BDSM while pregnant

[LunarKitten]

**Puts on cute little nurse uniform**

Can i just give some general med. advice about pregnancy/impact/and orgasms?

Spanking will not directly harm the baby. However, once you start showing you will want to avoid laying on your stomach for extended periods of time. The combination of laying on your belly and spanking at the same time could cause problems with your uterus...which will already be very swollen. An irritated uterus can cause contractions and preterm birth.

Be aware that the further along you are in pregnancy the less iron you have in your blood and therefore you will bruise more easily.

On that note...PLEASE tell your OB of your behavior. Why, you ask? Because the laws for reporting "signs of abuse" for pregnant women are VERY VERY VERY strict. Bruises/welts etc...would get a call to the local police as well as child protective services. Don't be embarrassed to say something....Trust me..we have heard it all.

As for orgasms...Orgasms after 34 weeks of pregnancy have been known to bring on labor. The rhythmic contractions you feel while having the orgasm stimulate the uterus and can lead to labor...

Thanks for the advise. Unfortunately, we live in such a tiny, tiny lil town, word would get around if we told our OB. So, like with our last pregnancy, we're just planning to do only lite play that will definately make NO marks.

Oh, when you get larger and are going for spankings, using the body pillows to support your weight work wonders!

 

[LunarKitten]

Thanks for the link.

I don't know if it's safe (possibly/probably not) but I love how Japanese Rope Bondage looks, and I think it would particularly erotic on a 3rd trimester woman (myself, if I were lucky).

With our last pregnancy we were able to do a little of this, just make sure to keep the knots loose. Not as pretty as tight ones, but it's still a rush for those rope sluts amongst us.

 

[BiaTcHiNFiRe]

Could you please tell me whats safe to do and whats not??

I am in a 36th week now. My pregnancy is going well and I feel just fine. My Sir is afraid the kind of orgasms I am having with him could trriger the preterm birth.

What would you do please and what you wouldnt do?? I am not penetrating my pussy at all right now, but I dont need that to cum with him. I can cum with him without a touch so I dont mind if I cannot use my toys right now. Is it okay if we still play or you would stop it all? How would you play and what would you do???

Most of you know I am in a online D/s relationship, so its not like my Sir could fuck me hard. I wont fuck myself hard with my toys either, but should we be scared even of my orgasms?? I cannot really imagine not to get used in any way for the 4 weeks thats left and then the 6 more after the labor cuz of the bleeding.

When I was pregant with my lil girl I was over 40th week and the doc's even told me to fuck more to trigger the labor. It didnt help tho, so they had to induce the labor anyways. But as my Sir said I've never orgasm with my ex yes, so I dunno what an intense orgasm could do to me. I've had lots of orgasms on my own many times tho and I no premature birth happened, so I think I would be okay. My gyno doc saying my pregnancy going well and he didnt said anything like I couldnt fuck or orgasm.

This will be my second labor so guess things will go a bit faster than with my first child, but I would still like to play, somehow, not really sure how atm tho????

Any advice to calm down ours fears would be appreciated!!
Thank you

 

[insertcutename]

It's funny. I haven't logged in to this site in a while, and I was just thinking the other day about trying to find this thread. I'm 28 weeks along in my first pregnancy, so I'm pretty much thinking anything I do is hurting the baby.

I've gone over this site and a few others, and I find a lot about the spanking and bondage, but nothing about breath play, which is my personal favourite. The other night, the baby Daddy and I got into it a bit, and I was wondering if it might harm the baby?

 

[nh23]

It's funny. I haven't logged in to this site in a while, and I was just thinking the other day about trying to find this thread. I'm 28 weeks along in my first pregnancy, so I'm pretty much thinking anything I do is hurting the baby.

I've gone over this site and a few others, and I find a lot about the spanking and bondage, but nothing about breath play, which is my personal favourite. The other night, the baby Daddy and I got into it a bit, and I was wondering if it might harm the baby?

I adore breath play! But..being pregnant..I wouldn't recommend it at all..When your oxygen supply is cut off it's also cutting off the oxygen supply to the baby. We know the risks and choose to take them for ourselves..but when you're involving a baby..it's a different ballgame IMO. It's a risk I take for myself often..not one I would be willing to take with my child.

 

[HottieMama]

It's funny. I haven't logged in to this site in a while, and I was just thinking the other day about trying to find this thread. I'm 28 weeks along in my first pregnancy, so I'm pretty much thinking anything I do is hurting the baby.

I've gone over this site and a few others, and I find a lot about the spanking and bondage, but nothing about breath play, which is my personal favourite. The other night, the baby Daddy and I got into it a bit, and I was wondering if it might harm the baby?

Like nh said, when you deprive yourself of oxygen, you also deprive the baby of oxygen. i wouldn't recommend breathplay to anyone in any stage of pregnancy.

 

[graceanne]

Like nh said, when you deprive yourself of oxygen, you also deprive the baby of oxygen. i wouldn't recommend breathplay to anyone in any stage of pregnancy.

I second this - and I love breath play.

 

[myinnerslut]

Could you please tell me whats safe to do and whats not??

I am in a 36th week now. My pregnancy is going well and I feel just fine. My Sir is afraid the kind of orgasms I am having with him could trriger the preterm birth.

What would you do please and what you wouldnt do?? I am not penetrating my pussy at all right now, but I dont need that to cum with him. I can cum with him without a touch so I dont mind if I cannot use my toys right now. Is it okay if we still play or you would stop it all? How would you play and what would you do???

Most of you know I am in a online D/s relationship, so its not like my Sir could fuck me hard. I wont fuck myself hard with my toys either, but should we be scared even of my orgasms?? I cannot really imagine not to get used in any way for the 4 weeks thats left and then the 6 more after the labor cuz of the bleeding.

When I was pregant with my lil girl I was over 40th week and the doc's even told me to fuck more to trigger the labor. It didnt help tho, so they had to induce the labor anyways. But as my Sir said I've never orgasm with my ex yes, so I dunno what an intense orgasm could do to me. I've had lots of orgasms on my own many times tho and I no premature birth happened, so I think I would be okay. My gyno doc saying my pregnancy going well and he didnt said anything like I couldnt fuck or orgasm.

This will be my second labor so guess things will go a bit faster than with my first child, but I would still like to play, somehow, not really sure how atm tho????

Any advice to calm down ours fears would be appreciated!!
Thank you

i just did a quick google search and i found this. i hope it helps

http://www.pregnancy-info.net/sex_orgasm.html

 

[twysted73]

Medically speaking, so long as breathplay isn't included, it would be no different to the baby then, say, tennis or aerobics. The baby certainly has enough protection.
And those happy hormones would be no different then sex during pregnancy.

I fully endorse it. 100%

I wonder if such activity has developmental effect on the baby's personality and preference-wise.
I have so many theories on that.....

Even if it did, I think you'd be benefitting the child. Condition baby to be happy when endorphins are released from the pain.

This would make a good thread. "Developmental Effects of S & M on the Unborn". I cannot imagine anything harmful other then asphyxiation. (and, well, to include the harder edges of rough play as well as direct blows to the stomach obviously)

 

[BiaTcHiNFiRe]

i just did a quick google search and i found this. i hope it helps

http://www.pregnancy-info.net/sex_orgasm.html

Thank you so much myinnerslut!!

The link you found helps alot!! same as the advice nh23, HottieMama and others have given in this thread some time ago. I have read this thread several times, but since some said its safe and some that it can trigger preterm birth I wasnt sure and asked for more info about orgasms during the pregnancy. The article you have found gives alot on info I needed, thank you.

Now I will show this article and this thread to my Sir and let him decide whether its safe to play right now or not.

Thank you all for help!!

 

[myinnerslut]

Thank you so much myinnerslut!!

The link you found helps alot!! same as the advice nh23, HottieMama and others have given in this thread some time ago. I have read this thread several times, but since some said its safe and some that it can trigger preterm birth I wasnt sure and asked for more info about orgasms during the pregnancy. The article you have found gives alot on info I needed, thank you.

Now I will show this article and this thread to my Sir and let him decide whether its safe to play right now or not.

Thank you all for help!!

glad to be of help.

let us know how things turn out. do you know if its a boy or a girl?

 

[BiaTcHiNFiRe]

glad to be of help.

let us know how things turn out. do you know if its a boy or a girl?

It should be a girl again, but I will know for sure in few weeks once its born I would say.

As for the orgasms during the play time we didnt have time to discuss it with my Sir yet, but we will talk about it tonight or tomorrow I think. They had to induce my first labor and it sucked bigtime I must say, I am not fancy to go thro that again at all, so once I am 40 week I think I will even want to trigger the labor somehow so it came natural way without help of the doc's cuz I think its less painfull than inducted labor, at least they say so, dunno.

For now I dont wanna trigger the birth just yet, but in few weeks I wont mind if it started after some intense orgasm. I will give birth soon this way or another and honeslty I prefer this way than to have the labor inducted again. Will see how things go. I hope it will come natural way to me this time, it would be nice.

 

[Xantu]

http://www.medicinenet.com/script/main/art.asp?articlekey=62338

Was doing some research on a story and ran across this. A new study about the risk of sex inducing labor. Very interesting.

I also read that nipple play causes uterine contractions and while I could not find any scientific data about that.

 

[LunarKitten]

It's funny. I haven't logged in to this site in a while, and I was just thinking the other day about trying to find this thread. I'm 28 weeks along in my first pregnancy, so I'm pretty much thinking anything I do is hurting the baby.

I've gone over this site and a few others, and I find a lot about the spanking and bondage, but nothing about breath play, which is my personal favourite. The other night, the baby Daddy and I got into it a bit, and I was wondering if it might harm the baby?

Breath play I would not advise. I have not spoken to my doctor about it, but I do have asthma. With asthma it will either get worse, get better or stay the same. With my last two pregnancies it has gotten slightly worse. The doctor was very concerned with my last pregnancy when I had a major attack, because oxygen deprivation for you is even worse for the baby.

My suggestion would be to do very light play, where the breath isn't cut off, but you still get the sensation of his hands, or other objects, around you throat or mouth and nose (there are so many different ways for breath play I don't pretend to know how ya'll prefer it).