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gamegamale said:
Sexual desire/attraction/appeal is mostly mental. There is no logic to why men think the way they do. If one man can't appreciate you while 100 others ache at the thought of simply seeing you...my point is made. :)

Go back in time and observe art work over the centuries...voluptuous, rubenesque, statuesque women abound and are admired. You are what you are...beautiful. ;)
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Agreed. It is a great deal mental. And yes, I'm a black and white person…gray area is difficult for me and I think that is why I try to apply logic. And I like your point being made by the way…you certainly are right. And yes, I have many artist's pictures …rubenesque and voluptuous was preferred at one time. Then entered Twiggy for me in the 60's and all those other artists were forgotten in my young mind….xox
 
blackhillsbbw said:
Agreed. It is a great deal mental. And yes, I'm a black and white person…gray area is difficult for me and I think that is why I try to apply logic. And I like your point being made by the way…you certainly are right. And yes, I have many artist's pictures …rubenesque and voluptuous was preferred at one time. Then entered Twiggy for me in the 60's and all those other artists were forgotten in my young mind….xox
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My formative years were the 60's. The first girl with whom I had sexual contact was tall and voluptuous. Most of the boys were intimidated by her overwhelming beauty and shyed away.
I know a number of men who regret not having been more insightful...they express, to me, their envy of my choices regarding ladies.
Trends come and go but curves are always desired. :rose::kiss:
 
gamegamale said:
My formative years were the 60's. The first girl with whom I had sexual contact was tall and voluptuous. Most of the boys were intimidated by her overwhelming beauty and shyed away.
I know a number of men who regret not having been more insightful...they express, to me, their envy of my choices regarding ladies.
Trends come and go but curves are always desired. :rose::kiss:
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Always good to hear you guys. Always.
I grew up very tall, thin in my younger years and grew more curvaceous after getting married. But I'm trying to figure out if I was shy or unapproachable because my entire life I've never been approached by a guy wanting sexual contact. Why is that? I'd love to go back and ask guys in my class what was it about me that kept them away. I know too that I was a tom boy and I so I'm sure I wore jeans a lot and shirts, but if I had my body now that I had then…GAWD I"D be ecstatic!

Sorry, I digressed there…I just love knowing still to this day that men like you hon like women with curves. I needed to hear it then and know it today.
 
blackhillsbbw said:
Always good to hear you guys. Always.
I grew up very tall, thin in my younger years and grew more curvaceous after getting married. But I'm trying to figure out if I was shy or unapproachable because my entire life I've never been approached by a guy wanting sexual contact. Why is that? I'd love to go back and ask guys in my class what was it about me that kept them away. I know too that I was a tom boy and I so I'm sure I wore jeans a lot and shirts, but if I had my body now that I had then…GAWD I"D be ecstatic!

Sorry, I digressed there…I just love knowing still to this day that men like you hon like women with curves. I needed to hear it then and know it today.
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Such coincidence. The very first girl I dated, in my very early teens, was "very tall, thin". She was a taller version of myself, skinny and bony. Some of the guys called her Olive Oil but I found her most appealing...she had such a caring, friendly smile. Being so young neither of us were astute as to the world of sex and fumbled our way abouts groping and fondling each other. Second base was about as far as we ever ventured.
Fast forward 10 years...I chanced seeing her at a movie theater, one evening. She had blossomed into the voluptuous, curvaceous beauty men dream about.
And she was on the arm of another, just a beautiful, woman.
It was such a joy to see her, once again.
 
I have always been curvy....even when younger...when I was smaller than I am now. Tits and ass and an hourglass figure.....yup, lots of guys making comments about my ass and sneaking a look at my cleavage. Always had to purchase the "curvy" style clothing. I don't care what anyone says, most men look at VS models and oh and ah over them but really want a larger woman when it comes to bedroom fun....you know all the phrases they say....lol!! I am pretty good with where my figure is now, I would only like to drop a size or 2 and just would like to tone it up a bit. The compliments and comments that come from everyone here at Lit go a long way to bolstering my confidence though...so thank you for that....:D
 
Jamicurechickie said:
I have always been curvy....even when younger...when I was smaller than I am now. Tits and ass and an hourglass figure.....yup, lots of guys making comments about my ass and sneaking a look at my cleavage. Always had to purchase the "curvy" style clothing. I don't care what anyone says, most men look at VS models and oh and ah over them but really want a larger woman when it comes to bedroom fun....you know all the phrases they say....lol!! I am pretty good with where my figure is now, I would only like to drop a size or 2 and just would like to tone it up a bit. The compliments and comments that come from everyone here at Lit go a long way to bolstering my confidence though...so thank you for that....:D
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So glad that you are a curvy confident lady... and happy with who you are... that is the most important thing... :rose::kiss::rose:

http://41.media.tumblr.com/95d7d401aeaf132b9cc6c2962cac58d6/tumblr_n7s5fnQPHQ1s4x2vwo1_500.png
 
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gamegamale said:
Such coincidence. The very first girl I dated, in my very early teens, was "very tall, thin". She was a taller version of myself, skinny and bony. Some of the guys called her Olive Oil but I found her most appealing...she had such a caring, friendly smile. Being so young neither of us were astute as to the world of sex and fumbled our way abouts groping and fondling each other. Second base was about as far as we ever ventured.
Fast forward 10 years...I chanced seeing her at a movie theater, one evening. She had blossomed into the voluptuous, curvaceous beauty men dream about.
And she was on the arm of another, just a beautiful, woman.
It was such a joy to see her, once again.
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So cool. I can hear the admiration in your typing here. I love that and love that it's genuine and you figured it out so early on...
 
Jamicurechickie said:
I have always been curvy....even when younger...when I was smaller than I am now. Tits and ass and an hourglass figure.....yup, lots of guys making comments about my ass and sneaking a look at my cleavage. Always had to purchase the "curvy" style clothing. I don't care what anyone says, most men look at VS models and oh and ah over them but really want a larger woman when it comes to bedroom fun....you know all the phrases they say....lol!! I am pretty good with where my figure is now, I would only like to drop a size or 2 and just would like to tone it up a bit. The compliments and comments that come from everyone here at Lit go a long way to bolstering my confidence though...so thank you for that....:D
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You are so confident…I hid mostly. Never show much off. Except here of course (online). lol
 
BBW's

I love Ladies with curves. I like to have something to grab onto. Skinny women just don't do it for me.
 
It's dangerous to generalize... but curvy women are almost always sexier.

They generally know what they like and what they need sexually (in my experience anyway).

:rose:
 
TurmoilSlider said:
It's dangerous to generalize... but curvy women are almost always sexier.

They generally know what they like and what they need sexually (in my experience anyway).

:rose:
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Damn straight we do!! I know what I want and don't want. I'm always glad that guys like that we know that.
 
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Giving it rough

I love sex but you guys know that about me. But I've formed a theory and thought I'd share it and ask your opinion.

I've watched some man porn lately. Some of you might be into that. I personally like to watch it. I am not even sure why. But one thing I have noticed, and I have grown curious about this and if this applies because I'm such a tomboy. But him in porn men go and it really hard. :D.

I realize they're just as passionate with each other as we are with the opposite sex however this is about going at it hard. I personally like it hard, in fact I love it. But some of the guys I've been with seem to have a hard time doing it hard with me some of them seem to hold out. Why is that, do you think, in your mind subconsciously do you think that women can't handle it? This could apply to the skinny, thin, who maybe you think will break and to the BBW who can maybe take more force.

I asked a guy friend of mine to find me links of a guy going at it as hard with the woman, as he found me of man porn. He thought he would have more difficulty finding videos of that. That is when it dawned on me that he's probably right. I don't see a lot of men going at it hard with the woman as they do with the man. And I like it hard. Don't give me wrong, I love it passionate, slow, steady. But I also like it hard to where I am drilled into a mattress. I ask an old lover of mine when he would do me doggy to go at it fast one time. I think he thought he was then, but it wasn't much different. He could just never do it.

Thoughts?
 
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blackhillsbbw said:
I live sex but you guys know that about me. But I've formed a theory and thought I'd share it and ask your opinion.

I've watched some man porn lately. Some of you might be into that. I personally like to watch it. I am not even sure why. But one thing I have noticed, and I have grown curious about this and if this applies because I'm such a tomboy. But him in porn men go and it really hard. :D.

I realize they're just as passionate with each other as we are with the opposite sex however this is about going at it hard. I personally like it hard, in fact I love it. But some of the guys I've been with seem to have a hard time doing it hard with me some of them seem to hold out. Why is that, do you think, in your mind subconsciously do you think that women can't handle it? This could apply to the skinny, thin, who maybe you think will break and to the BBW who can maybe take more force.

I asked a guy friend of mine to find me links of a guy going at it as hard with the woman, as he found me of man porn. He thought he would have more difficulty finding videos of that. That is when it dawned on me that he's probably right. I don't see a lot of men going at it hard with the woman as they do with the man. And I like it hard. Don't give me wrong, I love it passionate, slow, steady. But I also like it hard to where I am drilled into a mattress. I ask an old lover of mine when he would do me doggy to go at it fast one time. I think he thought he was then, but it wasn't much different. He could just never do it.

Thoughts?
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I never assume, always, ALWAYS, ask how my partner wants it, whether it's "tender love" or treat me like the whore I am.
 
blackhillsbbw said:
I love sex but you guys know that about me. But I've formed a theory and thought I'd share it and ask your opinion.

I've watched some man porn lately. Some of you might be into that. I personally like to watch it. I am not even sure why. But one thing I have noticed, and I have grown curious about this and if this applies because I'm such a tomboy. But him in porn men go and it really hard. :D.

I realize they're just as passionate with each other as we are with the opposite sex however this is about going at it hard. I personally like it hard, in fact I love it. But some of the guys I've been with seem to have a hard time doing it hard with me some of them seem to hold out. Why is that, do you think, in your mind subconsciously do you think that women can't handle it? This could apply to the skinny, thin, who maybe you think will break and to the BBW who can maybe take more force.

I asked a guy friend of mine to find me links of a guy going at it as hard with the woman, as he found me of man porn. He thought he would have more difficulty finding videos of that. That is when it dawned on me that he's probably right. I don't see a lot of men going at it hard with the woman as they do with the man. And I like it hard. Don't give me wrong, I love it passionate, slow, steady. But I also like it hard to where I am drilled into a mattress. I ask an old lover of mine when he would do me doggy to go at it fast one time. I think he thought he was then, but it wasn't much different. He could just never do it.

Thoughts?
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A man should get to know the woman, know her wants, her needs and her limits. And then he should get to know when she needs the passionate and when she needs good hard fucking. There is a time for slow and steady, but there is also a time for hard and deep.
 
blackhillsbbw said:
Well maybe it's me. When I ask and they step it up, it's not much different!! :(
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Have you seen men fight, I think men on men sex has something of the primal interplay of competition for supremacy, it's not to the death but it could be. With a woman, I think there must be something deep in our psyche that our mate is not to be damaged. Pure theory, but just a thought.
 
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