Bathhouse or Gay Bar?

Hiding and wearing a face diaper....that is your choice. this is why I said do the research. seriously if you are relying on the Gov't. you'll be lonely for a long time

I've done my research, and I've decided to take the covid precautions recommended by epidemiologists. As you say, my choice. And if you want to take health advice from idiots like Donald Trump, go ahead. That is your choice.
 
I am so screwed by Covid. After experiencing my first man sex at a bathhouse last fall, I was so looking forward to expanding on the experience when I began traveling on business this past spring.

Alas, the virus made a mess of things, and I’ve been laying low ever since.

But sooner or later, the threat will fade (because of a vaccine, I hope, not because everybody’s dead). And so I’ve been spending a lot of time anticipating my next gay encounter. The question is whether I should head back to the bathhouses or start visiting gay bars.

I find bathhouses appealing for several reasons. There’s a certain familiarity, in that I’ve already experienced that environment. And I like the anonymity and knowing everybody’s there for the same reason.

I also liked the absence of any pressure, other than what was in my own head. It was amazing to be among a bunch of near-naked men and not have anyone push my boundaries.

It’s obvious, however, that gay bars outnumber bathhouses. Perhaps that’s where my thinking should lead?

The problem is that I’ve never knowingly been in a gay bar, and the thought of trying to get picked up in that environment is a bit intimidating. Am I being silly? Am I overthinking?

I should note that I’m not looking for any long-term relationships. I just want to get fucked.

I would suggest going to a gay bar, and posing this question to the people there.

Then go to a bathhouse and ask those people the same thing.
 
I would suggest going to a gay bar, and posing this question to the people there.

Then go to a bathhouse and ask those people the same thing.
from another very curious Texan. Id like to go to a bath house with you.
 
Interesting - never been to either. One option we have up in Portland is the Oregon Theater. Big large theater with anything goes....sometimes couples are fucking...sometimes M2M....

Sounds like a bathhouse is a fun ride.... No into kissing....but getting ridden or sucking/being sucked is a dream...
 
Interesting - never been to either. One option we have up in Portland is the Oregon Theater. Big large theater with anything goes....sometimes couples are fucking...sometimes M2M....

Sounds like a bathhouse is a fun ride.... No into kissing....but getting ridden or sucking/being sucked is a dream...

Damn that sounds hot as hell ! Wish there was a place like that in Arizona.
 
I've been to gay bars with mixed success. I always get hit on, but I only followed through once. We went back to my place where I sucked him and he fucked me from behind. Not the best gay sex. He was dominant and forceful.
I missed an opportunity in Auckland NZ, because I didn't understand the meaning of "I fancy you"

I'd love to try a bath house for several reasons. I'd want to suck several cocks in one night. And being watched while I suck or fuck would be an extra turn on. I imagine I could be a total cock slut, and fulfill all my gay fantasies in one night.

Being naked in an all male environment where anonymous sex is rampant sounds like heaven to me.
 
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never been to a bathhouse but it fascinates me...is there any protocols or rules to know that exist written or unwritten?

There will be rules provided by the establishment, like no sex in the hot tub. There will be common courtesy such as "no means no". No permission is needed to reach out and stroke someone. The bath houses I've been to have small bedrooms that are rented to individuals. You are free to do what you want in the room. As you wander around and peak into the rooms you'll find some guys laying on their backs, and some on their stomach. The ones face down want to get fucked and the ones face up are tops.

I love the feel of anonymous hands on my body as I cruise the dark halls. Sometimes it escalates to mutual embrace, other times just a pleasurable touch.
 
Interesting - never been to either. One option we have up in Portland is the Oregon Theater. Big large theater with anything goes....sometimes couples are fucking...sometimes M2M....

Sounds like a bathhouse is a fun ride.... No into kissing....but getting ridden or sucking/being sucked is a dream...

That closed back in March.

For bathhouses:
There is Hawks...which is in the middle of moving to a new location. And has Bi nights but most days it is a gay bathhouse.
https://hawkspdx.com/

And Steam, strictly gay bathhouse.
http://www.steamportland.com/

Haven't been to either.


As well as a few swinging/sex positive places around town that have nights catering to lgbt. We plan to go to The Velvet Rope once covid is under control.
 
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HUGE fantasy AND desire of mine to go to a gay bathhouse. I was in pretty good shape b/c but now I have gotten very fit. At 6'3" 235 muscular 8" cut cock, overflowing with homosexual desires, verse leaning top, I want to walk naked into room full of naked, gay men....a pent up, closeted homosexual that needs to let loose.....:devil:
 
HUGE fantasy AND desire of mine to go to a gay bathhouse. I was in pretty good shape b/c but now I have gotten very fit. At 6'3" 235 muscular 8" cut cock, overflowing with homosexual desires, verse leaning top, I want to walk naked into room full of naked, gay men....a pent up, closeted homosexual that needs to let loose.....:devil:

The thing I found so wonderful about the bathhouse was knowing everybody was there for the same reason, and yet, I never felt pressured. No pressure, that is, except what was in my own head.

Next time, I want to find a man like you, then I'll drop to my knees to see if I can take your full eight inches in my mouth. I'll stop just before you cum and ask you to, please, fuck my cherry ass.

Can my ass handle an eight-inch cock? I have no idea, but I desperately want to find out.
 
The thing I found so wonderful about the bathhouse was knowing everybody was there for the same reason, and yet, I never felt pressured. No pressure, that is, except what was in my own head.

Next time, I want to find a man like you, then I'll drop to my knees to see if I can take your full eight inches in my mouth. I'll stop just before you cum and ask you to, please, fuck my cherry ass.

Can my ass handle an eight-inch cock? I have no idea, but I desperately want to find out.

I feel the same way. There is very little pressure. I once took a friend there who wanted to be forced to fuck someone. I put a blindfold and a leash on him and guided him from room to room where he'd ask to be fucked at each one. There were surprisingly few takers. He was beginning to become discouraged when we eventually we found two men who were in the midst of making out . They bent him over in the doorway and one sucked him while the other took him from behind. I was still holding the leash as people passed by. He later said it was the most wonderful thing he'd ever done.

A word of caution; Work up slowly to a at least a 6 inch dildo before visiting the bath house if you are going to seduce a stranger with an 8 inch cock. Going from virgin to something that big can be scary and painful. It's impolite to tease a man and then run away as soon as he tries to shove a big cock up your virgin hole. I know. I've been there. It was so embarrassing. :)
 
HUGE fantasy AND desire of mine to go to a gay bathhouse. I was in pretty good shape b/c but now I have gotten very fit. At 6'3" 235 muscular 8" cut cock, overflowing with homosexual desires, verse leaning top, I want to walk naked into room full of naked, gay men....a pent up, closeted homosexual that needs to let loose.....:devil:

Sounds like you’d enjoy yourself very much.
 
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I once took a friend there who wanted to be forced to fuck someone. I put a blindfold and a leash on him and guided him from room to room where he'd ask to be fucked at each one. There were surprisingly few takers. He was beginning to become discouraged when we eventually we found two men who were in the midst of making out . They bent him over in the doorway and one sucked him while the other took him from behind. I was still holding the leash as people passed by. He later said it was the most wonderful thing he'd ever done.

Oh, my gawd, you've blown my mind. Having somebody lead me around a bathhouse on a leash just became my favorite fantasy.
 
never been to a bathhouse but it fascinates me...is there any protocols or rules to know that exist written or unwritten?

There is a place called Spa World in VA. It is a Korean spa so you’re naked when you get into the water. You shower, then you go into the different hot tubs that have different temperatures. There is a sauna and a steam room.

Like I said, everyone is naked so you can watch them as they walk around.

I’ll lay there naked soaking in infrared rays or I’ll sit naked in the sauna with other guys. I was in the steam room with a guy who started to stroke himself. I watched and was amazed at how big he was. I started getting hard and started stroking myself.

Man, it would have been nice to have other guys there and have a circle jerk.
 
Being naked in an all male environment where anonymous sex is rampant sounds like heaven to me.

It pretty much is. I miss it like crazy. I’m happily married but I fucking love gay sex.

I’m not much for the bar scene but I could spend an entire vacation in a bathhouse if I could get food delivered there. I’d have everything I needed - a bed, a shower, and so much gay sex.

I’ve had a few experiences in bathhouses but none recently. My first time was about ten years ago when I hooked up with a guy who sucked my cock while he fingered my ass - talk about intense. I had to grab onto the walls every time he used his fingers. I’m still floored he didn’t make me a bottom for life, but I still have dreams of getting buttfucked and made into someone who only craves cock in my ass.

My other experiences have been as a top. My next time there, I watched two big bearish men dominate another, slapping his chest and face while he sucked them. I was right there watching - it was the hottest thing I had ever watched. The sun was a chubby man who knelt before the others as they gave him commands and worked him over. Then they broke off, and I bumped into the sub in another room. He knelt right away and sucked me, had me play with his nipples, and then I bent him over and fucked his ass bare. It was a thousand times hotter than even my hottest encounter with my wife. God I miss gay sex.
 
There is a place called Spa World in VA. It is a Korean spa so you’re naked when you get into the water. You shower, then you go into the different hot tubs that have different temperatures. There is a sauna and a steam room.

Like I said, everyone is naked so you can watch them as they walk around.

I’ll lay there naked soaking in infrared rays or I’ll sit naked in the sauna with other guys. I was in the steam room with a guy who started to stroke himself. I watched and was amazed at how big he was. I started getting hard and started stroking myself.

Man, it would have been nice to have other guys there and have a circle jerk.

Think if I’d seen that I’d of had to find a place to do more than just watch him stroke. Hot story!
 
Thinking of stopping by a bathhouse this coming Sunday. Be nice to meet a fellow lit member there.
 
Never been to a gay bar myself, but I want to try it. I think it would be fun to hang out in the bathroom and service a bunch of guys there. I've had a LOT of fun in the bathhouse environment though. Like a lot of guys, I love the freedom I have to walk around naked and know that any moment I can get on my knees and have a cock pushed into my mouth. That being said, there is most definitely a thrill to sucking off guys in public/semi-public locations (like bathrooms).
 
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nothing better then a gay bar and wearing my thong, hoping its soaked in cu by nights end
 
I ve never been to a bath house but i ve been to many gay bars/clubs in nyc. The hottest time i ever had was at a vodka bar. The place had a dance floor in the back. Along the back wall long curtains hung down. The guy i was with pulled me back behind the curtain to suck my dick. There were a few other guys just loitering who saw what was going on. Before i knew it my friend was serving me and two others. I eventually blew my load in his warm mouth that he took completely before moving on to another hot cock. After I calmed down I thought it would be best to help so i dropped to my knees and grabbed the nearest cock to suck. There was a bit of a line built up but we sucked cock together for a while taking many loads. I don’t remember exactly how many but my friends face was covered when we were threw. I can only imagine that a bath house would be a similar situation but without the need to hide.
 
Fishing

I was just horny chatting with a buddy. He’s been using an app. Meeting his anonymous on the hiking trails or secluded bank fishing spots.

I love to fish here in Georgia just wish I could find someone to share some of my secret spots with. As far as a bath house I have never been to one but it does sound enticing if I could get away long enough. That’s one thing about fishing she knows I may be gone all day or night. I need some fun 4 real.
Lonely,
Danni 😘😉
 
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