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BDSM age 18-25?

I'm 26 and my sub is 24. I do not think it would be to hard to find someone around your age interested in a D/s relationship. You just have to keep in mind that some may just want to test out the lifestyle first instead of wanting a 24/7, it's all about finding someone interested in the same things you are.
 
well I discivered my dominant tendensies when I was around 21 together with my then girlfriend and now I am 27 and there is alot of submissive girls around 20-24 that I met here in sweden and other places all over europe :)
 
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I am 18 and my boyfriend of over 4 years and I have activily been living a sub/dom lifestyle. We got more active about it about 2 years ago, and have recently been more active in the switch lifestyle, because I get off better with him dom.

I do feel as if my age group isn't as involved with the lifestyle. Or at least open about it. *shrugs* I have no problem talking and acting with older couples.
 
I'm 18 and I consider myself a switch. I'd probably like being dominant but I'm far more comfortable being told what to do. But it could be argued that our age group isn't really involved in BDSM. It's a shame our peers are hesitant to explore, but what can you do?
 
The lady and I are in the same age bracket. I should note we're not full time sub/dom, but we've been spending more time lately with that than anything else. That said, I've been dom a few times but she prefers to be dom just because my reactions to everything push her to keep going and really turn her on. She's even admitted to enjoying the pain I receive sometimes (nothing serious, but things like pinching, ball slapping, and the penis pump really get her going).
 
19/F/Switch

Ive been active in it since i was about 17.
when my boyfriend found out I like pain.
weve been together for six years now.
we are very active in it.
and we have a good bit of friends who enjoy some similar things, but not all.
 
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If you're in jersey I can not explain the PLEOTHERA of younger folks there are. You should come to triad, which i this upcoming monday in Edison near the junction of rt1 and 287, or the Jersey Rope Experement, which was NEARLY all TNG (the next generation) aged folks, or the NJ Kink munch in east brunswick.

I'm 25, a LARGE portion of my friends are kinky and are in their 20 or 30's. Heck even the older ones are very spirited and wacky and pretty current with the times.

NJ is no longer lacking a scene. I promise. We may not have play parties or clubs, but we host TESfest, The Floating World, and WinterSolstice (this year) and we've got a TON of munches, at least 5 a month, 2 of which boast a fairly young or exuberant crowd.

Also if you live near NYC (instead of south jersey) There's the Tribe parties, Impact and Suspension which boast a younger crowd, and there's NYC TNG, which is pretty huge, the fetlife group has over 500 members. They are a pretty awesome group. they will sometimes have a meet up before a tribe party too.

If you're on the philly end of the state, Philly also has a TNG group. I know less about them but last I heard they were meeting up nearly monthly I tink at the spaghetii factory in philly.

you're not in bumble minnesota, there's tons more folks out there your age into this stuff.
 
I am 23, have known about the "lifestyle" for years, but have had little RL experience. I've had Dominant tendacies since the earliest blushes of relationships back into grade school, but never really knew there was a name or even a community for it. Most of my ex's have been vanilla, with the exception of a few kinky explorations, but finding a submissive around my age who's interested in pursuing a serious relationship can prove very challenging.
I am still basically "closeted", as none of my local friends have any idea when I talk about meeting a girl, I'm imagining thorough training regiments, and how I'm going to find a big enough cage :D. Though it's usually LE and the the wonderful people of the boards that make me feel less like a perverted alien in society and more like there's somewhere I belong. So thanks everybody, even if we've never spoken, you just existing in such great numbers, can really give a guy hope. :)
 
19 dom and no sub's atm. Just starting out I guess. So I still got a little to learn ;)
 
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22, looking into BDSM as a male switch. I'm not into sadomasochism, just dominance and bondage. I currently have no partner and have not tried this before outside of cyberspace.

Apparently there's a rather large group around where I'm from, in the SF Bay Area.

Shout out to all my California fellows of similar interests! especially if you happen to be in the Berkeley area ;)
 
im an 18 year old dom and a sadist. i think alot of people in this age group are just bdsmcurious for lack of a better word. its one thing to fantasize about it, but to actually control and in some cases hurt someone is a completely different thing.
 
Include me please.

I am 24 and submissive. I guess nearing the edge of your age range...
 
I'm 24 now, knew that I was into BDSM when I was 18, but I've been into BDSM since I was 13 watching Disney's Alladin (That scene where Jasmine is chained up did it to me.) I had a few online sub/slaves and had fantasies about dominating girls n'stuff but I never found a girl irl who would admit to being into that (well, no girls who didn't weigh more than I did.) Then one summer I started to get more confident. I lost a lot of weight, worked on my social skills (read: not sucking in public), and got the right attitude. She was working at the bar on an island I was vacationing at and we hit it off right away. After a few days we hooked up at this guy's place on the beach and I had her over my lap and spanked her until she came. She was sopping wet when I finally gave her permission to cum and held her hands tightly behind her back as I slapped her ass red and flicked her clit. I'll never forget how she shuddered and ground herself into me after each slap. She came a dozen times that night as I dominated her and 'forced' her to serve out my fantasies. After a few rounds the other dude and I DP'd her while she rode out wave after wave of delicious orgasms. We invaded all her holes, then the other guy left and I just kept fucking her. When I couldn't fuck her anymore I'd tie her open and finger her while I spanked and slapped all the fleshy, sensitive parts that were exposed for my use. We fell asleep together and she said "Thank you, Master" just before passing out. I woke up to her sucking my cock in the morning.

Unfortunately it was not meant to be, and we had to part ways. My sexuality isn't the most important thing in my life so I don't make major decisions based on it. My luck so far has come from finding girls who share other interests and then making BDSM a part of our sex life. Still, I've never been able to live out my fantasies like I did with her, but hey, I'm still young. It's a magical world, Hobbes ol' buddy. Lets go exploring!
 
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I'm 24 now, knew that I was into BDSM when I was 18, but I've been into BDSM since I was 13 watching Disney's Alladin (That scene where Jasmine is chained up did it to me.) I had a few online sub/slaves and had fantasies about dominating girls n'stuff but I never found a girl irl who would admit to being into that (well, no girls who didn't weigh more than I did.) Then one summer I started to get more confident. I lost a lot of weight, worked on my social skills (read: not sucking in public), and got the right attitude. She was working at the bar on an island I was vacationing at and we hit it off right away. After a few days we hooked up at this guy's place on the beach and I had her over my lap and spanked her until she came. She was sopping wet when I finally gave her permission to cum and held her hands tightly behind her back as I slapped her ass red and flicked her clit. I'll never forget how she shuddered and ground herself into me after each slap. She came a dozen times that night as I dominated her and 'forced' her to serve out my fantasies. After a few rounds the other dude and I DP'd her while she rode out wave after wave of delicious orgasms. We invaded all her holes, then the other guy left and I just kept fucking her. When I couldn't fuck her anymore I'd tie her open and finger her while I spanked and slapped all the fleshy, sensitive parts that were exposed for my use. We fell asleep together and she said "Thank you, Master" just before passing out. I woke up to her sucking my cock in the morning.

Unfortunately it was not meant to be, and we had to part ways. My sexuality isn't the most important thing in my life so I don't make major decisions based on it. My luck so far has come from finding girls who share other interests and then making BDSM a part of our sex life. Still, I've never been able to live out my fantasies like I did with her, but hey, I'm still young. It's a magical world, Hobbes ol' buddy. Lets go exploring!
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that could be one of the sexiest stories ever. It would be so nice to have some one just KNOW what i want and my desires. Well good thing i do, but still...very sexy
 
Making myself known

I'm 19 and my D is 21.
I've been interested in bdsm for years, but didn't get the balls to try it until I hit 18, though.
Obviously we've stuck with it. ;)
 
im a 19 year old sub, and ive been doing dirty kinky shit for over a year. not that long, but long enough for me to know what im doing ;) lol
 
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