Bi Married and closeted

[johnsmith01]

I’m in the same situation. Only chatted with other cd’s. It gets me so hot.

I'd love a chat, perhaps share some fantasies

 

[newhere2learn]

I'd love a chat, perhaps share some fantasies

I'd love a coffee and a chat, then a hotel room

 

[darthanius]

My wife knows, as does one friend of hers and her husband. Well, and the guys I've played with (A couple of whom also fucked my wife...)

 

[juliexcd]

same here but im the cd. love to chat and?

 

[hornyguy888]

I'm curious, wife surely doesn't know

 

[cruzn2u2]

anyone in Augusta Ga?

Visiting this week on business. Can host

 

[cuck72]

thinking of being a guys GF

I was always straight, but over the last few years I've been having more and more gay fantasies. It excites me about being a submissive bottom only, and thinking of guys I know. I even watch straight porn, but think of myself being the girl in the video and get so hard. I like thinking I'm the girl with a guy. Do other bi men get to feeling like a GF with a guy?

 

[Aspen4U]

We are not alone

How many are similar to me in that this and reading the stories becomes your outlet?
58 orally bi mwm who is overly cautious almost paranoid about meeting someone and the repercussions of coming out are more than I wish to deal with.

I can;t be alone in this

Same as you, maybe some sexy chat?

 

[namron711]

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Same as you, maybe some sexy chat?

Same here.

 

[jackielicker]

I was always straight, but over the last few years I've been having more and more gay fantasies. It excites me about being a submissive bottom only, and thinking of guys I know. I even watch straight porn, but think of myself being the girl in the video and get so hard. I like thinking I'm the girl with a guy. Do other bi men get to feeling like a GF with a guy?

Whenever I watched porn, or looked at pics of couples, I always imagined being in the girl role. Still do.

 

[nightjack]

I may have commented in this thread before.

I "came out" to my wife a couple of years ago, mentioning my desire to suck cock. In short it was a huge mistake for us. I have since, been labelled as gay (which I am not) and our marriage has deteriorated significantly since.

We are in a difficult place at the moment and I am seriously considering whether or not to remain with her.

The downside of this is that I will lose my life partner and a friendship that I value.

If there is an upside, then I guess I can really be who I am.

It's such a shame that I didn't really fully understand myself before I married my wife, as this hurt could have been lessened for all of us.

 

[sterculius]

I may have commented in this thread before.

I "came out" to my wife a couple of years ago, mentioning my desire to suck cock. In short it was a huge mistake for us. I have since, been labelled as gay (which I am not) and our marriage has deteriorated significantly since.

We are in a difficult place at the moment and I am seriously considering whether or not to remain with her.

The downside of this is that I will lose my life partner and a friendship that I value.

If there is an upside, then I guess I can really be who I am.

It's such a shame that I didn't really fully understand myself before I married my wife, as this hurt could have been lessened for all of us.

I did this too with my wife. I admitted to her that as a teenager I used to like giving blowjobs to my best friend Larry. I told her he had a very big cock, much bigger than my small one and he liked forcing it all the way down my throat and I liked letting him do it. She attributed this to adolescent sexual experimentation, but her attitude towards me has changed since my confession. I think she no longer respects me.

 

[load69]

How many are similar to me in that this and reading the stories becomes your outlet?
58 orally bi mwm who is overly cautious almost paranoid about meeting someone and the repercussions of coming out are more than I wish to deal with.

I can;t be alone in this

Count me in.....I wish I could be a little less cautious as then maybe I could get a cock in my mouth

 

[Hitchiker69]

How many are similar to me in that this and reading the stories becomes your outlet?
58 orally bi mwm who is overly cautious almost paranoid about meeting someone and the repercussions of coming out are more than I wish to deal with.

I can;t be alone in this

I have too much to lose by coming out. I cope with my sexual needs by using memories of what I did in my youth, fantasies of what I might have done, and what I would do if my circumstances were different.
And I stroke myself while browsing this site, and others.

 

[simpledude]

Very curious. Fantasy being to be owned and used by a couple as they please.
Wish I had someone to introduce me to, nice and slow here.
Very curious.

 

[CuriousTxGuy]

I may have commented in this thread before.

I "came out" to my wife a couple of years ago, mentioning my desire to suck cock. In short it was a huge mistake for us. I have since, been labelled as gay (which I am not) and our marriage has deteriorated significantly since.

We are in a difficult place at the moment and I am seriously considering whether or not to remain with her.

The downside of this is that I will lose my life partner and a friendship that I value.

If there is an upside, then I guess I can really be who I am.

It's such a shame that I didn't really fully understand myself before I married my wife, as this hurt could have been lessened for all of us.

One approach would be to double down. For example you could tell her today's fantasy is that she does two guys. Another day tell her today's fantasy is that you were getting sucked off by a girl while you were doing a blowjob.

If possible combine these with real sex with her.

The goal would be to get her to see your previous confession as part of a larger fantasy group.

 

[Dreamer110]

Very curious. Fantasy being to be owned and used by a couple as they please.
Wish I had someone to introduce me to, nice and slow here.
Very curious.

Just what I'm looking for. Now to convince the wife. Lol

 

[simpledude]

Just what I'm looking for. Now to convince the wife. Lol

Not that I have experience in how to go about it, maybe you should start with introducing her to porn, then girl on girl which I find is easier than for guys and then slowly turn tables. Something like that.

 

[darthanius]

Very curious. Fantasy being to be owned and used by a couple as they please.
Wish I had someone to introduce me to, nice and slow here.
Very curious.

Sounds like you need to visit my wife and I...

 

[klippert]

How many are similar to me in that this and reading the stories becomes your outlet?
58 orally bi mwm who is overly cautious almost paranoid about meeting someone and the repercussions of coming out are more than I wish to deal with.

I can;t be alone in this

You are not alone. Don’t let it consume you.

 

[Dreamer110]

Not that I have experience in how to go about it, maybe you should start with introducing her to porn, then girl on girl which I find is easier than for guys and then slowly turn tables. Something like that.

Lol. Trust me she doesn't need any instructions.

 

[simpledude]

I don't follow. I thought you said she needed convincing.

 

[Dreamer110]

I don't follow. I thought you said she needed convincing.

For maybe mmf. We've tried many other options.

 

[LanaBehave]

and closet crossdresser

How many are similar to me in that this and reading the stories becomes your outlet?
58 orally bi mwm who is overly cautious almost paranoid about meeting someone and the repercussions of coming out are more than I wish to deal with.

I can;t be alone in this

Yes, the stories really resonate. Since I'm a CD as well as bi-curious, the ones in the T&C section especially. I find also that writing my own, giving my own perspective also helps release my secret thoughts. Occasionally I post one here on the story side. And I just love all these forums.

 

[paulman999]

Yes, the stories really resonate. Since I'm a CD as well as bi-curious, the ones in the T&C section especially. I find also that writing my own, giving my own perspective also helps release my secret thoughts. Occasionally I post one here on the story side. And I just love all these forums.

We are all in the same boat it seems