Do Family, Friends, Co-Workers know you're into BDSM?

[zcraft5]

I was wondering if anyone close to you knows that you are into bdsm? How did they find out? Do you share your experiences with them?

Once upon a time I was at a convention with a female business associate who happens to be vanilla in nature. Somehow the topic of handcuffs with sex came up and she asked me if I ever did that? Then I shared with her my life as a domme. I told her about a few of my subs who are into it. We then talked and joked about some of the stories I shared.

Kindly feel free to share yours.

no no one knows of my bdsm

 

[nothingatall27]

no no one knows of my bdsm

We know

 

[zcraft5]

We know

we know



.is this a good thing

 

[Eyelevel]

we know



.is this a good thing

Some say yes and some would say no. Here yes.

 

[nothingatall27]

we know



.is this a good thing

It's hot that you have that adventurous side and nice that you have a safe place to discuss it.

 

[Jerryteroga]

As far as i know just my neigbors and my wifes sister because she told them and now it feels akward around them

 

[shewantsmore]

Some know yes my coworkers have no idea.

 

[Playwithmee]

They don’t. I love everyone thinking I’m the perfect gentleman in public, only to be a kinky fuck in private.

 

[nutoseen]

MIL knows i like her knowing i have small penis and she brings it up at least once every time we visit. love her control. gets me riled.

 

[lucy__b]

Only my best friend knows

 

[Boat1]

I think my captain knows, as all of my internet is running through his WiFi/router, but I'm fine with that, as we're as close as brothers on a personal level.

 

[lisaharlot]

Friends yes, but not all of them. Family and co-workers no. Although, I think sex and kink positive people do give off a certain vibe that lets people know they’re GGG even if the specifics are somewhat vague.

 

[Boat1]

Friends yes, but not all of them. Family and co-workers no. Although, I think sex and kink positive people do give off a certain vibe that lets people know they GGG even if the specifics are somewhat vague.

I agree! It "shows up" in the pheromone cloud and is palpable, IMHO.

 

[SpicyMama38]

No. I had a quite embarrassing experience trying to communicate my needs to my partner, so I keep my needs hidden from those close to me.

 

[tabber]

Only my best friend knows

My theory I've learned after working with teenagers and young women for years: You can tell your best friend your secret, knowing you can trust her with anything. BUT she will tell one of her best friends YOUR secret because she can trust her with anything. Then that friend tells HER bestie...and it goes on and on. Soon, everyone knows your secret, but they're all "keeping it."

 

[Boat1]

My theory I've learned after working with teenagers and young women for years: You can tell your best friend your secret, knowing you can trust her with anything. BUT she will tell one of her best friends YOUR secret because she can trust her with anything. Then that friend tells HER bestie...and it goes on and on. Soon, everyone knows your secret, but they're all "keeping it."

That's where I'm soooo blessed to have the Lovely Domme Wife that I do... I'm soooo proud of Her, proud to be Hers, that she could put it on a billboard, or truss me up and whip me on the town square and I'd be just fine with it!