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Welcome back from vacation Dani. I think I've stated it before on here but I am ALL about the curves. I love big boobs and big butts and everything that goes with them! I have never been attracted to size 2 women. I hate that society makes women think they need to be small to be attractive. Not to knock the "skinny girls", but if you are tiny I may break you. Give me something to hold on to when we are cuddling says I!
 
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This kinda goes with BHB's rant and wondering if others share this irk with me. I luv nawty chat if done right but nothing is a bigger mood killer to me than chatting with someone who supposedly enjoys and likes our size, then comes off with some statement like "i scoop you up in my arms and carry you up stairs" or " throw you over my shoulder and walk away with you" I am all for my partners being strong and confident but come on like seriously I am a BIG n CURVY girl that aint gonna happen unless your green and have a real bad temper..lol

Just saying if you truely are into us BIG n CURVY girls you should realize the same shit that works on lil 5'4" 95lbs er's doesnt work with us so dont insult me by acting like its just something that does not have to be taken into consideration cuz trust me it does we have to consider our size daily, even the most confident of us think of it daily

Thank you to everyone here who gives us a place to vent and be amoung our own
Marie
 
blackhillsbbw said:
Possibly, you're right. But personally I don't think anyone below a size 22 should be considered BBW; plump yes, heavier yes, plus size yes. But not 'big--BBW. But that's me. I tried to find the thread. Can't. I suppose it's subjective (is that the term)? If we feel we're big and large in our heads; we must be?? I don't know. Just gets my dander up. Lol in case you couldn't tell. Lol
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As you stated before, a lot of it depends on size. You said that as a tall woman, if you were to get on all 4's a short guy might have a hard time finding his target. I'll take the opposite end of this. I am a short girl. So if I am riding him, and he isn't a toothpick, it is hard for me to ride him without literally standing on my feet to do so. I can't be on my knees and do this. If I do. It's a very short time cause it's not a deep enough penetration for either of us.

But.. as someone who is 4'11. A size 18, is big for me. I have gone from very over weight, to a little overweight and back again. at 4'11, I should not weigh what I do. However, I don't label myself as anything other then "too big for my size"

I get your frustrations though. It took me 2 years to lose 60#'s and only months to put it back on after the stress of finding out my Dad had cancer. I saw myself at many different sizes, but the bottom line is. I am me, no matter what size I am. The only one who has to look in the mirror every day is me. And if I am a size 18 or a size 2, I always found things I hated about myself. Always will. :rose:
 
I would like to say something profound about body image and all. Not really sure what I could say. I know my taste in body types has changed a lot the older I get. I enjoy the curves and all the different types of curves there are.
 
ibequus said:
Welcome back from vacation Dani. I think I've stated it before on here but I am ALL about the curves. I love big boobs and big butts and everything that goes with them! I have never been attracted to size 2 women. I hate that society makes women think they need to be small to be attractive. Not to knock the "skinny girls", but if you are tiny I may break you. Give me something to hold on to when we are cuddling says I!
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Yes, I hear many men say that about thinner women. I think my trouble domes from having viewed them through the fashion industry's eyes because all the fashions do look remarkable on a thin woman. I envy that soooo much. But in bed, I can imagine that a curvy, bigger woman is the way to go...:)
 
SassySheDevil said:
As you stated before, a lot of it depends on size. You said that as a tall woman, if you were to get on all 4's a short guy might have a hard time finding his target. I'll take the opposite end of this. I am a short girl. So if I am riding him, and he isn't a toothpick, it is hard for me to ride him without literally standing on my feet to do so. I can't be on my knees and do this. If I do. It's a very short time cause it's not a deep enough penetration for either of us.

But.. as someone who is 4'11. A size 18, is big for me. I have gone from very over weight, to a little overweight and back again. at 4'11, I should not weigh what I do. However, I don't label myself as anything other then "too big for my size"

I get your frustrations though. It took me 2 years to lose 60#'s and only months to put it back on after the stress of finding out my Dad had cancer. I saw myself at many different sizes, but the bottom line is. I am me, no matter what size I am. The only one who has to look in the mirror every day is me. And if I am a size 18 or a size 2, I always found things I hated about myself. Always will. :rose:
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Bravo! Well said.
It does make a difference height wise, i know that. I also know that what takes a couple years to get off goes right back on in a couple months. What's with that!! UGH:eek:

And you know, once when i had lost about 50 pounds myself and I was walking in front of some store front windows, I saw the old me. I didn't see the loss of 50 pounds, but I saw that it was enough. It was like I had never lost it and was still seeing myself. I know, without a doubt that its what inside of us, but it's taken me 40 some years to come to this point. Do you think younger children today are more adjusted and see it like it should be? Or is it worse for them?
 
nakedplay said:
I would like to say something profound about body image and all. Not really sure what I could say. I know my taste in body types has changed a lot the older I get. I enjoy the curves and all the different types of curves there are.
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So nice to hear.
You guys have been done a injustice. I think men, at least many of the ones I've met, are SOOooooo accepting and loving regardless of body types. Why I can't grab ahold of that is beyond me. I seem to always think that it can't be true, that you're crazy. lol
 
blackhillsbbw said:
So nice to hear.
You guys have been done a injustice. I think men, at least many of the ones I've met, are SOOooooo accepting and loving regardless of body types. Why I can't grab ahold of that is beyond me. I seem to always think that it can't be true, that you're crazy. lol
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You know, many of us men love all body types. I know I do!!!! But I must say, a lady with curves always captures my attention
 
Here's the other side of that that I discovered when losing weight. Even skinny, I was always very large chested and had back problems. As I Started gaining weight, my back hurt less and I justified the weight gain with that. "hey, at least my back doesn't hurt as much" :rolleyes:

But when I lost the weight, I still saw the fat girl, just as you said and even at that 60# loss, when I had people telling me that my face was looking too thin and it was time to stop, I still saw the fat girl. The girl with the extra pudge here, and there. I'm not sure where i would have stopped. Each size I went down. I kept saying "ok, just one more, then I'll be happy" But I never was.
But the one thing I HATED and maybe is why I haven't tried harder to lose it again was that I saw the change in how people treated me.

I had guys staring at my tits again instead of my eyes, I had guys talking to me that never talked to me when I was heavy. I even had a guy come up to me at the grocery store in the parking lot and ask to take my cart in for me while staring at my chest. When I politely said thank you, I watched him walk it over to a cart return, shove it in there and walk to his car, never taking his eyes off me.
That never happened when I was heavy. :rolleyes:

So some of me was angry and bitter because I had lost the confidence in why people liked me. When I was heavy, I knew people liked me for me. When I was skinny, they didn't even care to get to know me, they just wanted to stare at my tits. :mad:

Inside me, is happy with the weight. Outside me that looks in the mirror, hates it.. I'll never win. :(
 
SassySheDevil said:
Here's the other side of that that I discovered when losing weight. Even skinny, I was always very large chested and had back problems. As I Started gaining weight, my back hurt less and I justified the weight gain with that. "hey, at least my back doesn't hurt as much" :rolleyes:

But when I lost the weight, I still saw the fat girl, just as you said and even at that 60# loss, when I had people telling me that my face was looking too thin and it was time to stop, I still saw the fat girl. The girl with the extra pudge here, and there. I'm not sure where i would have stopped. Each size I went down. I kept saying "ok, just one more, then I'll be happy" But I never was.
But the one thing I HATED and maybe is why I haven't tried harder to lose it again was that I saw the change in how people treated me.

I had guys staring at my tits again instead of my eyes, I had guys talking to me that never talked to me when I was heavy. I even had a guy come up to me at the grocery store in the parking lot and ask to take my cart in for me while staring at my chest. When I politely said thank you, I watched him walk it over to a cart return, shove it in there and walk to his car, never taking his eyes off me.
That never happened when I was heavy. :rolleyes:

So some of me was angry and bitter because I had lost the confidence in why people liked me. When I was heavy, I knew people liked me for me. When I was skinny, they didn't even care to get to know me, they just wanted to stare at my tits. :mad:

Inside me, is happy with the weight. Outside me that looks in the mirror, hates it.. I'll never win. :(
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Darlin' you are beautiful no matter what!!!! I would be all over you like white on rice if I saw you out and about. Although I still might be looking at your chest.;)
 
jasonmason said:
Darlin' you are beautiful no matter what!!!! I would be all over you like white on rice if I saw you out and about. Although I still might be looking at your chest.;)
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Everyday me doesn't run around naked though lol and Lit me can hide the flaws and imperfections and only post the ones I like. ;)

I think only two people from Lit have ever seen me on cam, there it's harder to hide the flaws.
But thank you.
 
SassySheDevil said:
Here's the other side of that that I discovered when losing weight. Even skinny, I was always very large chested and had back problems. As I Started gaining weight, my back hurt less and I justified the weight gain with that. "hey, at least my back doesn't hurt as much" :rolleyes:

But when I lost the weight, I still saw the fat girl, just as you said and even at that 60# loss, when I had people telling me that my face was looking too thin and it was time to stop, I still saw the fat girl. The girl with the extra pudge here, and there. I'm not sure where i would have stopped. Each size I went down. I kept saying "ok, just one more, then I'll be happy" But I never was.
But the one thing I HATED and maybe is why I haven't tried harder to lose it again was that I saw the change in how people treated me.

I had guys staring at my tits again instead of my eyes, I had guys talking to me that never talked to me when I was heavy. I even had a guy come up to me at the grocery store in the parking lot and ask to take my cart in for me while staring at my chest. When I politely said thank you, I watched him walk it over to a cart return, shove it in there and walk to his car, never taking his eyes off me.
That never happened when I was heavy. :rolleyes:

So some of me was angry and bitter because I had lost the confidence in why people liked me. When I was heavy, I knew people liked me for me. When I was skinny, they didn't even care to get to know me, they just wanted to stare at my tits. :mad:

Inside me, is happy with the weight. Outside me that looks in the mirror, hates it.. I'll never win. :(
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Thank you!!
I think we all share these thoughts and you wrote them so well.

I hate sounding like a broken record, but i made this thread for that reason. And I appreciate other gals here that share because they can relate to what I'm saying. It's important for me to talk about it for some reason. I love to hear other's thoughts; men or women.

I understand what you are saying too. I cannot relate to a weight loss as it's been many years now. But i do hate that about men too…you know the majority respond to thinner women or at least I feel that. I think I regret that I've never had anyone come onto me or approach me…it's taken being online to make that happen. :(

But i've come a VERY long way…from camming in the early 2000's and only showing my tits and pussy to showing all of me now. That is huge for me. One thing for sure is when i get in the bedroom, i'm thin like I in my head. I don't care. I love sex so much and I know the friend is there too because he wants it with ME. That is huge too, and so there are no hang-ups and no problems. I know he wants to be with me and he's seen me…he's not seeing a skinny image of me that I have in my head. Then if a guy praises me and truly likes what he's feeling and experiencing….LOOK OUT! lol He'll never be the same!! ;)
 
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I'm not sure if my comfort in my sexuality came from getting older, or just trying to find things to appreciate about myself since I didn't feel I had the "looks" to offer someone.
But I am so freaking open it's ridiculous. I love being sexual. I have no qualms in talking about my toys, masturbation, things I like and don't like. I'll try almost anything once and I love to learn new things. There is no such thing as too old to learn. Want to teach me something, please do!! Throw me around, yes please, you wont break me. :D
I think as I gained the weight, I just learned to offer more of myself to make up for what I felt I couldn't.
 
blackhillsbbw said:
Thank you!!
I think we all share these thoughts and you wrote them so well.

I hate sounding like a broken record, but i made this thread for that reason. And I appreciate other gals here that share because they can relate to what I'm saying. It's important for me to talk about it for some reason. I love to hear other's thoughts; men or women.

I understand what you are saying too. I cannot relate to a weight loss as it's been many years now. But i do hate that about men too…you know the majority respond to thinner women or at least I feel that. I think I regret that I've never had anyone come onto me or approach me…it's taken being online to make that happen. :(

But i've come a VERY long way…from camming in the early 2000's and only showing my tits and pussy to showing all of me now. That is huge for me. One thing for sure is when i get in the bedroom, i'm thin like I in my head. I don't care. I love sex so much and I know the friend is there too because he wants it with ME. That is huge too, and so there are no hang-ups and no problems. I know he wants to be with me and he's seen me…he's not seeing a skinny image of me that I have in my head. Then if a guy praises me and truly likes what he's feeling and experiencing….LOOK OUT! lol He'll never be the same!! ;)
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Well said!! Be yourself and enjoy life. Life is too short not to. :rose::rose::kiss:
 
SassySheDevil said:
I'm not sure if my comfort in my sexuality came from getting older, or just trying to find things to appreciate about myself since I didn't feel I had the "looks" to offer someone.
But I am so freaking open it's ridiculous. I love being sexual. I have no qualms in talking about my toys, masturbation, things I like and don't like. I'll try almost anything once and I love to learn new things. There is no such thing as too old to learn. Want to teach me something, please do!! Throw me around, yes please, you wont break me. :D
I think as I gained the weight, I just learned to offer more of myself to make up for what I felt I couldn't.
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Well said!! Yup, that is exactly how it is and should be. Regardless of age…I'm heading into my golden years and I love SEX…I can't say enough about it. I think i'm going to start a non-profit and talk to all the women out there (wives especially) and tell them they need to fix it! ;)

Night and thanks for sharing again. I love messages from the heart.
 
blackhillsbbw said:
Yes, I hear many men say that about thinner women. I think my trouble domes from having viewed them through the fashion industry's eyes because all the fashions do look remarkable on a thin woman. I envy that soooo much. But in bed, I can imagine that a curvy, bigger woman is the way to go...:)
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I hate to disagree with you but I'm going to. My wife is a bbw and she looks AMAZING in whatever she wears. The way she puts together her outfits accentuates all her curves and she is constantly getting hit on. I really think it's all in how you feel about you and how you carry yourself.
 
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