BDSM under 40 ?

[FurryFury]

As far as my comments in this thread goes, I'm speaking about "parties" in the scene sense of the word, so not too much drinking or dancing going on. Lots of hitting and rope into the wee hours of the morning, though.

That's the way my local kink events go. No dancing at all. Very little drinking, usually at a restaurant before the demo and very few indulge.

Demo

Play party.

No intercourse but kink activities at play party.

There are some young people and some older people. I'd be one of the older people.

 

[Myskaninen]

I am 26 and been doing it for a few years
and I think that it does not so much have to do with age for submissive people to get atracted to us dominant... it have to do with our bodylanguage and charisma but that is just my thoughts so...

 

[Homburg]

As far as my comments in this thread goes, I'm speaking about "parties" in the scene sense of the word, so not too much drinking or dancing going on. Lots of hitting and rope into the wee hours of the morning, though.

I gotcha. I get those. It's the vanilla party that I don't get. I can find much more interesting ways of hanging out with my friends than drinking.