the camera going extremely close to "the action" whereby you could actually see the dark tunnel in question and a large part of the colon with it's ribbed, ringed muscles.

Some have even gone as far to introduce a speculum afterwards to gain an even greater view.

I've watched a lot of porn and never seen anyone get close enough for you to be able to see in that dark hole, and you'd have to shine a light in it to make that work even. I'm sure there's some out there, but that's not what you see in most mainstream porn.

 

[NordicOz]

I could be wrong, but I believe in order for a guy to get anything out of butt fucking someone, the anus has to be closed around his cock. So having her "open" that way wouldn't do much for a guy (and that's who the vast majority of porn is marketed toward). Maybe one of the guys can clarify this.

The difference is that when you see the gape, that is the woman "posing" by purposefully opening up her anal passage to show the camera. Just like a girl has her mouth open showing the cumshot.....both can be closed

 

[Samuelx]

Maybe those that enjoy that view will think differently than I, but the first time I left my girlfriend gaping I loved it. Of course, she had been tied down to a kneeling bench, and I was in full Domme mode. The idea that she not only loved for me to play with her anally, but that I could see that she would now be "open" for me to use her that way to my … her … deepest pleasures …… yeah. I liked it. And used it. And she loved it.

It didn't take a week for her to 'return to normal' and then we got to start all over again.

I love Brian Pumper's "The Gape Man" porn series and rap songs.

 

[NordicOz]

I've watched a lot of porn and never seen anyone get close enough for you to be able to see in that dark hole, and you'd have to shine a light in it to make that work even. I'm sure there's some out there, but that's not what you see in most mainstream porn.

I have only ever watched mainstream porn...

If you want, I can go through my internet history in the next couple of days and find the last gaping vid I saw in which they show what I described. It may take a while to find but if your willing to wait then it should be no problem.

 

[darlynd]

In general, this is why 'the Gape' is a fetish. It is another flavor that some like and some do not. No one is asking that another justify his kink, it just is. I learned about anal gape from a man who LOVED anal. So the notion that it must close around a man is a generalization that may not apply to this kink.

Some men (and some women) just like the view and that is all it takes for them. I'm just saying …

 

[HeyItsDani]

I have only ever watched mainstream porn...

If you want, I can go through my internet history in the next couple of days and find the last gaping vid I saw in which they show what I described. It may take a while to find but if your willing to wait then it should be no problem.

I'm here for the long haul I believe, although I think you're proving my point by having to spend so much time looking for it.

 

[mothership]

I think it's like marking someone. Same reason they cum on the face: to prove what they did.

 

[HeyItsDani]

I think it's like marking someone. Same reason they cum on the face: to prove what they did.

You don't think the actual visual of the guy's cock in her asshole is enough? They have to open it wide to prove it's an asshole? lol

 

[mothership]

You don't think the actual visual of the guy's cock in her asshole is enough? They have to open it wide to prove it's an asshole? lol

Us men are a weird breed.

 

[NordicOz]

I'm here for the long haul I believe, although I think you're proving my point by having to spend so much time looking for it.

Oi!!! LOL

Don't you worry about how hard it is, leave that to me.

 

[HeyItsDani]

Don't you worry about how hard it is, leave that to me.

Hey, I'm pretty good with....hard things.

 

[horny247]

I think it's kind of nasty if you ask me. I love a nice ass ,but that turns me off.

 

[Fondelum]

Us men are a weird breed.

lmao dude your comment reminded of a cat and how it marks everything in his or her path....

 

[Abrams1900]

So a guys perspective here, and I might elaborate more on this later as I think about it. But I have always been a fan, but never stopped to think why till i jus read this thread.

Quick answer would be it shows you the girl is 100% comfortable and satisfied with me. There are a lot of things a girl can fake, but being that relaxed, comfortable, and "open" to me is a true sign of where I stand.

This being said, I don't exploit it, or try to gape her till I can throw an apple in (reference earlier post by someone else), but do enjoy pulling completely out during anal and seeing her ass. The thing that I can't get into or understand is when in porn, the gal will push her asshole out to where what normally should be on the inside, is "blooming" out of her hole. Gross!!

 

[Fondelum]

So a guys perspective here, and I might elaborate more on this later as I think about it. But I have always been a fan, but never stopped to think why till i jus read this thread.

Quick answer would be it shows you the girl is 100% comfortable and satisfied with me. There are a lot of things a girl can fake, but being that relaxed, comfortable, and "open" to me is a true sign of where I stand.

This being said, I don't exploit it, or try to gape her till I can throw an apple in (reference earlier post by someone else), but do enjoy pulling completely out during anal and seeing her ass. The thing that I can't get into or understand is when in porn, the gal will push her asshole out to where what normally should be on the inside, is "blooming" out of her hole. Gross!!

Prolapsing u mean?

 

[Abrams1900]

Prolapsing u mean?

Exactly....couldn't think of the word when I was typing that up.

 

[HoHoBomb]

i read this thread title as

anal grape

 

[HeyItsDani]

i read this thread title as

anal grape

That's a whole other subject altogether! lol

 

[BetterLuver]

To be honest i am very much into anal play, and anal sex, however anal "gape" is something that can easily turn me OFF. Not too sure why it has become as popular as it has, it is not attractive, to me in anyway. However i love playing with a girls butthole during sex..

 

[BBW_T&A_Lover]

Maybe some of you guys can explain something to me. I've actually always wondered about this, but in looking through my Tumblr feed this morning, I came across a series of photos someone posted that brought it back to me.

What is the big turn on with anal gape in porn? What is it about someone stretching an asshole wide and looking down into it with a camera that is...arousing? I don't get it. I've even asked a couple of porn producers before and they can't even articulate why it's so hot for some people, but they say it sells well. I just...I can't event fathom what about that turns someone on.

Help me out here.

i have wondered this myself. i don't get the turn on really. the last thing i want to see is a woman's colon during a movie. some of those women are going to be in for major problems once they are washed up and out of the business completely.

i saw a vid of ava devine suffering an anal prolapse (pink sock) during one of her movies. she pushed it back in and the guy kept right on ramming. that's hardcore.

if i had the looks and was hung, i still would never be able to be a porn star. some of those guys are complete dicks and have absolutely zero respect for women. if i was that guy, i would have been calling 911.

 

[NordicOz]

if i had the looks and was hung, i still would never be able to be a porn star. some of those guys are complete dicks and have absolutely zero respect for women. if i was that guy, i would have been calling 911.

You do realize that they are actors "acting" right???

And why would you call 911 for something that she could (and did) fix herself? If she was in real distress and discomfort, you can be sure that she would not have continued and sought medical attention.