Bisexual or bicurious women.

Happy Friday, gal pals! Can I get anyone a drink or a smooch to kick off the weekend right?
 
I'm curious about folks that are married and realized after that they are bisexual. I fantasize about women a lot and watch lesbian and bisexual porn and feel really great about it, and while I don't really want to change anything about my marriage, I'm curious about how you integrate your bisexual desires and fantasies into your sex. I've thought about adding in some porn I like, or by just ⏯️ ng out fantasy in my mind, but curious if you all have found other satisfying ways to lean into that part of you without opening up your relationship.

Hi BackwoodsMama,

I guess my first question is: have you brought it up with your husband yet? It's really the only way you might ever be able to be able to express your bisexual desires without wading into the waters of cheating, or without other changes in your life and marriage. Open communication is key.

I've had friends who've been in your shoes. The female friend eventually worked up the courage to tell her husband. He was fine with it, within boundaries. They were then part of a healthy and functioning throuple for years after that, and even when the third went her separate way eventually, the couple came out of it with a healthier relationship because of what they'd shared.

I realize not everyone is that lucky, but it seemed like a good question to start with.

-Diz :rose:
 
Good Morning Sweet Ladies, and happy Monday! :heart::heart: I hope everybody had a great weekend! :):heart:
 
I'm not sure if this is the right place to post this, but I've been feeling pretty bicurious lately and would be interested in chatting/flirting with other women to see how I feel about it. My Kik username is fi0na90.

I hope you're all having a lovely weekend ☺️
 
30, married to a man, definitely curious.
Haven’t really brought it up to hubby yet (but I honestly doubt he would care, if he did he would just find it attractive.) still nervous to bring it up because I’m just curious. Never even so much as kissed another woman, yet when I’m alone and I masturbate or I fantasize it’s always to women.
 
Happy Friday ladies! It’s been a while since I’ve been on, but I haven’t stopped thinking about all of you lovely ladies. Definitely needing some girl time ;)
 
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