I haven't visited a bathhouse in over a year but have been trying to go for the last several weeks. It's quite a drive for me into the city where it is located. Everytime I think that I may have the opportunity something else happens to delay the trip. Oh well hopefully within the next several days.
Bathhouse or Gay Bar?
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I so understand what you mean, and still being a newbie myself, all I can say is ignore your fears and go for it.
Based on my limited experience, the beauty of a bathhouse is knowing everybody is there for the same reason -- fucking. And though there are bound to be exceptions, everybody I encountered was incredibly accommodating. No pressure at all, which sounds weird, given that I was in a house full of horny men who were essentially naked.
I totally agree with you. A very relaxed but sex charged atmosphere. You set your boundaries and are free to do only what you are comfortable with doing. I personally have actually done very little there in the way of interaction with others, but have still gotten off everytime. Being naked or near naked in that environment is very exciting.
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I felt no pressure to do anything that I didn't want to. I wasn't interested in getting my ass fucked. One older guy probed my ass with his cock but accepted my refusal. I did let him rub it along my ass until he came on my back.
That's hot !
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Any body familer with the Kenosa (WI) bathouse? PM me.
Any body familer with the Kenosa (WI) bathouse? PM me.
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I've been to few in my traveling days. Loved them each time. Never felt pressured, was able to say say no thanks whenever I needed to. Everyone there for the same needs. There was a instance where I'd enjoyed one so much we'd get together when had the travel dates. He's a pure top and I became his sub bottom. I loved that
The nakedness is certainly the thrill.
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Bathhouse for me, obviously
Only been once but cant wait to go again
So liberating
Only been once but cant wait to go again
So liberating
Really looking forward to a report.
It's been too long.
It's been just about a year since the last time I enjoyed the thrill and freedom of a bath house. I can't wait for the vaccine to become widely available so that I can do it again. I dream of walking through the dimly lit hallways, slowly being undressed and fondled by men I can barely see, until I'm naked with no idea where my clothes are. In the dream there are men of all types touching me front and back, kissing me and probing me.
Soon
It's been just about a year since the last time I enjoyed the thrill and freedom of a bath house. I can't wait for the vaccine to become widely available so that I can do it again. I dream of walking through the dimly lit hallways, slowly being undressed and fondled by men I can barely see, until I'm naked with no idea where my clothes are. In the dream there are men of all types touching me front and back, kissing me and probing me.
Soon
I haven’t been to either, but I think the bathhouse would be the more productive and fun of the two. I like the idea of everyone being there for the same thing without the game of flirting and trying to pick someone up. So many fantasies run through my head when I think of it. Pretty much the same fantasies as the shower or locker room at the gym...so hot and erotic. I’m so horny for cock right now I think I would throw caution to the wind and head for a bathhouse.
PintlerMan
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Had a really fun time at a bathhouse in Denver a few years back. It is amazing to have a bunch of men around while sex goes on, real energy. Looking forward to visiting one again.
OMG!! so HOT!!! I wish I was in the great state of TEXAS
Flash is right: OMG!
The opportunity to have sex with multiple men in a single evening is the reason I find a bathhouse so appealing. When I walked into my first bathhouse, I'd never had sex with even one man. When I left, I'd had sex with three.
If I had chosen instead to go to a bar, I might still be waiting to experience gay sex.
Leanandlong
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I've had some great experiences in bathhouses, though there are drawbacks. Wannabe bottoms always seem to outnumber tops, which is annoying for us bottoms. They are definitely major vectors for std's, which is why i eventually decided to stop going. But seriously, I had some great experiences (less good ones too.) And if you're at all exhibitionist it's pretty awesome.
My favorite memory was the night before my birthday a few years ago. after some time in the massive hot tub and steam room, I wandered back to the glory hole area - it had a raised walkway around a central area so we could suck while still standing. It was a party night and I had my mouthful of cock pretty quickly. The second or tird time, I was with a guy who was really, really enjoying it and I asked if he wanted to fuck, which he did. Because of the party a bunch of rooms that were normally rented were open to anyone, and we found one easily. I got onto the bed on all fours and and was soon enjoying feeling him sliding in and out of my ass (with a condom).
We left the door open and soon we had a crowd of onlookers, some of them crowding into the room with us, lots of them stroking my back and ass as I was getting fucked. There was a guy in front of my stroking his cock, so I told him to come closer so I could swallow it instead, and soon I was enjoying the wonderful experience of being taken at both ends. Before long the guys fucking me was done, so I told the one I had been sucking on that he should go around and take his place - sometimes a bottom has to go into power mode and tell people what to do! He did, and I had a different cock to suck on almost immediately.
It went on for a while, and when the second guy fucking me was done I just collapsed onto the bed and lay on my stomach to recover while everyone wandered out of the room. A handsome young guy who had been watching put his hand on my shoulder and said "Thank You" - I was glad I made a good show.
It would have been amazing, but it got better. After a little while a handsome, youngish African American guy wandered in and started caressing my back and ass. He was a bit chubby but still handsome and he had a nice cock, bigger than any I had had that night. We chatted for a bit, he liked what he saw, and before long
I was deepthroating him, and then we fucked in bunch of positions - doggystyle, on my back, and riding him. We attracted a crowd again, and at one point when I was on my back with my legs in the air another black man came up by my face, and he had a flat out enormous cock, and soon I had as much of it in my mouth as I could take. It was ecstasy, really. I asked him if he wanted to switch places with my friend who was busy holding my ankles up while ploughing me, but he didn't want to fuck with a condom (remember what I said about STD's?)
Eventually we stopped after I finally let myself cum. I was riding my friend reverse cowgirl, stroking myself, looking at our reflection on the mirror on the side of the bed, and I couldn't hold back anymore. One last strong thrust downward taking him as deep as I could, and came everywhere...
So yeah, lots of fun. But in the end, even with PReP, I decided the risks weren't worth it. Too many guys who don't like safe sex, and nobody ever wants to use condoms for oral - which is understandable, it's lousy. Better to make the effort to find someone who can communicate with again later, if need be (and who knows he can be held accountable...)
My favorite memory was the night before my birthday a few years ago. after some time in the massive hot tub and steam room, I wandered back to the glory hole area - it had a raised walkway around a central area so we could suck while still standing. It was a party night and I had my mouthful of cock pretty quickly. The second or tird time, I was with a guy who was really, really enjoying it and I asked if he wanted to fuck, which he did. Because of the party a bunch of rooms that were normally rented were open to anyone, and we found one easily. I got onto the bed on all fours and and was soon enjoying feeling him sliding in and out of my ass (with a condom).
We left the door open and soon we had a crowd of onlookers, some of them crowding into the room with us, lots of them stroking my back and ass as I was getting fucked. There was a guy in front of my stroking his cock, so I told him to come closer so I could swallow it instead, and soon I was enjoying the wonderful experience of being taken at both ends. Before long the guys fucking me was done, so I told the one I had been sucking on that he should go around and take his place - sometimes a bottom has to go into power mode and tell people what to do! He did, and I had a different cock to suck on almost immediately.
It went on for a while, and when the second guy fucking me was done I just collapsed onto the bed and lay on my stomach to recover while everyone wandered out of the room. A handsome young guy who had been watching put his hand on my shoulder and said "Thank You" - I was glad I made a good show.
It would have been amazing, but it got better. After a little while a handsome, youngish African American guy wandered in and started caressing my back and ass. He was a bit chubby but still handsome and he had a nice cock, bigger than any I had had that night. We chatted for a bit, he liked what he saw, and before long
I was deepthroating him, and then we fucked in bunch of positions - doggystyle, on my back, and riding him. We attracted a crowd again, and at one point when I was on my back with my legs in the air another black man came up by my face, and he had a flat out enormous cock, and soon I had as much of it in my mouth as I could take. It was ecstasy, really. I asked him if he wanted to switch places with my friend who was busy holding my ankles up while ploughing me, but he didn't want to fuck with a condom (remember what I said about STD's?)
Eventually we stopped after I finally let myself cum. I was riding my friend reverse cowgirl, stroking myself, looking at our reflection on the mirror on the side of the bed, and I couldn't hold back anymore. One last strong thrust downward taking him as deep as I could, and came everywhere...
So yeah, lots of fun. But in the end, even with PReP, I decided the risks weren't worth it. Too many guys who don't like safe sex, and nobody ever wants to use condoms for oral - which is understandable, it's lousy. Better to make the effort to find someone who can communicate with again later, if need be (and who knows he can be held accountable...)
I used a internet search. Hope you find one within a reasonable driving distance.
Incredible story, Lean. And so much of what you describe is what I want to experience, specifically taking multiple cocks as a crowd watches.
On my only bathhouse visit, I spent quite a bit of time debating whether to climb onto a platform that hung from the ceiling in the main basement room, hoping several men would take the invitation to use me. But everything was just too new for me, and I never found the courage.
I've second-guessed myself ever since. I desperately want that first cock up my ass, followed by the second, the third, etc. Next time, perhaps.
As Pines said, do a search on Google. Just enter the words Gay Bathhouse. If you have a particular city in mind, include the name.
But don't expect to find them everywhere. Mostly in the larger cities, and not every large city has one.
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I confess to having spent more time in bathouses than gay/gay friendly bars. Living in Toronto we have a good gay village but is not perfect. The number of bath-houses are decreasing and so finding one that satisfies can and does require research
I enjoyed the Cellar as it was dark and inexpensive. Also more popular with the older men which I loved and guys there for sex, not posing. They had a few dark hallways and one in particular that experienced thousands of blowjobs over the years. I remember one night being there sucking cock left, right and centre and man it was amazing. One guy then bent over and guided my cock into his ass. Felt great but I didn't fuck him long as I thought, this is how std's are spread. And yes on more than one visit came home with crab lice. Ahhhh the risks for cock. I do miss the Cellar.
Steamworks is popular but more for the young guys, and Spa Exxxcess seems to have picked up the older men. Not bad place not great but they serve drinks/beer which is good.
For bars the best is the Black Eagle. Again mostly older and into leather crowd but all are welcome. Upstairs outdoor patio is nice and the backroom I will call it is purposely created for lots and lots of oral fun. Sometimes people are into it, sometimes they are just waiting. But if in Toronto ,when covid passes, I recommend a visit there.
Appreciate hearing other people's experiences and preferences.
I enjoyed the Cellar as it was dark and inexpensive. Also more popular with the older men which I loved and guys there for sex, not posing. They had a few dark hallways and one in particular that experienced thousands of blowjobs over the years. I remember one night being there sucking cock left, right and centre and man it was amazing. One guy then bent over and guided my cock into his ass. Felt great but I didn't fuck him long as I thought, this is how std's are spread. And yes on more than one visit came home with crab lice. Ahhhh the risks for cock. I do miss the Cellar.
Steamworks is popular but more for the young guys, and Spa Exxxcess seems to have picked up the older men. Not bad place not great but they serve drinks/beer which is good.
For bars the best is the Black Eagle. Again mostly older and into leather crowd but all are welcome. Upstairs outdoor patio is nice and the backroom I will call it is purposely created for lots and lots of oral fun. Sometimes people are into it, sometimes they are just waiting. But if in Toronto ,when covid passes, I recommend a visit there.
Appreciate hearing other people's experiences and preferences.
Leanandlong
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So, in my experience you don't want to be that guy in the sex club hanging on the harness or bent over the horse, or whatever, hoping that someone will take up the invitation to fuck you. It looks desperate and needy, and needy is never attractive. I've seen folks in that position waiting, and never seen anyone going up to them to take advantage of it. And I admit, a few times being really bored at a bath house with little action and trying putting myself in that position and it didn't work for me either.
Much better to make a connection with someone and if you want to be public and exhibitionistic that can be cool. As I mentioned in my story, going from glory hole to fucking can be a pretty easy transition. But don't come across as too hungry. If you're older, look for a place that has a Bear Night event or something similar.
I can live with knowing I lacked the courage to get my ass fucked the first time out. But offering up my ass to a house full of horny men, only to be ignored, would have been pretty devastating.
Thanks for the advice.
