miss_inquisitive
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BDSM and Your Life - Level of Importance
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I have been married for 20 years to my Master. I never knew how He always wanted a submissive wife. Now that we have discovered BDSM it has become a 24/7 living arrangement. It flows into everything we do. We listen to each other. But, He is in charge at ALL times. I have no problem with this. I would have to say that BDSM takes priority in all aspects of our lives. I never realized until He started training me how badly I needed and wanted to be controlled. The control seaMaster has over me is incredible and I love it. My life goals have become more focused because so much garbage and stress has been removed from my life. Of course, I am now more focused on sex. I get edgy if I dont get it every day. Oh well. life of a submissive. slave c
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An Ebb and Flow...
Most of my experience, quite honestly, has been as a bottom rather than a submissive in the traditional D/s definitions, which is not to imply I've not felt submissive within the context of play. From time to time, I have felt myself fall into a submissive head-space in a non-sexual circumstance, indeed desired to be of non-sexual "service." That said, BDSM seems to ebb and flow in both importance and opportunity in my life, if even I do tend to play rather hard when it flows. When the ebb extends over a period of time, perhaps months, I do tend to become rather cranky. In the same breath, I concede there are times when the opportunity is there but the workday, the commute, family illnesses, etc., leave me with absolutely no desire to participate in such things. Suffice to say, I doubt I would ever be a candidate for a 365/24/7 relationship.
miss_inquisitive said:
Most of my experience, quite honestly, has been as a bottom rather than a submissive in the traditional D/s definitions, which is not to imply I've not felt submissive within the context of play. From time to time, I have felt myself fall into a submissive head-space in a non-sexual circumstance, indeed desired to be of non-sexual "service." That said, BDSM seems to ebb and flow in both importance and opportunity in my life, if even I do tend to play rather hard when it flows. When the ebb extends over a period of time, perhaps months, I do tend to become rather cranky. In the same breath, I concede there are times when the opportunity is there but the workday, the commute, family illnesses, etc., leave me with absolutely no desire to participate in such things. Suffice to say, I doubt I would ever be a candidate for a 365/24/7 relationship.
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