BBW's and Lovers…are you one?

[InspiringDreams]

You are right hon…it's all about what we are attracted to and what we like.

I think that's the most important bit.
I've always been pretty shallow myself when it comes to men, but loosely, I've overlooked a lot because I've grown to love a mans personality making his imperfections very very lovable.

I can't say much about BBW as a heterosexual female... But I love me some boobies, so I say keep on showin those big beautiful breasts

 

[blackhillsbbw]

I think that's the most important bit.
I've always been pretty shallow myself when it comes to men, but loosely, I've overlooked a lot because I've grown to love a mans personality making his imperfections very very lovable.

I can't say much about BBW as a heterosexual female... But I love me some boobies, so I say keep on showin those big beautiful breasts

Well stated. I liked where you said you've "overlooked a lot because i've gown to love a mans personality making his imperfections very very lovable." I have too for years. So Yes, I agree but would you say that you lean more that way or more towards your shallow side when it comes to long run?

 

[InspiringDreams]

Well stated. I liked where you said you've "overlooked a lot because i've gown to love a mans personality making his imperfections very very lovable." I have too for years. So Yes, I agree but would you say that you lean more that way or more towards your shallow side when it comes to long run?

I'd say I lean more "that way."
Honestly I'm just not very attracted to the male physique in general, I find more often than not that I grow to love most things about my lover's body's after getting to know them. I'd say my more shallow side comes in only when I find a man to be particularly unattractive to me, but that's definitely not limited to size.

 

[sixfeetundernea]

Men who are with bbws, how have you told them you line them and accept their size? What was their reaction? Have they come to accept it?

Would someone be willing to tell me if I'm a bbw or ssbbw?

 

[blackhillsbbw]

I'd say I lean more "that way."
Honestly I'm just not very attracted to the male physique in general, I find more often than not that I grow to love most things about my lover's body's after getting to know them. I'd say my more shallow side comes in only when I find a man to be particularly unattractive to me, but that's definitely not limited to size.

Pretty insightful hon. Thanks for commenting.

I will add that I've had those that I thought were 'my type' only to find out they weren't. I have some guys that were totally not what I was seeking and it went great. So it's gone both ways. I guess one just steps out and see where it goes.

 

[blackhillsbbw]

Men who are with bbws, how have you told them you like them and accept their size? What was their reaction? Have they come to accept it?

Would someone be willing to tell me if I'm a bbw or ssbbw?

No doubt you've received some private messages. lol
I get damn pissed when I see a size 12-14 and they call themselves a BBW! Big my ASS! If that's the case then I'm a size 22-24, 3 X so I must be a Super sized.

 

[blackhillsbbw]

Just found this thread, and I am loving it. It makes me feel amazing knowing there are people out there that accept and enjoy body types other than what the media defines as beautiful.

With that being said, hello everyone and have a wonderful weekend

Thanks for checking in and hope your weekend goes great!

 

[blackhillsbbw]

12-14 is average, there is nothing BBW about that...but I am all for girls embracing their curves and loving their bodies! It is often hard for us curvier gals to accept ourselves, but I have definitely gained a sense of confidence within the past few years

Surely you saw this article in the news this past winter? A size 12 a bbw? Grrrrr

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/a...critics-slam-industry-labeling-plus-size.html

 

[RjThoughts]

Surely you saw this article in the news this past winter? A size 12 a bbw? Grrrrr

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/a...critics-slam-industry-labeling-plus-size.html

Yeah, she's a bbw, only in the minds of designers and Hollywood tabloids.

 

[sixfeetundernea]

No doubt you've received some private messages. lol
I get damn pissed when I see a size 12-14 and they call themselves a BBW! Big my ASS! If that's the case then I'm a size 22-24, 3 X so I must be a Super sized.

I actually haven't pertaining to this article

 

[blackhillsbbw]

Exactly!!

Yeah, she's a bbw, only in the minds of designers and Hollywood tabloids.

EXACTLY!!!! Nothing gets my dander up faster than this misnomer. It's Hollywood that I've grown up with and influenced me that NO one would like my size!

I KNOW that labels shouldn't be, but I feel I personally need it. I know that some men out there do not like big women so that is how I let them know i'm big if there are not pictures. Nothing wrong with that. But it helps identify a certain size woman. Then now, you see a woman that needs to lose a frick'in 10 pounds and she calls herself a bbw or over weight!!! I'd like to shove that 10 pounds right up her bony ass!! Yah know? Grrrrrrr…. So the calvin kleins of this world need to get a clue. And men of his world need to stand up and tell them they are CLOSET lovers of size!! Big size and be proud of it. It's the only way it will change. And one more thing….

BOY am i on my soap box, SORRY!!!

But, Damn..Hmmmm...…i forgot. Hhhhmmmmmm???

Oh yah, 15 years ago when I began on line, BBW sites, porn etc was pretty minimal. There were a few porn sites and user rooms in YAHOO, but really there were not that many BBW's "out" like today. Look how far we've come…Now if the lovers of them would frick'in tell the Dr. Drew shows and the Bill Mahers and all those out there …we'd get there a lot quicker if you ask my opinion.

OKKKkkay….taking a breath now. Not sure where all that came from!!!

 

[blackhillsbbw]

She is gorgeous, but come on. Ugh, this is ridiculous haha.

Of course she's beautiful…she's a size 12, more likely a 10! :caning:

 

[blackhillsbbw]

Plus Size Mannequins!

I love the idea!

Hope it's something we'll see more of! HOWEVER, they are not that 'plus size' but it's a START!!!

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2013/03/15/full-figured-mannequins-lingerie-sweden_n_2883520.html




Where did everyone go? I thought for sure the previous topic would get more comments! But that's ok that it didn't.

 

[lantern88]

Women with curves, bbws are so sexy,how can a man not love them?

 

[blackhillsbbw]

Women with curves, bbws are so sexy,how can a man not love them?

Well if you look at these threads in Lit as an example hon, how many big women do you see posted? Not many. WE are not part of the mainstream and that always seems to register with me " you don't fit in", or "you're not part of the norm" or something like that. A couple threads I checked was Women taking cocks or something, but there are tons of like threads out there in Lit. It's still kind of disappointment…the gals are always what Hollywood would deem "model" like.

 

[lantern88]

Well if you look at these threads in Lit as an example hon, how many big women do you see posted? Not many. WE are not part of the mainstream and that always seems to register with me " you don't fit in", or "you're not part of the norm" or something like that. A couple threads I checked was Women taking cocks or something, but there are tons of like threads out there in Lit. It's still kind of disappointment…the gals are always what Hollywood would deem "model" like.

I don't go what the mainstream tells me, I go with my heart, gut and instinct, and nothing is sexier than a woman with curves keep your thin models and give me a woman with curves anyday

 

[RjThoughts]

Well if you look at these threads in Lit as an example hon, how many big women do you see posted? Not many. WE are not part of the mainstream and that always seems to register with me " you don't fit in", or "you're not part of the norm" or something like that. A couple threads I checked was Women taking cocks or something, but there are tons of like threads out there in Lit. It's still kind of disappointment…the gals are always what Hollywood would deem "model" like.

Lit "men" seem to ignore BBWs. That's why I love Tumblr. Yes, I am one of those men, look at women with the same shape of their wives.

 

[blackhillsbbw]

Lit "men" seem to ignore BBWs. That's why I love Tumblr. Yes, I am one of those men, look at women with the same shape of their wives.

YESSSSS! Thank you. I think so too, I appreciate your input. We're like obscure here (hmmm is that the word), except for you and few others that like us. Maybe there's just a handful of BBW here. I do like bigger crowds tho!

I do have an account on tumblr, but I really enjoy sexual conversation and non-sexual. Tumblr doesn't seem to fill the bill on that for me.

 

[blackhillsbbw]

I don't go what the mainstream tells me, I go with my heart, gut and instinct, and nothing is sexier than a woman with curves keep your thin models and give me a woman with curves anyday

That's nice, but not really what I was getting at I guess. But it's good you don't!

 

[RjThoughts]

YESSSSS! Thank you. I think so too, I appreciate your input. We're like obscure here (hmmm is that the word), except for you and few others that like us. Maybe there's just a handful of BBW here. I do like bigger crowds tho!

I do have an account on tumblr, but I really enjoy sexual conversation and non-sexual. Tumblr doesn't seem to fill the bill on that for me.

The non-sexual conversations are few and far between. The few I do get are about literature and we tend to move them off Tumblr and into emails.

 

[blackhillsbbw]

The non-sexual conversations are few and far between. The few I do get are about literature and we tend to move them off Tumblr and into emails.

Yah. Apparently. For that reason I don't really go there. I've got plenty of email, texting attention. I just like open forums to visit and talk with others. Not necessarily sexual either.

 

[lantern88]

Yah. Apparently. For that reason I don't really go there. I've got plenty of email, texting attention. I just like open forums to visit and talk with others. Not necessarily sexual either.

Saw you were online and wanted to say hello and good afternoon

 

[blackhillsbbw]

Saw you were online and wanted to say hello and good afternoon

Hey, good day to you too!!how is for a Monday?

 

[blackhillsbbw]

The non-sexual conversations are few and far between. The few I do get are about literature and we tend to move them off Tumblr and into emails.

So how's that gal at work working out? More guys goo goo ga ga over her? Lol

 

[lantern88]

Hey, good day to you too!!how is for a Monday?

Even better cause you are here