Blowjobs... does size matter?

[Diann_Mom]

I've sucked countless cocks from the time of my first at __ years of age up until last Sunday. Size has never been an issue but those monster dicks in porn don't interest me a bit!! My husband is quite well endowed and it is even a little to much to enjoy, but I know he does.

 

[Funsexyguy18]

Average guys are perfect. I can get you all the way in my mouth. You can fuck me without bottoming out and causing pain. you make anal more pleasurable. Be happy you're average.

Well thank you!

 

[P0peye]

When I go out to eat, I like to eat at a restaurant that serves "average" food. And I much prefer"average" tasting wines. I don't want to challenge myself or expand my horizons. Average is good enough.

 

[Yarglenurp]

When I go out to eat, I like to eat at a restaurant that serves "average" food. And I much prefer"average" tasting wines. I don't want to challenge myself or expand my horizons. Average is good enough.

I think I get where you’re coming from… but I want great food. Great chicken tenders, great fries, great burgers. If it was average, I’d just buy from the supermarket frozen aisle.

 

[Prasa]

My wife confessed that substantial size is enough for her.
I m fortunate to be so.

 

[Sallyhansen6914]

I never was one before to say that it does.. but once I was with a good sized man I felt like it was a joke to even give my husband a BJ

 

[ridemybeard69]

I really do not care about size, as long as we both have a great time.

This is a great attitude to have

 

[6thickinches]

Interesting thread. In this context, what is considered "average"?

 

[GlitterGoth]

Big ones are harder to work with.

Hard agree

 

[blkjames]

Average guys are perfect. I can get you all the way in my mouth. You can fuck me without bottoming out and causing pain. you make anal more pleasurable. Be happy you're average.

I'm out of luck with you then lol

 

[blkjames]

I've sucked countless cocks from the time of my first at __ years of age up until last Sunday. Size has never been an issue but those monster dicks in porn don't interest me a bit!! My husband is quite well endowed and it is even a little to much to enjoy, but I know he does.

Another missed opportunity lol

 

[ZfrkS62]

The quick question:
If you are giving someone a blowjob.. do you care what size cock it is?

Ok, look, I've been around Lit a long time. I had an account before this one that I gave up in the divorce (more or less). So, I know... Lit has collectively agreed that, for the most part, anything in the normal range is good enough (and often preferred) for most activities. But tonight, I was chatting with a guy, and in the course of some innuendo, ended up talking about size. I was working on something real-life related and was grumping that it was too big, and he, of course, said he didn't think I'd ever make that complaint. I said, "I dunno, maybe in the case of a blowjob smaller is easier... and I don't think you lose out on anything..." He asked, "You dont want that hole to feel full?" Frankly, no, but also, I had never thought about it that way. Now, I am interested; what say the rest of you?

I've not read through all of the responses, so I may be repeating someone's answers here, but as someone who has never been in the same room as a naked cock outside of a locker room, let alone tried to suck one, I'd have to say anything significantly larger/girther than average would be extremely intimidating to start out on, and would be a skill that would need to be worked up to.

You didn't go through driver's ed in an 18 wheeler, so why would your first cock be 10 inches?

 

[HollyS]

I have more problem with extreme girth than length. It hurts my jaw, it's hard to avoid scraping my teeth, and I just can't fit it down my throat.

As long as the diameter is average or below, then I'm happy. Length really doesn't matter if I can take down my throat. I don't really gag easily.

As far as the definition of average? I don't really know. I only know what I've experienced, and most of the guys have been pretty similar in girth, so that's what I think of as average. It's not porn-size, that's for sure, lol.

 

[Lucy_Lastic]

I'm out of luck with you then lol

This is the issue. In my experience guys with big cocks tend to be somewhat ego driven and they think having a big cock is a substitute for being good in bed.

 

[CuriousJInLA]

This is the issue. In my experience guys with big cocks tend to be somewhat ego driven and they think having a big cock is a substitute for being good in bed.

Chalk up a win for average length and girth!

 

[Lucy_Lastic]

Yay for the average guy. You try harder.

 

[CuriousJInLA]

Yay for the average guy. You try harder.

I think that’s true. I’ve had a lot of partners, and I’m always self conscious that they want more (FTR 6” cut regular girth). I know by all accounts that’s within the “average,” but yeah I want to do everything I can to make my partner love the experience. If they’re not satisfied I feel inadequate

 

[Lucy_Lastic]

I think maybe you imagine they want more. Average is designed to be a perfect fit. I love it when I'm with an experienced guys (usually older) who knows how to read my body and how to get the most out of it.

I've had a lot of partners (I escorted for a while, not proud of it, not ashamed either) and I never once wished they had more, several times wished for less.

 

[CuriousJInLA]

It’s refreshing to hear that. I mean don’t get me wrong I actually love going down and engaging in all things erotic, but it’s nice to hear

 

[30bandits]

I have more problem with extreme girth than length. It hurts my jaw, it's hard to avoid scraping my teeth, and I just can't fit it down my throat.

As long as the diameter is average or below, then I'm happy. Length really doesn't matter if I can take down my throat. I don't really gag easily.

As far as the definition of average? I don't really know. I only know what I've experienced, and most of the guys have been pretty similar in girth, so that's what I think of as average. It's not porn-size, that's for sure, lol.

i have a perfect size for you hollyS.

 

[blkjames]

This is the issue. In my experience guys with big cocks tend to be somewhat ego driven and they think having a big cock is a substitute for being good in bed.

Don't know how you read anything like that in what I said. I was just joking. Just because I might have a lot to offer doesn't mean I think I am any better or worse then some smaller. Nothing personal here.

 

[HollyS]

i have a perfect size for you hollyS.

I'm never without volunteers, it seems.

 

[JennyCapricorn]

Average guys are perfect. I can get you all the way in my mouth. You can fuck me without bottoming out and causing pain. you make anal more pleasurable. Be happy you're average.

To be honest enormous cocks scare the crap out of me when I first see them. Hubby is average size and it’s wonderful for the number of options and lack of cramping, pain, bottoming out, etc…

Now he does have some cock sheaths that take him to 8” or 9” but still not super girth. And those are great when I’m relax in the mood and super slutty but the 9” bottoms out and hurts afterward unless he’s careful. They do open up some positional options and sometimes I’m so far gone I enjoy the hurt in the moment.

But for every day? Average is best for pretty much anything

 

[JennyCapricorn]

It’s refreshing to hear that. I mean don’t get me wrong I actually love going down and engaging in all things erotic, but it’s nice to hear

You don’t have to hit the bottom of the well as long as you scrape the sides!

 

[Jerryteroga]

From my experience being smaller my wife certainly has no issue fitting it all which is a plus but from what i have noticed she struggles with sometimes not being able to use her hand and mouth at the same time sometimes its limited to one or the other. I have also noticed she often gets hand cramps from not being able to use her whole fish, usually only a few fingers work which causes for an akward position for a period of time. I have heard alot of people say smaller is easier but i have noticed larger causes for alot more arousal for the oral doer possibly leading to further activities afterwards.