Gotta love "sightings!" Hahaha.
What I would give to have, just one day, the ability to hear a man's thoughts about me when he sees me in line or at a store. I'd like to know he loved his "sightings"!
Forgive me, Rj, for piggybacking on bh's response to your comment.
...bh, you wouldn't need to hear my thoughts for they would be visible for all to see.
Forgive me, Rj, for piggybacking on bh's response to your comment.
...bh, you wouldn't need to hear my thoughts for they would be visible for all to see.
NO WAY would I slap your face hon...NO FUCKING WAY! And that I guarantee you...now what was it you were thinking???
What am I eating...try it, you'll like it.
Yes, the number 69 is a favorite meal on the menu.
I guess my sentences got too wordy. Both men and women seem to wonder about men who are in relationships with "plus size" women.
As for social pressures, I wonder where such things originate. And how do trends begin or end? Is it a "mass hysteria" type affect?
So many questions...so few answers.
NO WAY would I slap your face hon...NO FUCKING WAY! And that I guarantee you...now what was it you were thinking???
DONE!
Pretty quick huh???
I usually masturbate on Wednesdays...hubby is bowling!
DONE!
Pretty quick huh???
I usually masturbate on Wednesdays...hubby is bowling!
DONE!
Pretty quick huh???
I usually masturbate on Wednesdays...hubby is bowling!
OHHHH my gosh.
Now see, I'm an anomaly I think...(I'm odd, yes)
I feel that way about myself, but because it PLEASES YOU or men i'm with, and I believe them (what reason would they have to lie to me?) I get in the bedroom and turn into a class A Slut, a vixen or anything I feel like when I know his eyes and hands are on me. The lights had better be on.
Sometimes I think I should go on the road with a story to talk to these women in conferences and stuff...after years of hearing this type of thing I need to convince these women that life is going on with out them and their husbands are here with me.
At 2 am it felt like I had an epiphany or something to share....now, it doesn't seem worth your wait! hahah
But I am one of those women...
I literally have looked at smaller framed men or not even 'smaller framed' but average and wondered what they were doing with big plus size women (BIG women). I am one of those that wondered two things:
1) She gained weight on him after they married and he's hating it, but he's stuck.
2) He does love her rolls and fat and can't wait to get her home and in bed. (this still amazes me that men can LOVE, DESIRE, LUST for large women.
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I still, believe this after all this time, that when I send a guy a NUDE picture of me...I continually hold my breath and gasp thinking this is the picture that will make him turn tail and RUN!!!
And he doesn't!!
He tells me "I'm so fucking hot" or "I can't get enough of you" or "your body is so hot and you're beautiful".
I DO NOT GET it! Some guys call me stubborn. Maybe I am, but I do NOT see what men see. Sorry.
NOW...as to how did we learn this? I grew up with a more average sized mom and a critical one and a critical grandmother. They would make verbal remarks to me that 'that gal is too big' or 'she's obese' and she had me on diets when I was in 6th grade. Shit I was 5'9" and probably weighed 145. Later I was 5'11 and 175 and was still dieting, thanks to her.
I knew the unspoken/unwritten standard that any average man was too good for me when I finally tipped the scale at 225 (and I am beyond that today). So you can imagine after having YEARS OF THIS type of thinking that a simple "I find you very attractive" or "I like women of all sizes" just does not cut it for me.
I KNOW where this trend began...in the 60's with Twiggy...thin was in and Kate Moss and Victoria Secrets THEN you add in Calvin Klein in all his worldly knowledge calling a SIZE 10PLUS SIZE!!!!! GIVE ME A BREAK!!! As for the trend of commenting on a man with a large woman...I do not know. But I do know for years there have been sitcoms and men sitting around making fun of fat girls...how would that NOT make an influence on us to last a life time?
ANYWAY....these are my thoughts that I just felt I had to lay on you guys so you could join the ranks of having my knowledge become yours!
Both #'s 1 and 2 are true.
Send me a nude photo of yourself...yes I will run...in your direction.
All the compliments that there are apply. Accept them, enjoy them and most importantly believe them.
Societal standards change. I never did understand the appeal of Twiggy.
But the "size" issue is a 2-way street. When in high school (60s, 70s) the "plus size" girls wanted nothing to do with an average height skinny guy. They felt their voluptuous size contrasted too much to my slim physique. So, they ignored us bony boys. So I dated and married that slender girl...who lost even more weight after we married. (see your #1).
Sitcoms' ridicule...what do you expect from Hollywood.
"As for the trend of commenting on a man with a large woman."...I've dated these women over the years and, yes, we very often were looked at with curiosity. Men smiled wishing they were me. Ladies looked and thought...well, all I know is what my lady friends told me...these women were attracted to gentlemen who admired them for themselves.
Who cares what the rest of the world thinks.
