BDSM age 18-25?

[Yttac93]

I'm a 19 year old sub, and I've been doing it for about 3-4 years now... Only recently started finding good, satisfying doms though.

 

[wantedwanted]

I'm 23 and interested in the lifestyle, need to find a partner

 

[molly113]

I'm only 23 as well. I look at it as a plus because I am much more attracted to men over 30-35

 

[Ropebunny]

I'm a 21 y/o f bottom in a relationship with a 24 y/o m top. We've been experimenting with some elements of BDSM for a few years but have just recently added some more D/S which we are both enjoying I've been lurking here for about two months so fingers crossed my courage remains and I post more often.

 

[hanesabc]

23 year old guy here. Very interested in the whole dom/sub experience.

 

[toxic_pancake]

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[TerraMartin79]

I'm definitely into the lifestyle, 21 and a switch

 

[Pelagie]

I'm 30, not sure how I let that happen. I'm submissive and pretty much always have been. I really got into the 'lifestyle' (hate that expression) in my late teens. When I was younger, I knew what I liked sexually but lacked the confidence and vocabulary to just say it. I feel more confident and comfortable withy submission than I did 10 years ago.

 

[Submissive_Deni]

23 Here

Well, I will be 24 next Thursday, but I am holding on to my youth as much as I can.

I have been exploring this lifestyle for about a year, although only truly active for a few months. I love it, and I hope it remains a part of me for the rest of my life.

 

[emsub124]

19 :d

I ran into BDSM at the young age of 14. I've been stuck on it ever since I'm 19 now. However due to the fact that I am currently in college and don't want rumors running around that I'm super kinky (due to hopefully applying for jobs in the future). I try to fulfill my needs through online relationships. but do hope to one day go real life.

 

[allicat93]

I'm 18 & interested in lifestyle

 

[SexKitten909]

I'm 24 now, knew that I was into BDSM when I was 18, but I've been into BDSM since I was 13 watching Disney's Alladin (That scene where Jasmine is chained up did it to me.) I had a few online sub/slaves and had fantasies about dominating girls n'stuff but I never found a girl irl who would admit to being into that (well, no girls who didn't weigh more than I did.) Then one summer I started to get more confident. I lost a lot of weight, worked on my social skills (read: not sucking in public), and got the right attitude. She was working at the bar on an island I was vacationing at and we hit it off right away. After a few days we hooked up at this guy's place on the beach and I had her over my lap and spanked her until she came. She was sopping wet when I finally gave her permission to cum and held her hands tightly behind her back as I slapped her ass red and flicked her clit. I'll never forget how she shuddered and ground herself into me after each slap. She came a dozen times that night as I dominated her and 'forced' her to serve out my fantasies. After a few rounds the other dude and I DP'd her while she rode out wave after wave of delicious orgasms. We invaded all her holes, then the other guy left and I just kept fucking her. When I couldn't fuck her anymore I'd tie her open and finger her while I spanked and slapped all the fleshy, sensitive parts that were exposed for my use. We fell asleep together and she said "Thank you, Master" just before passing out. I woke up to her sucking my cock in the morning.

Unfortunately it was not meant to be, and we had to part ways. My sexuality isn't the most important thing in my life so I don't make major decisions based on it. My luck so far has come from finding girls who share other interests and then making BDSM a part of our sex life. Still, I've never been able to live out my fantasies like I did with her, but hey, I'm still young. It's a magical world, Hobbes ol' buddy. Lets go exploring!

I know the feeling of the Aladdin scene. I'm sure I viewed it differently, seeing as I'm quite submissive, but still. Anyways, this is a lovely post. Thought I'd let you know.

 

[fides1138]

I knew I was into BDSM around 13-14 years old. 22/m switch although mostly submissive. Quite difficult to find someone compatible

 

[Ksols7]

23f here, it is fairly difficult finding others interested in my area around my age :/

 

[LadyVamp138]

20 year old female submissive here. I can't help what I like and perhaps it is a generation thing but I do enjoy it. =)

 

[Miss_Jenni]

youth

I'm 26 and my Dom is 18 and he has the expertise to control my needs more than any other man before him

 

[NaughtyRedSiren]

I understand the frustrations! Im a 28/f/Sub now but started to explore my interests in bdsm at the sweet age of 18. To be honest, I feel more ready for the full time lifestyle now in my older 20's. There is so much out there to explore and try and now I'm glad I waited. The only thing I guess I regret is the fact that I don't have a full time Dom due to travel restrictions.
Just try to keep an open mind and if you don't have anyone... keep a look out because you just never know

 

[Beck31]

ages

Not sure age has much to do with it. Without bieng specific both my Mistress and I are over the age of twenty-five. Granted I am still a new sub and she has been in the Lifestyle a lot longer than I have been. In regards to travel restrictions I luckily have the advantage of showing up and vice versa. I even wonder if there are subsets with specific age groups and or limitations.

 

[SkylarFalling]

Not that I'm actively looking for people, but i feel as though this lifestyle is extremely rare for people in that age range. Is it just me? Speak up if your one of them hehe

I know how you feel. Me and my boyfriend have been into it since probably sixteen, but that's not saying a lot as I'm only just 18 and him 19 now.
Eventually I got sick of having no one my own age to chat to about it (it's hardly something you bring up in the lunch queue at college) and came here.

 

[bs20sa20]

I'm a 22 year old male switch from London.

I'm testing the water with a picture thread if any of you are interested...

http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=820884

 

[Neato_Bandito]

24 and seeking a female sub, but it's just so difficult, not just for the age range but also in terms of trust. I was treated to the lifestyle inadvertantly in my late teens and grew into a more active role as of my last longterm relationship. After career paths took us in separate directions a couple years ago and I had a chance to grow off on my own, I honestly cannot see myself engaging in intimacy without the lifestyle being involved to a significant extent.

And it's not just misplaced frustration or even an unresolved emotional imprint left by a significant figure of my intimate life, there's just something about the trust and communication that must be exchanged between both active participants that I cannot find in traditional relationships. It's as though everyone is so scared of being themselves around potential love interests and worried so much about tertiary variables that they are blinded. I've had more meaningful and loving encounters with women (and men if she's open to that sort of arrangement) who are willing to be vulnerable and open about who they are.

I want someone I can share this with and explore new avenues together.

 

[Aurantica]

I'm in my early 20's, sub and I dont know if I want to break into the lifestyle scene yet. I definitely need a kinky man in my life, though I'm thinking I'll wait awhile before getting hitched. That being said, I'm certainly looking forwards to exploring!