Bi Married and closeted

[Ralncnewby]

Same here, no sex in the marriage, get a little crazed at times. Have talked online to many guys, had many chances. Have pissed off a few when I couldn’t meet them. Something is stopping me. Wife is currently out of town. I could meet someone today or tonight...something about crossing that line i guess. I’m not attracted to men but the idea of getting a slow sexy sucking, mmmm then hopefully trying it myself. I wish I could do this.

 

[pokeyride]

I am in the boat as the rest of you, except I am not married any longer.

 

[starider07]

Same here, no sex in the marriage, get a little crazed at times. Have talked online to many guys, had many chances. Have pissed off a few when I couldn’t meet them. Something is stopping me. Wife is currently out of town. I could meet someone today or tonight...something about crossing that line i guess. I’m not attracted to men but the idea of getting a slow sexy sucking, mmmm then hopefully trying it myself. I wish I could do this.

You can't let societies viewpoint sway you on what you like or even want to try. Don't worry about silly labels others speak of. Don't want to be caught ? Don't get caught. Be discrete. Much like music and food, we all have different tastes in things. I say you want it, try it. Don't hold back. Imagine never trying you favorite desert or main course. Not listening to your favorite music. It's that simple.
A sexy woman once told me, "Imagine your sex life is a massive adult themed amusement park. Go into it like a kid. Try every single ride and more than once just to be fair"
Many times we shy away from things in fear of stupid stuff. What's going to happen if you don't try what you desire ? You will carry on as usual. But that desire will pop back in from time to time acting like a nasty little demon, haunting you. Going away only to return later again and again. Eventually leaving you with the regret of not trying it when you have a chance. Haunting you forever.
What if you try it ?
Well you try it once and you will know if you want it again. If you don't like it, well at least you tried it and found out for sure. You will never regret at least trying it.
If you end up loving it then denying yourself all this time will seem so very stupid, and you will likely do it when you can from that point forward having discovered a new great pleasure, Win win in my book.

If you try it, whether you like it or not, no regrets.
If you don't try it, at some point you will regret never trying it. Regrets are forever. You really want that demon haunting you forever over something so easy and fun ??

 

[Ralncnewby]

Thanks star rider of course you are right. That’s why I get so weird that why can’t I just go with it? I’ll keep looking and see if I can find the right guy.

 

[namron711]

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Searching in Chicago.

 

[LanaBehave]

We are all in the same boat it seems

You brought up boats. Not once, but twice, I have had quite intense thrills in a boat. The thought triggered & brought back the memory...

 

[simpledude]

You brought up boats. Not once, but twice, I have had quite intense thrills in a boat. The thought triggered & brought back the memory...

Do share

 

[VeraBad]

And your wives don't know?

I guess a wife who encourages you would be a good role play for a lot of you? Maybe not?

 

[jamesx1x1]

I was married for four years before a divorce. The urge to sleep with men never stopped. I did cheat with a guy who had so much great sex with me he fully made me realize I am bi.

Irony is I am divorced, but she never found about the bisexuality.

Now I would like to meet a guy, even have a boyfriend, but they are still very hard to find...

I would love consistent access to a hard sexy cock..

 

[simpledude]

I was married for four years before a divorce. The urge to sleep with men never stopped. I did cheat with a guy who had so much great sex with me he fully made me realize I am bi.

Irony is I am divorced, but she never found about the bisexuality.

Now I would like to meet a guy, even have a boyfriend, but they are still very hard to find...

I would love consistent access to a hard sexy cock..

Good luck james

 

[jamesx1x1]

Good luck james

Thanks you.....now I have fighting chance anyway...

 

[cuckoldbill]

I guess a wife who encourages you would be a good role play for a lot of you? Maybe not?

It certainly works for me. Wife encourages me to dress whenever I want. Also takes me shopping for panties etc

 

[SparkyMark1961]

It certainly works for me. Wife encourages me to dress whenever I want. Also takes me shopping for panties etc

WOW! I would love to have my wife encourage me to cross dress. I have a fantasy of her helping me get dressed to the 9s with make up and a sexy dress and the two of us going out as two girls. Meeting up with a couple dudes and making out before taking them both back to our place to have sex with each and every one of them.

 

[MrSparky3779]

*****

 

[Smoothshavendad]

Never thought I would be bi or curious. But years of being married has made me curious. Maybe it has to do with a wife who just isn't that into sex. And realizing that when talking to guys they are going through the same thing and plenty of guys out there looking for some fun. Not looking at leaving their marriage or anything, but looking for a release. So has gotten me curious and started looking at pics which makes me want it more. And only one person knows in my real life that I am looking to try. 39 MWM IL

I know the feeling well!

 

[uboat1]

I've never had an experience but I wrote a story about an ideal situation for me to experience this fantasy.

https://www.literotica.com/s/lake-house-awakening


Would love comments!

I have read it a couple of times and have JO many times. Loved how you build the characters and intertwine the stories. Great Job!

 

[Imaverycuriousguy]

Read Your Story

I've never had an experience but I wrote a story about an ideal situation for me to experience this fantasy.

https://www.literotica.com/s/lake-house-awakening


Would love comments!

Read and left a comment after I cleaned my sticky fingers off. Well written and very arousing.

 

[Bigspurt]

Never thought I would be bi or curious. But years of being married has made me curious. Maybe it has to do with a wife who just isn't that into sex. And realizing that when talking to guys they are going through the same thing and plenty of guys out there looking for some fun. Not looking at leaving their marriage or anything, but looking for a release. So has gotten me curious and started looking at pics which makes me want it more. And only one person knows in my real life that I am looking to try. 39 MWM IL

What I think is that men love to get a BJ and it is much more likely to get it from another guy than a woman. In my little town in Ohio, there are places where men park, backing into a parking space and I don't think that they are reading a book. I have never done it but it looks to be pretty easy to meet up. Periodically the police sweep through some of these places and arrest those who are exposed in their cars, but this one spot I drive by often almost always has someone there.
When I was in college an acquainted, opened up a bath house. He is dead. HIV Aids. men are just more promiscuous.

 

[mtsnowrider]

We are all in the same boat it seems

I guess it's a very big boat

 

[Bunganut]

I am married and bicurious I guess. No interest in men romantically. Just sexually. I’ve been with two guys. One just oral. The other total sex, and possibly the best I ever had. Kissing, nipple play, oral, and anal. Oh my. Balls deep in my ass. Amazing feeling. Haven’t swallowed a guys load yet, but am craving it. Would like to top. Wife knows I’ve been with guy so I guess I’m outted to her. Would love to MMf with her.

 

[fitandfresh]

WOW! my wife and I also in our early 60's, and our sex life is the same as yours. I need these sites to get my overpowering relief of my bi cuckold fantasies out. My wife knows I think of other men fucking her, men we both know, and them cuckolding me. I'll be eating her and say " I love eating your cum dripping pussy," thinking that another guy just fucked her. She doesn't say anything. And she has NO idea I think of sucking cocks too, and get off on gay porn. And wearing her panties.

Join the club buddy.....the older I have got the more I have thought about a bit of mutual stroking and perhaps more with another mature male.......hmmmmm

 

[DaxonRuss]

I think i'm in this club. No one knows i'm curious or interested in trying with a man. But want too badly. And keep it secret.

 

[JtheKidd]

Same here

I feel the same as many others on here. Would love to talk to others about this subject!

 

[Bizguyatx]

You are describing my exact same situation and feelings. Even the same age!

Add me to the club! Mwm who has been playing orally for about 7 years. Wife does not know and I would hate to hurt her, But our sex life is lacking and thus has been an outlet for me to reduce stress

Craigslist going away has been a blessing and curse. I’ve missed hooking up while traveling on business by finding other middle aged guys who have a bi side. Adam for Adam is ok, but not as good as craigslist was for me. Would love a regular fwb but it’s tough to do.

I’d love to talk to others who have these feelings, are married, and struggle sometimes with it. There are a lot of us out there.

 

[Trimjob69]

Add me to the club! Mwm who has been playing orally for about 7 years. Wife does not know and I would hate to hurt her, But our sex life is lacking and thus has been an outlet for me to reduce stress

Craigslist going away has been a blessing and curse. I’ve missed hooking up while traveling on business by finding other middle aged guys who have a bi side. Adam for Adam is ok, but not as good as craigslist was for me. Would love a regular fwb but it’s tough to do.

I’d love to talk to others who have these feelings, are married, and struggle sometimes with it. There are a lot of us out there.

Right there with you