BDSM age 18-25?

[Washingtonapple]

Horny!

I'm a 22 male sub in Washington I'm ok with a lot of things girls or guys pm me

 

[paige18]

18 female and love to be tied up,used,left and helpless
i dont know anyone else my age thats into it though ..

 

[Switchcraft]

I'm 28 and a switch in my personal life but I have been a professional dominatrix for the last 2 1/2 years. I saw a documentary about a house of domination in Manhattan when I was 14 and knew from that moment that I wanted to be a dominatrix. I’ve spent the rest of my life getting old enough to be taken seriously in the profession!

 

[an_angels_wings]

I'm a 23 year old female who has always been intrigued by the BDSM lifestyle. I'm into a little bit of pain, and mostly in being submissive. Not in the sense of "beat me now, please" but in the way a Dom lovingly cares for his sub and protects her, and the sub does whatever she can to please her Dom.

I don't even know if that made sense or got my point across ... but I think I believe the same thing as one of the gentlemen on page 2 ... there's more to it than someone just wanting someone to smack around, etc., and people that are into being smacked around.

 

[jedihibbler]

I am 18 and my baby is 25. It helps a lot that I am in the military, but still the age difference poses problems sometimes. I don't have a lot of the life experience that she does, so I find myself asking her about many things first. Yet, even with that, I am still the one that is in control and makes all the decisions. She trusts me to make them more than she does myself and it seems to work out very well. She has food to cook for me, flour to bake delicious things, and we have a roof over our heads, so I must be doing something right.

 

[Light Ice]

I encourage all the young ladies out there to understand that while it is romantic to hope for a man that will automatically know your wants and needs it's also highly unrealistic. If you'd like a man to meet those wants and needs and treat you the way you need to be treated then you'll have to work on being able to openly discuss it.

 

[serendipitous2]

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[MzChrista]

I'm 28 and a switch in my personal life but I have been a professional dominatrix for the last 2 1/2 years. I saw a documentary about a house of domination in Manhattan when I was 14 and knew from that moment that I wanted to be a dominatrix. I’ve spent the rest of my life getting old enough to be taken seriously in the profession!

Its tough when you are young. People assume you dont know the ropes (haha). I started when I was in college, so Im with you there. Just remember, most of those that started older are wishing they had gotten into it when they were younger.

 

[MzChrista]

I'm going to go out on a limb and say that younger people are only beginning to explore their sexuality and therefore not entirely too sure of themselves. In addition to immaturity, starting out an independent life, and "finding themselves," actively pursuing this lifestyle doesn't necessarily fit. It can also be dangerous. (This is where online relationships become popular.)

Personally, I think I lucked out. I met an experienced man who took care of me and introduced me to the lifestyle. I have found that most people in our local scene are maybe twice or three times my age. I have yet to find anyone younger. And quite frankly, I wouldn't trust them to give or take from me what I want.

But I'm only 18. What do I know!

Well I also think, with all due props to younger folks, that as you get older it is easier to think "fuck it, this i what Im like and Im cool with it", where as when you are younger you are often more timid about admitting that you arent Nick or Nancy Normal.

 

[MichaelWest]

I am nearing 40 so I suppose I fall between the youngsters and the oldsters.

I was in college when the internet became the web, so I lacked the window on the world that now must make it easier to educate oneself, for that I envy those that are young and kinky now. I had my proclivity for dominance and bondage and so forth early, but had no context. In college I read the psychology texts which did little to encourage thoughts of normalcy but at least gave neat labels. I didn't discover the munches and such until I was nearly 30 and once I had the security of maturity and became open about who I was I found others similar to me and met my wife who is a submissive masochist, a perfect match.

I tell that story to comment thus, it seems that BDSM, by virtue of the information explosion, like sexuality generally, is becoming more accessible at an earlier age, so it seems natural that where older generations found it harder to learn about earlier, the younger generation is and allowing for maturity in sexual expression, therefore it makes sence that the 18-35 folks are joining the ranks in what appears a larger number than might have been assumed just a few years ago.

 

[Black_Lace]

I'm a 20 year old female submissive and have been exploring for quite a few years.

Although I have acted as a domme, Ive found that my tendencies lie on the submissive side.

 

[Soumis]

24 y/o

I discovered the lifestyle when I was 17. Showed up at my first much within a month of my 18th birthday. Been practicing in real life since. I found it easier to trust people in the beginning in a group setting where reputations were known and people looked after one another.

I've been a member of traditional groups as well as TNG/youth oriented ones. I find the "regular" groups more appealing personally. I feel like there is more experience and less of a hook up environment in traditional groups. It's easier for me to trust someone who has been practicing for a decade than one who is indulging a porn induced whim. I realize not all younger folk are that way, but that's just how I feel about it.

At this point I find nothing appealing about a strictly online relationship.

 

[Dominique1]

I'm 23, but I'm not very active in the BDSM scene. I'm waiting to find the right person to share my interests with.

 

[ChariesSlave]

I am 22 years old and my mistress is 20 years old. She also posts here, and her name is MistressCharie.

 

[ethan1066]

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i am 25 years old and i am involved in this..my slave is 19 years

 

[cynthiadeca]

I am 21 and I have been interested in having a D/s relationship for at least five years. I haven't had one yet, but I will.

 

[NekoMimi]

Not that I'm actively looking for people, but i feel as though this lifestyle is extremely rare for people in that age range. Is it just me? Speak up if your one of them hehe

i am one i am a sub female just turned 18

 

[Kikori]

I'm 20. Recently found out my title would be a "Service Top"

 

[ericsquare]

So I'm almost always up all night just looking for some hip people that are in the same boat and wanna chat on msn messenger to kill the boredom together. I'm 27 m ny Indie rock style...any cool girls around perhaps?
My msn is mickeymcmockin@yahoo.com feel free to add me and say hi

I'm into being dominant but nothing too intense and I've only tried a few times

 

[Xelebes]

Man, I remember posting in this forum when I was 18. I'm still under 25 (turning 25 in two weeks) and I have yet to honestly have some honest experience with BDSM other than stuff I do with myself. But as far as I understand, I have a few things going against me partaking in this stuff so I guess I'm trying to be patient.

*shrug*

 

[Xelebes]

So I'm almost always up all night just looking for some hip people that are in the same boat and wanna chat on msn messenger to kill the boredom together. I'm 27 m ny Indie rock style...any cool girls around perhaps?
My msn is [email]notgunnapaste@nuhuh.com[/email] feel free to add me and say hi

I'm into being dominant but nothing too intense and I've only tried a few times

Just going to remind you that you might want to remove your msn from there. You don't want spammers. Give it out as invites to only those who you have talked to.

 

[Here_and_Now]

Just felt I should mention myself here

I'm a 19 year old straight male Dom, had a few small experiences with my last relationship.

I've been interested in the bondage/domination aspect of things for a few years now, and would love to explore things more if I found the right girl.

I live in Australia too, which is unfortunately far too restrictive sometimes.

But that's ok, I'm willing to be patient until I find someone I can explore with. Until then on-line fantasies will have to do.

Hence why I am here, the writing and stories are amazing

 

[lucifel]

I'm currently 18 (female) and somewhat exploring, though, I mainly have submissive?/bottom tendencies (of the bondage, discipline variety).

I think my first "awakening" of a BDSM nature was I remember one time I was watching an episode of Walker, Texas Ranger when I was really young (maybe 10ish?), and the female lead in that episode was captured and was tied to a bed by the bad guy. (I don't even remember if he wanted her sexually...) But I remember being excited in a way I've never felt before and imagining myself as her.

From there on, I was somewhat fascinated with the thought of being restrained and having a man do things to me forcefully. (Even if I didn't know what those "things" were.) It wasn't until much later when I found out what sex and what BDSM was.

I think the reason why there probably aren't as many young people into BDSM is because we're relatively inexperienced and are unsure or just in hiding. I have a hard time identifying myself as a sub, especially since I'm a virgin. I don't know if I would like it in person. Certainly, I get excited by the thought of it, and I've tried a bit by myself, but there's a big difference between thinking about it and actually doing it.

I live in the SoCal area, and I believe there's a big "scene" life here, but I'm still much too afraid to actually check it out. I'm a bit romantic, and keep hoping my first time will be with a dominant man who I will spend the rest of my life with, but I don't know anymore. And from what I can tell so far, a lot of people seem not to be looking for a long-term relationship. (But this only the impression I'm getting.)

 

[tmock]

Bow wow wow

 

[missgiter]

I'm 26. Still learning, very interested. You're not alone.

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