Honestly the first time maybe a couple that I've at least talked with and got to know a little. Just in case I changed my mind and couldn't go thru with it. Heck I don't know really, it's confusing which would be safer and less embarrassing if I couldn't do it.
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Honestly the first time maybe a couple that I've at least talked with and got to know a little. Just in case I changed my mind and couldn't go thru with it. Heck I don't know really, it's confusing which would be safer and less embarrassing if I couldn't do it.
I'm like you guys, have an increasingly burning tantasy/desire to find or "pick up" a mature MF couple and engage in my first MMF. Ain't going to happen with my wife, so not likely to happen, unless I can get myself on the road for business again!
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I have been married for many years when I recognized I had developed gay desires. For several years I did not act in the desires, but finally I knew I had to have sex with a man. During this period marital sex had become less frequent and less satisfying.
I told my wife about my desires. Her first reaction was negative but not extremely so. We had many discussions. About a month later she told me I needed to act on my gay desires so we could see if we could fit then in our relationship. I had my first sexual experience with a man, and it confirmed I was bi. I knew I would do it again.
As my wife and I discussed the experience she clearly became sexually excited, and we had the most exciting sex we had had for a long time. She told me my honesty was mote important than my gay sexual desires.
I have been married for many years when I recognized I had developed gay desires. For several years I did not act in the desires, but finally I knew I had to have sex with a man. During this period marital sex had become less frequent and less satisfying.
I told my wife about my desires. Her first reaction was negative but not extremely so. We had many discussions. About a month later she told me I needed to act on my gay desires so we could see if we could fit then in our relationship. I had my first sexual experience with a man, and it confirmed I was bi. I knew I would do it again.
As my wife and I discussed the experience she clearly became sexually excited, and we had the most exciting sex we had had for a long time. She told me my honesty was mote important than my gay sexual desires.
Yeah I mentioned it once and went very bad, so never approached it again.
I'M RIGHT HERE!!Yeah i just dont see that conversation going well with me either.
We havn't had sex in 15 years and for the past year we havn't even hardly touched each other, kissing, hugging, etc.
I just wish a had a trusted friend or a neighbor with benefits to play with.
a guy in a similar situation as myself. needing sex but not getting any who has always been curious about enjoying another guys cock and body
Same as you but only 10 years no sex.
Presuming you're putting in an honest effort, having date nights, foreplay and still have a good relationship otherwise, she should probably talk to her doctor about that. Switching my wife's birth control made a huge difference in her sex drive.
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I wish we were all neighbors.
now wouldn't that be hot fun.
We could have a guys poker night.
No ladies allowed
Hum, I kinda like that idea.
The same here my friend, it's sad indeed.
It would be a good cover for keeping it from the wives.
Wouldn't have to tell em it was strip poker
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It would be a good cover for keeping it from the wives.
Wow! What a interesting time that would be.
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hey...
YEAH!!!
Thats my wife always wanting to give me a case of the "gets".
Get up
Get on
Get off!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
YEAH!!!
Thats my wife always wanting to give me a case of the "gets".
Get up
Get on
Get off!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Well can I jump in this boat? My wife has always known I've had fantasies about other guys fucking her, and she use to play along when I'd mention some other guy we know fucking her. The sex was pretty good back then, then she did it, WOW! we had a few 3sums years ago with a friend of mine, that was SO HOT! sharing my wife. So you'd think she'd still want it even in our 60's now. But she started to quit on me in our early 50's, still fooled around a little like once every couple weeks, but stopped the intercourse over 10 years ago.
I started having gay fantasies 10 years ago, and they just get stronger, and stronger. Now I love to masturbate more to gay sex then thinking of those guys fucking my wife. There are a few guys I know, and love to imagine being on my knees being their cock sucking bitch. I believe I'd LOVE! sucking those guys cocks, even being a sissy girl for them. My wife has no idea I have these jacking off fantasies.
Like so many said on here, I HATE! asking for sex, and getting that look. We stopped doing it at night years ago, so it was in the morning after we get up then go back to bed after a hour or two. I ask, and get that look, "really, I guess, lets get you off so we can get our day started.
I like others, would love to find a guy close by to try playing with on the side. Knowing for sure if I'm a faggot, I know I am when I watch gay porn.
I started having gay fantasies 10 years ago, and they just get stronger, and stronger. Now I love to masturbate more to gay sex then thinking of those guys fucking my wife. There are a few guys I know, and love to imagine being on my knees being their cock sucking bitch. I believe I'd LOVE! sucking those guys cocks, even being a sissy girl for them. My wife has no idea I have these jacking off fantasies.
Like so many said on here, I HATE! asking for sex, and getting that look. We stopped doing it at night years ago, so it was in the morning after we get up then go back to bed after a hour or two. I ask, and get that look, "really, I guess, lets get you off so we can get our day started.
I like others, would love to find a guy close by to try playing with on the side. Knowing for sure if I'm a faggot, I know I am when I watch gay porn.
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My wife and I had a good sex life for many, many years, but as with most of the guys on this forum, it started to go downhill into our 50's. I had never considered myself anything other than heterosexual with a major cuckold fantasy. (This is probably where the bi fantasy came from) When my wife's libido dropped off the charts, I was still needing sex. We rarely disagreed about anything other than our bedroom activities. Having her hike up her nightgown over her waist and telling me to 'climb aboard', once a month, was not my idea of a great sex life. Around the age of 60, a female chat friend got me thinking about bisexual activities, specifically cock sucking. It took another 5 years to actually find a suitable buddy to suck on, but I finally did it. It has been over 6 years since my wife and I had sex, but I have sucked several cocks since then. I wish that I didn't have to keep my bi sex a secret, but there is no way I could tell her and expect her to accept it.
My wife would never understand either, No way would I tell her I jack off thinking of sucking a few guys I know. That it gets me so hard and excited thinking of them fucking my mouth.
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I know the feeling. Most of my masturbation sessions are centered around two main themes. My wife getting fucked by a well hung stud, and me sucking his cock. These themes contain various degrees of both. My wife knows of my desire to watch her with a stud, but has no idea about my sucking cock.
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Wow! Reading all of these responses makes me glad my wife is bi too and I don't have to hide anything from her.
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That seems to be a common theme at a certain point in more than a few marriages... guess it doesn't take too long to start being interested in other avenues
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Obvious, really
if you love sex and you can't have cunt, sooner or later you're going to want cock. Sadly, in my case, later.
if you love sex and you can't have cunt, sooner or later you're going to want cock. Sadly, in my case, later.
We had an awesome sex life!! Lots of kinky shit! Even plying with other couples but just like the rest of you once she reached her 50s she’s had no interest! I still very horny all the time! I was always interested in bi play but now it’s almost all I want to do!!! Just have to find someone that wants to play!!!!
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There definitely seems to be a lot of us in the same boat. Never done anything like this before but definitely very, VERY, curious! Still looking for that special friend to have a little fun with!
There definitely seems to be a lot of us in the same boat. Never done anything like this before but definitely very, VERY, curious! Still looking for that special friend to have a little fun with!
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While I would never suggest that someone leap into this until they are quite ready, I have to say that I sucked my first cock at the age of 65 and my only regret is that I waited for so long. It's not for everybody, but it sure is for me.
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