As a Master How Would You Feel...

[Homburg]

My view has not changed towards your master though. If you have to resort to name calling, you still must be a child.

You say this like it was a choice of last resort. No, little internet wannabe, "hypocritical twat" was the very first thing that came to mind when I read the original post in this thread.

 

[intothewoods]

Eaten off your belly!

DAD?

im glad that got worked out and hope it doesnt have to be in public in the future.

as far as the last part of that post, i find it bad form to tell a slave her master is a child.

I think it's pretty much bad form to tell anyone their sig O is a child. Well, unles they're like 6. Then I guess it's appropriate.

 

[LockDownBadBoy]

I stand on what I said.

Resorting to name calling is a sign of childishness.

 

[midwestyankee]

I need to get my hands on an actual oldschool strop. I just use the word for my leather belt.

<<<<

Maybe there's a barber shop supply store nearby, or perhaps an old-style barber who's going out of business. Hmmm.....

 

[myinnerslut]

Maybe there's a barber shop supply store nearby, or perhaps an old-style barber who's going out of business. Hmmm.....

ebay

http://shop.ebay.com/items/_W0QQ_nkwZrazorQ20stropQQ_armrsZ1QQ_fromZR40QQ_mdoZ

 

[midwestyankee]

ebay

http://shop.ebay.com/items/_W0QQ_nkwZrazorQ20stropQQ_armrsZ1QQ_fromZR40QQ_mdoZ

Thank you, thank you. I'm salivating.

 

[myinnerslut]

Thank you, thank you. I'm salivating.

quite welcome

 

[EmpressFi]

And I gotta wonder what her "tone" or your view of how she should be controlled has to do with the price of tea in China, given that you are not her Master?

Not everyone operates on the other-men-are-a-threat/fear-someone-will-steal-my-subbie/you-can't-assess-or-deal-with-a-conversation-by-yourself-you-cute-little-subbie-you level. The idea that MIS is trusted and free to carry on a conversation with whomever she wishes, has nothing to do with any lack of "control her so-called master" has over her.

*applauds*
Amen.. not ever Master hides his insecurity in this bravado of you cant talk to anyone unless they ask me first. My Master lets me talk to whomever I want and trusts me to be able to tell someone to back off if they say something out of line and trusts me not to say something I shouldn't.

 

[Homburg]

*applauds*
Amen.. not ever Master hides his insecurity in this bravado of you cant talk to anyone unless they ask me first. My Master lets me talk to whomever I want and trusts me to be able to tell someone to back off if they say something out of line and trusts me not to say something I shouldn't.

Yup. Hell, you've told me to back off a couple of times. I just mention that game with the funny-shaped brown ball and, bang, "Back off, mister!".

 

[EmpressFi]

Yup. Hell, you've told me to back off a couple of times. I just mention that game with the funny-shaped brown ball and, bang, "Back off, mister!".

Hey.. watch it buddy.. I've done warned ya once

 

[rosco rathbone]

Maybe there's a barber shop supply store nearby, or perhaps an old-style barber who's going out of business. Hmmm.....

It would be kinda conceptually cool to start shaving with a straight razor...the mug, the brush...the strop....

eh, who am I kidding. I haven't shaved since 1998.

 

[ataxia.girl]

i wish Rosco would have cyber with me.

 

[rosco rathbone]

i wish Rosco would have cyber with me.

very funny.

 

[kitten_candy]

It would be kinda conceptually cool to start shaving with a straight razor...the mug, the brush...the strop....

eh, who am I kidding. I haven't shaved since 1998.

you mean like this??

 

[Puman]

Hawt...very hawt!

 

[catalina_francisco]

you mean like this??

Yum, one of my favourite photo''s, along with the rest of the shoot...so much so I bought 2 copies of the magazine...one for drooling over kd, one for pristine preservation.

Catalina

 

[catalina_francisco]

*applauds*
Amen.. not ever Master hides his insecurity in this bravado of you cant talk to anyone unless they ask me first. My Master lets me talk to whomever I want and trusts me to be able to tell someone to back off if they say something out of line and trusts me not to say something I shouldn't.

Actually, while for some it may be about insecurity, for others it is about control and even respect..afterall, most of us entered this style of relationship because one wanted to control, the other wanted to be controlled on some level. I am also able to talk to anyone I want to (though he can step in and revoke that right with particular people anytime) , but that also goes with an understanding of on what level, relevance, boundaries of familiarity and intimacy, and openness as opposed to conversations with others which should be had with him and/or conversations he has no way of knowing about. It has little to do with my ability to handle any situation which could arise though he trusts I am capable of managing if need be...truth is there has only ever been one person dumb and rude enough to think that because they were able to talk to me, they could also take liberties online which were not their right to take. I handled it and informed F, and he also took steps to ensure the message was clear and unmistakeably not negotiable by contacting the person himself. It wasn't necessary in the sense he felt insecure or that I couldn't handle it, but it was his right to do so as a Master and the one in control. Strange thing is though, although I am free to talk to others without asking express permission, I find unless I am asked to do so for a reason relating to and by F, and the occasional person who contacts me here and who I have gotten to know through the forum, for the main part I am not interested in conversing with other PYL's...go figure.

Catalina

 

[rosco rathbone]

I kick a mean constant craving down the karaoke pub of a friday nite

 

[Evil_Geoff]

If your slave were to go on line and ask questions of another master without your permission, how would you react and what would the consequences be?

I'll answer this straight even though I know it was intended as a passive aggressive slap at Homburg.

IF, and that's a mighty big IF, I told my slave that she was not to go online and contact another Master without my permission, and she did so, my first reaction would be to ask "What were you talking to him about?" to determine the seriousness of the violation. Then I would ask "Why?" to determine the cause of the disobedience in the first place, and if there were extenuating circumstances for the forbidden contact.

However, NEITHER of my girls are forbidden to contact anyone unless there is a specific reason to forbid contact with THAT specific person. Like someone trolling them. In which case they get told "put so and so on ignore."

Tori, love, you can put the OP on ignore if he bothers you.

 

[sailorfrank]

A slave dis-obeying her Master? Say it aint so DAMN her!

Hey hand me one of those strops would ya? They sting like hell on a bare ass.

Its always nice and fun to let a slave get into trouble from time to time...after all where would punishment come from?

But really a Master doesnt have to Dominate 24 hours a day to be a Master!

 

[Harmony_1985]

Daddy lets me talk to who I like!

Just so long as I'm a good girl and behave myself, he doesn't care.

I had a guy PM me while he was away and ask me for pictures of my pussy and my boobs, I told him no cos Daddy wouldn't like it.

I got a reward from Daddy for that

 

[lilylicious]

. . . my first reaction would be to ask "What were you talking to him about?" to determine the seriousness of the violation. Then I would ask "Why?" to determine the cause of the disobedience in the first place . . .

Sure you can punish the disobedience. Because, well, that's just fun! But I'm thinking it's important to know the circumstance of the infraction to make sure there isn't something more serious amiss.

 

[Evil_Geoff]

Sure you can punish the disobedience. Because, well, that's just fun! But I'm thinking it's important to know the circumstance of the infraction to make sure there isn't something more serious amiss.

Exactly so.

 

[Hisscarlett]

I am not allowed to talk to other men without Master's express permission and that is nothing to do with his security or otherwise but instead to do with his control over me.

Once he claimed he made it clear that there were several aspects of my life that would have to change - out of respect to him and his control over me - I have always been a very tactile person and hugging was something I did without even thinking. That ended as Master decided it was not respectful to him as my Master.

I also am not allowed to answer any PMs I receive - even to say that I am not allowed to respond - which is why my signature and bio make it clear on this forum and on my LJ that I am not permitted to talk to other Masters/Doms. There is one other Master who Master gave permission to be friended to my LJ, and that was because he knows and respects him and his relationship with his girl, who is a friend of mine.

Any PMs I get I just show to Master for his amusement and that is the end of it. He is secure in himself and our relationship and my slavery to him to know that there is nothing that can impact negatively.

Part of it is also that I have no interest in talking to any other Masters/Doms on an individual level, I just don't have that desire. I belong to Master so why would I want to talk to others on a one to one level? Taking part in a forum like this is more than enough for me.

It doesn't bother me, I am his property and whilst I know that he knows there is nothing on earth that would induce me to ever do anything disrespectful to him or his role I am more than happy to comply with his order.

Punishment is something different, if there is no order forbidding it then why would there be punishment? Punishment is not for fun or pleasure, it is to teach a lesson or modify a behaviour. Play is another thing altogether and I am all for as much of that as possible!

He did give me permission on our wedding day to hug whoever I wanted and I made the most of it as I was so blissfully happy that anyone within hugging range was fair game!

It was a decision he made at the outset of our M/s and as we are 24/7 TPE I see nothing wrong with him deciding to make any decision he chooses. Even things I don't understand, I am his property to do with as he sees fit.

However that is not the way everyone sees it and I feel that if a Master is ok with his slave talking to others then that is just grand too. Each to their own, we are all different, which is what makes this world such an interesting place.

I hope that whilst it might be that this thread was started to try to cause trouble it actually turns into something positive.

 

[whywouldi]

I am not allowed to talk to other men without Master's express permission and that is nothing to do with his security or otherwise but instead to do with his control over me.

You should become a muslim !